Pranam 1 Daughter in law in India is a outwitted boss of the home, exceptions being rarity; I am hearing that ladies today are raising pre-wedding questions of nature that 70% of men are not qualified to marry even the rock bottom of the female crowd. And men are addressing them as “vanga” (please come) respectively whereas, they are calling the husbands VADA PODA (as if calling a servant); so, inter relationship is a strategical illumination. Drinking and smoking with non- veg has become fad of women. To be a daughter in law today is a curse. Despite the worst scenario, still exceptional households and daughter in laws exist which is solace to the minds.
2 Narasimha swamy is another saguna Brahman as worshipped by a sect. Never ever can anyone see the GOD because, it is not seeing in the mirror like nor in person as opposites; seeing is unrevealing because YOU CANNOT SEE YOURSELF. 3 Repeated many times? Govt job is not recognised for furtherance in a career and so had to serve in one show forever. No one talks about Sagayam or Arunachalam without the Govt tag. 4 (IN ONE SHOT) குறள் 656 <https://www.ytamizh.com/thirukural/kural-656/>: ஈன்றாள் பசிகாண்பான் ஆயினுஞ் செய்யற்க சான்றோர் பழிக்கும் வினை. பெற்ற தாயின் பசியைக் கண்டு வருந்த நேர்ந்தாலும், சான்றோர் பழிப்பதற்குக் காரணமான இழிவுற்றச் செயல்களைச் செய்யக்கூடாது. English Couplet 656: Though her that bore thee(mother) under hunger thou behold, no deed Do thou, that men of perfect soul have crime decreed. Couplet Explanation: Though one may see his mother starve, yet let him not do any act which the wise would treat as mean with contempt. Transliteration(Tamil to English):eendraaL pasikaaNpaan aayinunhj seyyaRka saandroar pazhikkum vinai 5 Idiotic beliefs. Fear of security. Developing the desire to grab. Herds’ Instinct. 6 It is animal nature; they sit only in a cool place; and when dug the pit is cooler than the surface; if there are certain plants dogs eat those like Korean Grass for digestion; nature knows the way of nature; we wil only be thinking it is death; why dogs howling is said to panic people for death; but I have not seen any death though my dog holed at times; even for sex animals do certain sounds and pranks. 7 Repeated again; salary does not bring happiness; it is the mind and its contemplations; need to live basis with the content and not contempt. KR Irs 2421 On Thu, 1 Apr 2021 at 21:34, 'gopala krishnan' via iyer123 < [email protected]> wrote: > *CULTURAL QA 04-2021-01* > > *Being a compilation there may be errors* > > Q1 What is it like to be a daughter-in-law in India? > > A1 Meenati Amatya 30-3-2021 Former teacher of Mount Carmel School > > As soon as the marriage is fixed and the date is announced…….you begin to > loose your identity as a daughter and get ready for a new life. > > You don’t feel hungry at all .You are in anxiety. > > You are in a confused state about your future. > > How will be the in laws? > > *Will they accept me as their daughter in law? And love me like my > parents?* > > Will my husband cooperate with me? > > Thousands of such questions rattle in your mind. > > > Your mom runs after you and makes all your favourite dishes to increase > your appetite. Mom is Mom after all > > You start feeling extreme love towards your family. And suddenly you start > helping your mother. Even if you have never entered kitchen before. Your > mother laughs at you and you hug her tightly as if you are leaving your mom > forever. > > Finally you bid farewell to your parents, family and home. And enters into > a new home with a new man as a daughter in law. > > All are strangers ……… every corner is new to you. You are hell nervous. > Confused and Confined to one room only. > > Food comes to your room for one or two days. In between few ladies enter > just to see the new bride. Also give a curiosity look to the boxes lying in > one corner of your room. > > For first few days as soon as you step out of your room you have to cover > your head with your saree pallu. > > You have to get up as early as possible in the morning. *Take bath and > perform puja. Or else Mil will make a unhappy face* … mother has not > taught any good manners. > > Ask mil … mom aaj lunch mei kya banaun ? Mom what do you want in lunch? > Mil happy 😊 > > Mom …… What do you want in dinner? Mil double happy 😊 😄 > > Go to your room after your mil goes to her room. Don’t dare ……. Thoda > sharm nahin!!! No shame at all She might think. *Good daughter in laws > enters into her bedroom in the last after completing all jobs in the > kitchen.* > > Waiting in the room, high voltage husband 😡. *Again you have to pacify > him .Then only you can have a sleep* > > Now don’t say, being a daughter in law is an easy job in India. As long > as you stay in mother in laws house maintain this protocol ……. Taking care > of MIL to become a good daughter in law. > > > > Q2 Did any Rishi or Yogi experience Lord Narasimha Swamy in real > life? > > A2 Mrinali Parida March 25-2021-Student at Hiranandani > Foundation School, Thane. > > Not a rishi or a yogi but I have heard of this miracle that took place a > few years ago. > > There was a girl about 5 years old. She and her parents lived in South > Africa. She was a devotee of Lord Narishima. She was so much attached to > the ‘Lion God’. She often used to tell her friends about the ‘Lion God’. > They would wonder who the Lion God is. > > Once she and her friends were playing with a ball. The ball rolled and > went out into the road. The road usually remains empty