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**Subject: The sales girl in Chennai Giri Stores*
**
*very touching incident indeed.** *
**
*After the Temple Darshan at the Kapaleeswarar Koil at Mylapore we entered
the "Giri Trading" stores and started searching for this Book on "Thatva
Bodha"*
*We found many people buying various Books and CDs and from their smart
walks and accumulation of CDs from Bhajans to Bombay Jaishree, sent a nice
feeling in us, that *
*we have come to the right place indeed.*
*I was looking for this Book while my wife started collecting Bharathiar's
songs and MS's Music. I searched everywhere for this Book.*
*There was this Girl, standing next to the Cashier, sincerely watching all
our movements -a dark complexioned Girl, should be from a nearby Village,
might be 17 or 18, should not have crossed 8th Std., might be out of poverty
she is here.. all my Journalist's brain unnecessarily calculated about this
Gullible Girl..and tho' she was repeatedly watching me, I ignored her and
started searching for "Thathva Bodha"*

*I saw many books from "Sandhya Vandanam" to Swami VIvekananda's "Chicago
Speech" but having spent a good 40 minutes. I looked at her, she also looked
at me curiously.*
*I asked her, knowing fully well that such a girl cannot have any idea of
anything, leave alone "Thathva Bodah"*
*"Sir, may I help you?" (in Tamil)*
*"Yes. I am looking for 'Thatva Bodha' "*
*"Sanskrit Text or English/Sanskrit?"*

*God..she knows.*
*"Sanskrit & English"*
*"Do you like to have the Publication from **Chinmaya Mission** or **Indu
Publications** or by **Ramakrishna Mutt**?"*
*"I dont know..I just want to only Learn you see..I dont really know indeed"
*
*"Do you read Tamil Sir?"*
*"Yes I am a Tamilian "*
*(thinking to myself how most of mylife time I like to act in most
otherplaces*
*that I am not)*

*"Then Sir, you can take this"..she ran to the shelf where I had searched
for 30 minutes, removed the books in the front and came out with a Book in
Tamil.*
*"This one in Tamil by **N.Sivaraman** by **Indu Publications** infact is
simple and wonderfull. You have the Sanskrit Text too inside."*
*My God. Why did I under estimate such a Genius. Just because of my
Arrogance that I am an NRI.*
*Or Just because I presumed such a Black, dark complexioned, gullible
girl, who would have come for this job out of absolute poverty, wouldn't
have any idea of "Thatva Bodha"*
* *
*I decided to change my attitude and realized that I am absolutely an
'Idiot' at this moment in front of this wonderful girl and submitted myself
in all humility.*
* *
*"Madam, I really don't have any idea of even who wrote 'Thatva Bodha' till
yesterday. I just attended a lecture on this subject and was fascinated by
the lecture and hence...."*
*"Did you attend **Goda Venkateswara Sastri's** lecture in **Bharathiya
Vidya Bhavan**?"*
*"Oh God. How did you know?"*
*"He regularly takes classes on such subjects. In fact he is one of the best
Sir, in the city on such subjects."*
*"You are interested in such subjects?"*
*"Yes Sir, I read a lot about **Swami Vivekananda **and **Ramakrishna** and
**Thathva Bodha** incidentally is my favorite Subject"*
*"You mean to say you have read **Thatva Bodha**?"*

*"I have read this one by **Sivaraman** and once you read it you won't feel
like keeping that book on the table at all."*
*"Why what is so great about this Book?"*
*"Sir,you must be joking that you don't know about 'Thatva Bodha'."*
*"Really I accept my ignorance."*

*My wife was watching from the corner, admiring all her CD collections.*
*"Sir,according to me if you read this it gives the entire Vedanthic
Saramsam and to say it in-one-word you become a bit more humble in life,
leaving Ahamkaram once for all."*
*"Is it a fact that reading this simple book one would get so humble?"*
*"Of course one should  be involved totally into the text. Needs lot of
conviction and devotion."*
* *
*My wife joined the conversation and she felt this girl is indeed a very
very talented intelligent girl, so she told me "Why don't you interview her
for Washington Post. Why at all you should think of Paris Hilton?"*
*I also felt that I owe something to her. So I asked her whether she can
spare sometime for an interview.*
*She politely refused saying*
*"My boss is to give me permission. Besides many people are looking for
guidance like you and hence I have to go."*
*"What is your name?"*
*"Kalaivani"*
* *
*My wife's admiration for her devotion to duty and her total involvement in
her work, made her go direct to the Boss "Sir,that girl Kalaivani."*
*"Yes very hard working Girl."*
*"This is my husband Viswanath."*
*"Nice meeting you Sir"*
*"He is the Senior Journalist in Washington Post."*
*The Boss stood up." Washington Post?"*
*"Yes Sir. I wd like to interview this girl. I am highly impressed with her
ethics."*
*Boss called her. Time was 5:45 Pm.*
*"Kalaivani, they have come all the way from USA, they would like to spend
sometime with you. Can you?"*
*"Sir, there are so many customers waiting for some guidance. it is a rush
time. If they can come again tomorrow."*
*"OK. I can come again tomorrow."*

*I again came next day morning leaving all my appointments with 'Times of
India ' just to see this girl. It was no rush hour. My wife and myself found
out.*
* *
*Kalaivani is from a nearby village near Arcot. She has 5 sisters. She is
the eldest one. Her father was a drunkard and he died a few years ago caring
for none of them. Her mother used to work as a helper in Masonry and passed
away two years back, leaving all the 6 on the streets.*

*This girl who had completed her 9th std decided to search for a job and
'Giri Trading' came forward to help her out. She brought all her 5 sisters
with her and with her meagre salary she is taking care of them. All the 5
sisters are going to a nearby Chennai Corporation School .*
*"Kalaivani. But when did you get this enthusiasm to learn about 'Thatva
Bodha'?"*
*"Sir after joining here,I decided that the best way to be of help to the
customers is to know the Subject first. I took small Books on **Swami
Vivekananda** and started reading..I found the subject so fascinating..I
decided to read other books in Tamil like **Bagavad Gita** and **Viveka
Choodamani**. Thats how."*
*"What is your salary?"*
*"Rs 2500, Sir."*
*"Are you able to manage all your expenses with the 5 sisters?"*
*"Not at all Sir, but the Boss helps me a lot."*
*"What is your aim in LIfe?"*
*"I want all my sisters to get education. Then they would get easily
employments is it not?"*

*"If I give monthly Rs 10,000 for meeting all your expenses, would that
suffice?"*
*"It is indeed too much, but that also I would accept only through my Boss."
*
* *
*We took her to the Boss and told him that we would like to send Rs.10,000
every month so that all her sisters' education would be completed. *
*The Boss said "She deserves it Sir. You can trust me - I will hand over the
amount to her every month or alternately you can open an account in her name
and start transferring to the account."*
* *
*My friend John Paul, who is the Regional Manager of 'Times of India ' had
also come with me. He said "You have done a good thing."*

*My wife said "I pray that 'Karpagambal' helps Kalaivani to become an expert
in 'Vedantha' and start giving lectures in USA . We can arrange for her
lectures."*

*We left wonder struck! If we go into the interiors of India , how many more
'Jewels' like Kalaivani can be found!!        *

*I really became humbled.*

*As told to K Guruvayurappan.*

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