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remove persistent violators.


On Sep 29, 2019, at 11:33 PM, Michael Gibbons 
<6453...@gmail.com<mailto:6453...@gmail.com>> wrote:
That's very interesting stuff.  I guess that self work both ways invader 
annoying find your rhetoric to be drivel.  From what I've experienced that is 
precisely where ther disconnect lay.
Ther majority try (by your own admission) to bully someone an opinion different 
than yours into leaving ther forum.  That's  mighty 1st amendment of you. It's 
refreshing see that someones civil rights can only be trodden upon and the 
individual simply harrsssed into submission. It would be ashame to just leave 
some be that doesnt agree with you. It would be terrible to try to ascertain 
what makes them draw the conclusions they do. God forbid the annoying guy have 
something enlightening to say. And far be it from those that know all the 
correct answers to the worlds woes be motivated to some soul searching  to find 
what makes their actions contrary to the their tolerant conception of 
themselves.
It would a travesty to gang up on someone of a differing opinion. To inundate 
that person with veiled insults and innuendo regarding his IQ simply because he 
sees the world differently. Intimidating be sheer volume of passive aggressive 
language designed to bait a response in kind. Then to blame the ugliness that 
ensues on the lone annoying guy, who simply reacts as anyone does when faced 
with bullies and person who jump to judgement without a modicum of respect for 
the annoying guy.
It's a shame that the collective majority with the highest opinion of 
themselves, find themselves so vulnerable to the ideas they dont understand 
that it causes their collective mind to snap shut. Disallowing anything 
familiar to penetrate the comfortable space they claim as their own and protect 
vehemently by any means necessary. It matters not if those means are 180° askew 
of the philosophy they pride themselves on and part each other on back in 
mutual admiration.
Its dismaying to witness the mutual admiration society in full acceptance of 
the groups tactics that dispensed with the unwanted point of view. Like pet 
dogs that were lost in a storm and found each other. For the survival of the 
pack they abandon the domestication that held them in regard with society for 
the nasty aggression that binds them to one another and insures no other 
disturbs the pecking order of the pack.
I think annoying guy guy might use the tools you have shared. Though I doubt 
you will ever be rid of him. Historically those that are treated with a certain 
level of inequality gather strength if they dont already have the fortitude, to 
resist and confront those who wish to to treat him poorly.
Smart people, especially ones that trumpet the value of fair play, tolerance 
and acceptance actually practice those traits they hold in such high regard. 
But it takes a secure self esteem and fearless ego to lower ones self to a 
level of truly embracing the unpopular. Only when one can reach that level of 
humility will they ever understand the need to look inside ones self to find 
the fault of the outsider.
He understands you. You can not make that same claim.

On Sun, Sep 29, 2019, 9:51 PM William R. Elliott 
<speodes...@gmail.com<mailto:speodes...@gmail.com>> wrote:
Dear friends on TexasCavers,

I have a suggestion that might help some of you filter out the ugly comments, 
boring and inane reporting, and generally annoying stuff that gets posted here 
too often. Lately most of it comes from two individuals. We apparently cannot 
make them quit the forum, unfortunately, but plenty of good folks have quit 
because of them. And when reasonable people try to best them, the replies get 
worse.

Reminds me of a quote from the first True Grit movie (1969), "Why, you've done 
nothing when you've bested a fool!" (spoken by Glenn Campbell as Texas Ranger 
LaBoeuf)

I've had a gmail filter on one particular person for a couple of years, and it 
works well most of the time. I don't even see his stuff, that is unless some of 
you reply to him, then those replies and his original post get through to me, 
but it does cut down 80-90% of the stupid stuff being posted.

I just created another filter for Annoying Guy #2.

Many of you have gmail. In gmail click on Settings (little gear on the upper 
right), then Settings inside that. In a few seconds a page appears with menus 
along the top. Click on "Filters and Blocked Emails." Inside that it says "The 
following filters are applied to all incoming mail:" Below that click on 
"Create a new filter". Then you will see a form, pasted below. In the From 
field put (texascavers@texascavers.com<mailto:texascavers@texascavers.com>). In 
the field "Has the words" type the person's name or email as it appears on 
TexasCavers, in lieu of where I put "Annoying Guy". Then click on "Create 
filter." Another form pops up and asks, "When a message arrives that matches 
this search:"  look down the list and click the "delete it" box, then "Create 
Filter" the final time.

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That's all you do. Any email from Annoying Guy via TexasCavers will be deleted 
and you won't normally see it. But he could still email you directly, or a 
reply to him by someone else on the forum will get through.

If you use a different email service, explore the settings for a filter there.

We all have First Amendment rights, and that includes the right not to listen 
to drivel and insults. You can filter it, and you don't have to quit 
TexasCavers. These guys think that their rights trump yours, but I don't agree.

Thanks and buena suerte amigos,

William R. (Bill) Elliott

speodes...@gmail.com<mailto:speodes...@gmail.com>

573-291-5093 cell
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