Thank you very much all those who took time to write good answers ! Now there is a lot of material for thinking !
While in the middle, since I see that I was very unclear in my question, I'd like to clarify ( and I am able to do it thanks to your answers, thank you again ! ) what I feel masculine and feminine power is. Being masculine means when other men, say friends of a dancing men, admire the dancing of the dancing man. And all them want to look and act like him. Probably, it should include confidence, strength, agile movements, control over the situation, and admiring expression of the face of his lady ( an her loving embrace). Inner Men's power is like that - confidence, ability to control the situation, providing freedom and security to his lady, and may be at the same time playfulness, risky, sharp, powerful dancing style - just to prove his mastery in the first group of his abilities: "See? No matter what she dances great!" Shortly, ability to make her dance well with him and to show his friends that it is very easy for him, and at the same time look the way men like. Woman's power is not surrendness ( even though it is a pre-requisite to it, as very well described by Krasimir ). It is ability to control the situation by other means than direct. Ability to influence her man in such a way so that he leads her what she wants and the way she wants. ( Surrender to fool him that that it is he who in control ;) ) Ability to handle the situation no matter what and look like a queen always. Ability to make him dance well with her. Admirers of the good women are... men too. They all want to rush and invite her for dancing. Well, I've just made it up, do not judge severely, Igor Polk _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list [email protected] http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l
