I have said it before in this forum - but for me, as a follower, the essence of tango is a warm embrace (I use the baby-holding analogy all the time), confident walk and musicality - that's it. Everything else - the fancy stuff - is fun only when well and safely done, and it's tango only if the basic three elements are there. Otherwise, it's something, but it's not tango - to me.
When new folks show up at milongas for the first time, I like to ask them who they think is the "best" on the floor. Invariably they pick the folks doing the ganchos, high boleos, lots of kicking, etc. When I ask them again after they've actually been dancing for a while, especially followers, they have usually changed their minds and enjoy the connection and quiet, intimate expression that I think of as tango. barbra -----Original Message----- From: June es <[email protected]> To: tango-l <[email protected]> Sent: Wed, Oct 14, 2009 7:32 pm Subject: Re: [Tango-L] To the ladies on Tango-L - What makes for a good dance? Myk, your questions deserve some response. Here's my humble opinion. Embrace. 1. When a leader's embrace is gentle but firm, this provides a sense of security to the follower. When a follower feels secure, that person can follow you better. Gentle and firm sound like a paradoxical situation but I think of being a baby held in someone's arms and feeling secure because the hold is gentle but firm. 2. I also like an embrace that is flexible, allowing the follower to move within the framed space, even in a close embrace. Let me suggest that you think how you like to be held for three minutes or so, and you get the idea that you must be allowed to breath in and out freely when you are in that hold. I always imagine the bandoneon's expansion and compression which is undoubtedly an exaggerated way of looking at how the embracing arm can allow the framed space (and the follower in it) to "breath". Fun moves. They are fun, but the leader must gauge the follower's ability to execute the moves without injury to both dancers and those around them. I enjoy them myself but only if I am confident that the leader has the correct timing and stability to support me. Skill is required from both dancers. Music, music, music. This factor determines whether you walk simply or swirl busily. Let the music be your guide, and respect those around you while lose yourself in the music. I can talk forever about musicality, but I won't do so here. What's regarded a good dance? I dare say it depends on one's mood, so it can vary from one moment to another. At 1am at a milonga I am happy to relax into soft movements. But if a vals is played, I am prepared to dance more expressively. If a leader is sensitive and picks up on the follower's ability and mood, the leader can allow the follower more freedom to determine how she implements his lead. It's about give and take - a converstaion between two people. I hope this helps. _________________________________________________________________ Take a peek at other people's pay and perks Check out The Great Australian Pay Check http://clk.atdmt.com/NMN/go/157639755/direct/01/ _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list [email protected] http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list [email protected] http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l
