Views and holds and truth
Q1 *यं* *यं* *वापि* *स्मरन्भावं* *त्यजत्यन्ते* *कलेवरम्*
*| **तं* *तमेवैति* *कौन्तेय* *सदा* *तद्भावभावित**: **|| 6||*
*yam yam vapi smaran bhavam tyajatyante kalevaram tam tam evaiti kaunteya
sada tad-bhava-bhavitah*
*BG 8.6*: Whatever one remembers upon giving up the body at the time of
death, O son of Kunti, one attains that state, being always absorbed in
such contemplation.
How confused statement or misunderstanding lead by convictions
teaches others that it means only that?. Smaran bavam tad bava baavitha:
what you think you become; it is intended to reveal at the last second when
leaving the body, it is difficult to think on GOD or niceties; and so when
there are memories or snmaranai oe pragnai better to think about good; if
you think that I will have to be born in the same family you will not
because 1 you is not BODY or NAME OR YOUR SELF at all; next birth is not
you; there is no name for the body; it is an identity tag; so neither soul
nor the present you is reborn at all; rebirth is the kriya the karma in
another pot or body in which soul enters’ or the soul which has neither
birth nor death, wears another shirt; no two shirts are the same or even
similar; so in rebirths it is immaterial whether you are in that family or
some other family or born as a worm etc.
The story of Jada-Bharata occurs in detail in the Shrimad
Bhagavatam, Canto 5, chapters 7 to 14.: Long, long ago, in ancient India
there lived a great king named Bharata, who was as famous for his
righteousness as he was for his valor. Having performed his Dharma as a
king for many years, and observing the graying of his hair, he realized
that his share of kingship was now nearing completion; he therefore divided
his ancestral kingdom proportionally between his sons. Then he abandoned
his home, an abode of immense wealth and prosperity, and set out for the
jungles to spend his last days in the worship of the Supreme Lord. In doing
so, he was only following the glorious precedent set by his ancestors since
time immemorial.
It was nothing but the fruits of the Karma performed by king
Bharata in his previous births which had now materialized as the fawn.
Otherwise, how was it possible for that great Bharata, who had considered
his very own sons as impediments to Moksha and hence left them and all his
riches behind when setting out for the jungles? Thus Bharata, the great
yogi, now swerved from his yogic practices and his acts of devotion were
interrupted. As time passed, the aging king came close to death, and when
the inevitable end came, the last moments of Bharata were centered on the
fawn. Thus Bharata left this world with his mind fixed on the baby deer.
According to the Bhagavad Gita:
‘Whatever one remembers while leaving the body, that is what he gets in the
next birth; because one has constantly thought of that being during one’s
life.’ (8.6) Thus it was inevitable that in his next birth king Bharata was
born as a deer.
Thus Bharata, filled with deep remorse, left the herd of
deer he belonged to. He then wandered off, returning back to the same
hermitage where he had given up his human form. Even there he did nothing
but wait for his last moment. He had become so terrified of any attachment
to anybody that he stayed all alone, subsisting on dry leaves, grass and
creepers, counting his days, waiting for the exhaustion of his Karma which
had caused his birth as a deer. When he realized that the end was near, he
gave up the deer’s body by standing half-immersed in the Gandaki River
flowing nearby.
Then, after Bharata quit his body as a deer, the story
proceeds as follows: There lived a certain holy Brahmin, who possessed
both, self control and tranquility of the mind. He was known for his
austere lifestyle, study of the Vedas, liberal hospitality, contentment,
endurance, modesty etc. In other words, he was a true embodiment of
Brahminhood. It was to this illustrious father that Bharata took his next
birth. This illustrates the following verse of the Bhagavad Gita: ‘One who
has fallen from his Yoga, is born in a family of wise Yogis. Such a birth
is rare and difficult to obtain’. (6.41-42)
Bharata was one of the many children born to the householder Brahmin. .
Since he was not receptive at all to what went around him he was given the
name ‘Jada’, or dull-witted. He was met by the king of that territory
Rahugana.
King Rahugana jumped down from the palanquin and fell at
Jada Bharata’s feet and asked him: “Sir who are you? You speak like one who
knows the essence of all the Vedas and scriptures. Your words ring true in
my ears. Who are you who speak such profound words? Noble Sage! I fear
neither the thunderbolt of Indra nor the trident of Lord Shiva as much as I
fear disrespecting a true Brahmin like yourself.”
“Sir, how do you say that there is no burden placed on your shoulders? I
concede that we are not the body, but if a vessel is placed on fire it gets
heated, and after it is hot the water inside the vessel gets heated and
then consequently the rice inside the water gets cooked. So, when the soul
is seated inside your body, how can it not be affected by the weight which
falls on the body? It is natural to experience that weight. Then how is
that “You” do not ‘feel’ the weight of the palanquin?”
