Sorry, I misunderstood the context.
sqlite> select * from datetest;
k d
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sqlite> select strftime("%m", substr(d,1,10)||' '||substr(d,-8,8))
...> from datetest;
strftime("%m", substr(d,1,10)||' '||substr(d,-8,8))
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03
sqlite> select abs(strftime("%m", substr(d,1,10)||' '||substr(d,-8,8)))
...> from datetest;
abs(strftime("%m", substr(d,1,10)||' '||substr(d,-8,8)))
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3