I am sure some other beginner has already asked this question. But here I feeling like I am sticking my toe into waters full of sharks!
How do most male and femail dancers of the tango deal with the obvious sensuality of the dance. Do our attractions to the opposite sex cause issues with our own significant others and vise versa? Does jealosy ever enter the picture for some dancers? I danced with the 7 times national ballroom champion from the Soviet Union and there was a lot of complex and negative interactions with her own husband who also danced well but not as well as she could. She preferred to dance with me! There were a lot of eastern Europeans and this private party. Two made comments in from of me about my wife's large and beautiful bossom! Now it is my experience that this is not commonly done in the USA. I took it as rude comments. Is this kind of stuff common around Tango schools and dances? I have had private lessons and have only danced with the lady who worked at the school and a little bit witih a friend. I danced in Turkey but that was rather well organized and people were very polite in asking a person to dance with them. Thanks for the positive feed back. Domenico D Zarlengo