Jada-Bharata replied, “You see, King, this is the earth. It seems as though
a man is walking on it, but the foot of the man who walks on the earth is
also made of the same earth. The knees are above the feet, the waist is
above the knees, and the shoulders are above the waist. A palanquin is
placed on the shoulder and a man is seated in the palanquin. All of these
are but modifications of the earth only. Consider a hammer and anvil. Both
are in essence made of iron, even then, to our eyes, the hammer is not
anvil and the anvil is not the hammer, both are different. Therefore,
because of being different modifications, there is scope for interaction
between the two. One beats and the other gets beaten up. Even then,
essentially, the iron neither beats nor gets beaten. It is only two
modifications of iron interacting with each other, leaving the iron itself
essentially untouched.”
The words of the saint were minimum, conveying the maximum of profundity.
The king rolled in raptures at Jada-Bharata’s feet exclaiming:
“Salutations to you again and again. You are but God himself assumed human
form. I bow to you, Oh Master of Yoga. Your speech has been like a
nectarine medicine to me, curing my ailment of identifying myself with this
temporal body. Your words soothed me like the waters of Ganga soothing a
person scorched by the heat.”
Thus having cured the king of his Avidya, Jada-Bharata continued with his
wanderings till it was time to leave this body too, never to be born again.
So the BG meaning is in Smd Bhagavatham.
Q2 Exothermic and endothermic
In simple terms, the *endothermic* reactions absorb energy from the
surrounding that is in the form of heat. On the other hand, an
*exothermic* reaction
releases energy into the surrounding of the system. A popular example of an
*endothermic* chemical reaction is photosynthesis.
Q4 “In their antiquity and in their contemporaneity, there is not much
else in any Indian literature equal to these quiet and dramatic Tamil
poems. In their values and stances, they represent a mature classical
poetry: passion is balanced by courtesy, transparency by ironies and
nuances of design, impersonality by vivid detail, leanness of line by
richness of implication. These poems are not just the earliest evidence of
Tamil genius. The Tamils, in their 2,000 years of literary effort, wrote
nothing better”.
Akam (interior) and Puram (Exterior) are not only thematic divisions of the
Sangam poems. They are more than that. The two categories are related to
each other by context, and by contrast.
Akam and Puram are very old Tamil words. Akam means interior, heart, mind,
self, kin, house, family, inland, settlement, earth, love poems and codes
of conduct appropriate to akam. Puram has opposite qualities to match each
of these.
Meaning of Akam and Puram
Akam – interior, Puram – exterior
Akam – heart, mind, Puram – body surfaces & extremeties
Akam – self, Puram – others
Akam – Kin, Puram – non-kin
Akam – house, family, Puram – house yard, field
Akam – earth, Puram – farthest ocean
Akam – love poems & no names or person, Puram – poems about war, kings,
people, names
Akam – codes of conduct appropriate to akam poetry, Puram – Codes of
conduct appropriate to puram poetry
*AKAM THEMES CALLED THINAIS (Landscapes)*
Akam is further divided into 5 divisions called *thinais*. *The
word thinai means ‘land’*. These are Kurinji, Mullai, Pālai, Neythal and
Marutham. Each of these have unique characteristics – not just about the
tract of land that they are, but also in the people and animals who live
there, the plants, trees, flowers and above all the feelings of the
characters in the akampoems. The Tholkāppiyam classified 5 different kinds
of land, but did not use the word ‘pālai’ for dry land, since Tamil Nadu
does not have real deserts. Instead, the word ‘naduvunilai’ was used, and
the author meant that to describe kurinji and mullai lands which were
affected by droughts. The word ‘pālai’ was coined by later commentators.
*Kurinji : *Mountains and adjoining lands. Named after the kurinji flower
that blooms once in 12 years in mountain slopes. Kurinji and Kānthal
flowers grow in the mountains. Murugan is the god of the kurinji land, and
bears, tigers and elephants, monkeys, wild pigs, parrots and peacocks live
there. Wild rice, millet, and tubers are grown. Sandal wood trees abound.
Honey collection and millet raising is done. Springs and waterfalls abound.
Mountain people called kuravars live with their families in huts in small
settlements.
*Pālai* : Dry wilderness and adjoining lands. Named after the Pālai tree
which grows in very dry areas. Kotravai is the goddess here. Tigers, red
foxes, vultures, eagles, pigeons and lizards live in this pālai land.
Iruppai, omai, and ulignai trees grow here. Revam, kuravam and pāthiri
flowers bloom here. Robbery on the roads are common. summer. *Separation is
the theme of Pālai.*
*Mullai*: Forest and adjoining lands. Named after the jasmine, and the
plant grows wild in forest areas, especially in the rainy seasons. The god
is Māyon (the dark one), and cattle, deer, rabbits, and wild fowl live
there. Wild grain and millet is grown. Flowers are jasmine and *thonral*,
trees are kondrai and kāyā. Forest streams are active in the rainy season
The heroine waits for her man to return from a journey. Some poems in this
category describle union. All concern the fertitility of the rainy season
in the forest meadows. Rainy season is the period. The time is usually
evening.
