Emotional intelligence (EQ) skill 2: Emotional awareness Being able to connect to your emotions—having a moment-to-moment awareness of your emotions and how they influence your thoughts and actions—is the key to understanding yourself and others.
Many people are disconnected from their emotions—especially strong core emotions such as anger, sadness, fear, and joy. This may be the result of negative childhood experiences that taught you to try to shut off your feelings. But although we can distort, deny, or numb our feelings, we can’t eliminate them. They’re still there, whether we’re aware of them or not. Unfortunately, without emotional awareness, we are unable to fully understand our own motivations and needs, or to communicate effectively with others. What kind of a relationship do you have with your emotions? - *Do you experience feelings that flow,* encountering one emotion after another as your experiences change from moment to moment? - *Are your emotions accompanied by physical sensations that you experience *in places like your stomach or chest? - *Do you experience discrete feelings and emotions,* such as anger, sadness, fear, joy, each of which is evident in subtle facial expressions? - *Can you experience intense feelings* that are strong enough to capture both your attention and that of others? - *Do you pay attention to your emotions? *Do they factor into your decision making? If any of these experiences are unfamiliar, your emotions may be turned down or turned off. In order to be emotionally healthy and emotionally intelligent, you must reconnect to your core emotions, accept them, and become comfortable with them. Developing emotional awareness Emotional awareness can be learned at any time of life. If you haven’t learned how to manage stress, it’s important to do so first. When you can manage stress, you’ll feel more comfortable reconnecting to strong or unpleasant emotions and changing the way you experience and respond to your feelings. You can develop your emotional awareness by learning the mindfulness meditation in Helpguide’s freeBring Your Life into Balance<http://www.helpguide.org/toolkit/emotional_health.htm> toolkit that helps you to get in touch with difficult emotions and manage uncomfortable feelings. **** <http://groups.yahoo.com/subscribe/worldmalayaliclub/> *V a n a k k a m S u b b u * ** **** <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sometimeonthenet/join> ** *வாழிய செந்தமிழ்! வாழ்க நற்றமிழர்! **வாழிய பாரதமணித் திருநாடு!* <http://www.incredimail.com/?id=620786&did=10501&ppd=2743,201201221300,9,[TypeID],[IM_UPN2]&rui=115371018> ** -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Thatha_Patty" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. For more options, visit https://groups.google.com/groups/opt_out.
