"El hombre marca y la mujer sigue"
Dear Sergio,
I hate to have to tell you this but the good 'ol days are going fast...soon
they will be gone.
Didn't we have a woman post her PHD thesis here last month. In which she
tells us how the
old world mentality of male/female roll playing (in the dance and cabeceo)
are just antique
male dominance devices that are now being challenged and defeated even in
BsAs. Then she thanked the Tango-L readers who sent her many 'pro-active'
emails.
I dare say that, in North America, who leads and who follows will soon have
to be negotiated...hence, the confusion. Certainly expecting a woman to follow
everything you
lead, without negotiation first, would be terribly demanding and chauvinistic.
Check your balls, guys.
(this is my last post for the week..I got carried away with three
today...so sorry)
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