most of the time but > suddenly a truck came very fast down the road. The girl did not notice the > truck and she went running to the ball. She flew and fell a few miles away > when the truck hit her. Her father who had been watching all this from the > first floor screamed and jumped to the ground. He broke his two legs. The > girl was immediately admitted to a hospital. The doctor ordered the nurse > to do x ray of her, when the nurse came with the report the doctor shouted > at her. > > “Whose report have you brought? I had told you to bring the report of the > girl. You think it as a joke when someone’s life is in danger?” > > The nurse replied- “But sir I have brought the reports of that girl only. > Not even a single bone is broken.” > > Everyone was shocked. When the girl came back to her senses she was > questioned about what exactly had happened when the truck hit her. > > She said that when she saw the truck coming only her lion god- Narasimha > swamy came to her mind and she asked him for help. Then her lion god came > to protect her. He took her in his arms and landed her in a safe place > twenty miles away from that spot. She said how beautiful her Lion God > looked like. He was wearing yellow garments etc. *But when he left he > accidently scratched on her body.* > > The doctor thought that the girl is still dreaming or maybe she is lost in > her own whims and fancies. She undergone several tests *but no part of > her body was damaged only a scratch could be seen*. The doctor told that > the scratch seemed to be of a lion. Everyone now believed that the story > told by the girl is true. The story spread like wildfire in social media > and many people including the doctor and the nurse treating the girl became > devotees of Narsimha swamy. > > Source- Bhakti TV youtube channel.Hare Krishna!! > > > > Q3 How's life after getting a government job in India? How does > life and its aspects get changed? > > A3 Dev 28-03-2021 Former Boxing Player-I belong to a village *where > most of the people's livelihood relies upon agriculture and farming*. We > don't make much out of farming as water bodies in our area are running dry. > As we don't have any industry in our district, the only thing we can do > is to grab a government job as soon as possible. > > Here, Your chances of getting married are next to zero if you don't have > either a stable family or a government job😜 > > I landed a pensionable government job when I was not even 17 yrs. I'm 21 > now and I've been a salaried guy for the last 4yrs. Sounds ridiculous? But > honestly, I couldn't even complete my first year of bachelors when i was > enlisted. My salary sums up a little close to 50k per month plus other > allowances depending upon the place I may get posted at. > > So now, comes how did my life took a turn after getting a government > job.Since I earn enough to prop up my family, we no longer rely upon > farming. Yet, we do farming to just to fulfil the needs of my family. > > I no longer ask for pocket money from my parents. I spend close to 15k per > month on myself. I go travelling much often and spend a huge chunk of my > savings on it. > > I've been to leh and laddakh on bike.I purchased a bike that I always > craved for. It didn't take me more than 5 months to save up for that. > > I've got money to purchase whatever stuff I like, from clothing to my diet > for gym. > > Since my job is pensionable and I've free access to medical and > accommodation facilities. It's an added advantage. > > My note- I applied the job of telegraph office clerk while I was studying > in 2nd year of my BSc, Thinking was a job than completing graduation? By > god’s grace the selection was delayed and I got selected as telecom clerk > after six months of my graduation. > > > > Q4 What are things you shouldn’t do in life? > > A4 Tushar Kumar Yashwant Sun BTEC from Shri Govindram Seksaria > Institute of Technology and Science (SGSITS) (Expected 2024) > > *1. Never argue a fool:* > > Chanakya says that we should never dispute with foolish people. *Stupid > people do not have any sense at all, if you dispute with them then the loss > will be yours*. If you argue with such people, your respect will be > reduced. Such people can make you mentally weak. If you want to avoid > controversy with stupid people, then keep quiet and use your discretion. > Therefore, never dispute a fool. > > *2.Do not tell your weakness to anyone:* > > Most of the people expose their weaknesses to their close relatives, which > they later find very expensive. When you are born, you are alone. Your > worldly relationships begin as soon as you are born. Over time you get > engrossed in many deep relationships. In such a situation, we tell our > weakness in these relationships. > > Which later other people also come to know. Which is not good for our > personal life. Every person has some weaknesses. In such a situation, *never > tell your weakness to anyone. Whether it is your friend or your wife. Avoid > this to honor your soul.* > > *3. One of your faults can destroy all your qualities:* > > Many such examples are seen in life when people, despite having happiness, > convenience and wealth, they commit such a mistake, which makes their > heaven-like life become hell. What causes this – due to one of our faults . > Even if you have many qualities. You have good behavior, you are kind, you > are a social worker or you are rich. > > We have great respect in our society. *But if there is even a small flaw > in you, then it will ruin your life.