* * *This one is a lovely mail and you should read it? A good one too??..I hope you can relate to it.*
*A saint asked his disciples, ‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’* *Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’* *‘But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?’ asked the saint.’ Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’* *Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.* *Finally he explained, ‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. * *The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’* *Then the saint asked, ‘What happens when two people fall in love?* * They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’* *The saint continued, ‘When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. * *Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’* * * *MORAL: When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other* -- Great Men are not great by themselves, but also makes others great. - M Lakshmanan, ITO Vanakkam Subbu
