> > As bad as it all is, the only way to prevent it from happening is to not > accept such rude "invitations." But then you are blacklisted. The >
One can argue that being "blacklisted" by these women/men would be a blessing ... I actually don't mind women asking, as long as they understand that asking carries the risk of being rejected. I do ask specific women based on the music, based on my mood, by my energy level, etc. If people would say "No" a lot more, I think things would improve a lot in the north american tango. _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l