* Defects such as – intoxication, > profanity, boasting or gambling. Therefore look into yourself and see if > there is any defect in you. If there is, then discard it. *Otherwise, all > the respect created by your hard work will be mixed with the soil in an > instant.* > > *4. Do not befriend people of more or less status than you:* > > Chanakya says that “Never befriend those who are of more or less prestige > than you. Such a friendship will never make you happy”. If you befriend > people who have less prestige than you, then you will always be in trouble. > Such friends will always expect help from you and will think of taking > advantage of you. If you will ever be in trouble, such friends will not be > able to help you. > > If you make friends with people of higher status than you, you will always > compare yourself with your friend and there will be a sense of envy in you. > You will always consider yourself small in front of him, which is not good > for your self – esteem. If he is not able to help you in times of trouble, > then you will get angry at your friendship. So keep in mind that your > friendship should be in your level only. > > > > *5. Never make a liar your friend. * > > *The person who lies* can do anything to prove his point to be true. A > liar has never been faithful to anyone in the world and neither will he > be'- Acharya Chanakya > > > > Q5 Why do some people wear black threads on their ankles? > > A5 Saptarshi Das 31-3-2021 Lives in India > > Hey everyone. Saptarshi here🙋♀️ > > Me and my elder sister are also included in this some people and It's > actually not some *there are many people who wear black threads on their > ankles.* > > Why do i wear it? > > 1- Mummy is really happy if i wear a simple thread. Sometimes it's better > not to ask her questions and accept whatever she is saying for her > beautiful smile😊😊. > > 2- It looks good > > *3- People say it protects from evil/black magic. Ofc* we don't have any > scientific research to prove it but *sometimes your belief for something > can make it true. So i do believe it protects me from evil energy*. > > 4- My cousin sisters said it heals leg pains. I never felt anything like > that. > > Do boys also wear it? I don't know if you guys wear it do tell me in the > comment section. > > > > Q6 Is a pet dog digging my garden a bad omen in real? I am really > freaked right now knowing that it brings death omen! Is it real! > > > > A6 4 Answers Trisha Walsh > <https://www.quora.com/profile/Trisha-Walsh-1>, Only the best for my > fur-babies! 1-4-2021 > > Trisha Walsh - Quora > > <https://www.quora.com/profile/Trisha-Walsh-1> > > > If that was true, I probably wouldn’t be typing this answer because I’d be > dead! > > *My Pinky is a proliferative digger*. It didn’t take us long after we > brought him home for us to discover his annoying but very dog-like > behaviour. > > *He likes to bury his old, smelly bones, probably to save for later, even > though we buy him more, as well* as various tasty treats. When he wants > to rest and relax between scaring people he doesn’t like when they pass by, > he’ll dig a big “dirt-pit” to lie down. *He likes to dig when he’s bored. > He just…likes to dig.* > > It doesn’t necessarily mean that he wants to bury me or my partner. On the > contrary, he’s very protective of me. *If I was in danger, he’d do his > utmost to eliminate the threat*. And if it was in the form of another > living being, death would be the result. > > Mark Hopkins, worked at Success Entertainment (1990-2020) 1-4-2021 > > Not really. Dogs dig to reach items they buried, to access cool soil on > hot day, and when they are bored. Unless you are Tony Soprano and you > have someone buried in your yard. I would simply, fill the holes, give a > stern No, and get a tug toy and play more w the dog. Walk the dog more. The > dog is likely bored. : ) > > Amolak Goyal, worked at Manikya Lal Verma Textile and Engineering College > (1990-2013)1-4-2021 > > More then your dog you yourself is inviting mis happening by creating > negative thoughts. Therefore stop believing in blind faith. Every thing > will be good. > > Q7 What is your salary? Are you happy with it? > > Hey! > > A7 Shiv Shankar Jha Updated 29-3-2021Project Engineer at > Hindustan Petroleum Corporation Limited (HPCL) (2021–present) > > I got my first job in a state PSU of *Gujarat as a college placement.* > > *We were on a stipend of 30000/- per month till first* year. After all > the deductions I earned about 27,800/- per month. > > *I worked there for about 5 years and my salary also rose at nice pace.* > > At present I work with a Maharatna PSU of India and get paid handsomely. > > *My CTC goes around 19 lakhs per annum excluding the benefits we get being > in project dept.* > > I think salary is not the only thing I craved for in my career. Work > satisfaction, family, love-life, passion, hobbies etc are the thing which > drives you through life. > > Yes, money is important and it is one of those vital things in life but it > is not the only thing in life. *You could be earning in lakhs per month > but could still lead a miserable life.* > > So, work hard to get near to that amount which you need to live > comfortably and then follow your hobby and passion for a happy life! > > *All the above QA are based on Quora on 01-04 - 2021. Quora answers need > not be 100% correct answers * > > *Compiled and posted by R. 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