*Neythal*: Seashore and adjoining lands. Named after the blue water lily
that grows near the seashore. Varunan is the god. Fish catching and salt
making is done here. Blue water lily grows in the ponds. Cormorant is the
bird and crocodiles, sharks and buffalo that carries salt bags live here.
Screw pine trees grow, water wells and salt water ponds are here. Fishermen
community called parathavar live in nearby settlements with their families.
The subject is often separation, during which the unmarried woman believes
that her lover has abandoned her. Occasionally, neydal poems concern the
journey of the hero along the beach in his chariot as he comes to see his
beloved.
*Marutham*: Paddy fields and adjoining lands. Named after the flowering
marutham tree which grows in agricultural areas. Indiran is the god here,
white and red rice are grown, Water buffalo is the animal, and lotus and
lilies are the flowers. The trees are vanji, kanchi and marutham. Wells,
ponds, rivers, and streams are all over the place. The birds here are
pelican, waterfowl and swan.
Q9 Jaleswara and the tallest lingam data is erroneous; number of
temples in India exist as jaleswara lingam; even one in Chhattisgarh ;
tallest shiva lingam is in Kerala Trivandrum 111 feet; Adi yogi shiva
statue is 112 feet but dhyana lingam is shorter than Kerala.
Q10 Even in Neeya naana Sunday this issue of partiality to a woman as
home maker, had arisen; it is the topic of the day; WHAT IS THE NATURE OF
THE WOMAN IN CREATION WHETHER THE GODDESS PF PURANA OR MODERN HOUSEHOLD
TODAY? Structurally, men and women differ; man has X and Y chromo whereas
woman has only X. man decides the population of men whereas women decide
the woman population. Creation cannot go up without a man. And every woman
whether Queen or PM or president of the biggest company, actress or dancers
famous, biggest writer, or a farmer or even a FEMINIST -she wants a child!
That is nature. So all these cats’ calls are feminist attitudes. Majority
of women wants to lead the life irrespective of the husband’s worst nature,
because whatever be the high class of a woman, still she needs a protective
fence.
Q11 This is another modern mania; working has become an
appreciable act! Time immemorial men and women are working. Our great
grandmothers boat 12 children, lived longer, grounded flours and rice, did
in the hot sun appalam and vadams by hands, did work till last minute of
the delivery, why in many villages the rich women ploughed the fields,
walked in the rains; lived happily; they wore dresses in styles which
modern women copy; they had the natural product make up which are bought
by the modern, wasting money; they were very slim due to work culture but
to day obesity has become a problem and a heavy problem to move!. So always
exclaim the work in jargons. KR IRS 13421
On Mon, 12 Apr 2021 at 20:20, 'gopala krishnan' via Thatha_Patty <
[email protected]> wrote:
> *CULTURAL QA 04-2021-10*
>
> *Being a compilation there may be errors*
>
> Q1 Do we reincarnate into the same family?
>
> A1 yogesh Swami Updated September 7, 2020
>
> By the law of attraction we are, as revealed in Gita (8/6) , *born in the
> place and family of our attachment*.
>
> Father is likely to be born as son of his son of previous birth. Wife at
> the last time thinking of her husband has chances of becoming the husband
> of her previous husband or a man and it is also true the other *way round
> for a man who becomes a woman because of dwelling his mind on his wife
> (Bhagwaan Kapil in bhagvat and Puranjan akhyan)
>
> The other day a startling truth dawned on me. An animal -talker visiting a
> Rajput family said, *“The horse says he was his master's grandfather.* He
> has a grevence that his grandson of last birth rides him without
> seeking permission. “ The family believed for he said many truthful things
> about other pets like dogs not liking a particular green ball, or being
> hurt in a particular leg, or playing with a blue disk that had been
> forgotten by master of dogs or the place from where they bought or brought
> the dogs.
>
> *Too early to admit this seeming rule but it appears that animals remember
> their human births* ; however, humans have no memory of their previous
> births as a general rule..
>
>
>
> Q2 What is a chemical reaction that releases energy called?
>
> A2 Atharv Bhadange Answered 4m ago
>
> Exothermic reaction.
>
>
>
> Q3 What country did Stephen Hawking come from?
>
> A3 Len Carter, I am an expert at spending it Answered 8h ago
>
> Stephen Hawking, in full Stephen William Hawking, (born January 8, 1942,
> Oxford, Oxfordshire, England—died March 14, 2018, Cambridge,
> Cambridgeshire).
>
> English theoretical physicist whose theory of exploding black holes drew
> upon both relativity theory and quantum mechanics.
>
> He also worked with space-time singularities, and was a fan of the
> tele3vision program “Bog Bang Thery” The famed physicist was often in
> voiceovers, in seven episodes, for the CBS comedy, with his most
> substantial appearance in the Season five episode, "The Hawking
> Excitation,". as creator Chuck Lorre reveals how Hawking prepared for his
> role.
>
> In 1993, he appeared on a Star Trek: The Next Generation episode playing
> poker with Data, Albert Einstein and Isaac Newton. (Hawking, holding four
> sevens, crushes Einstein.) As an animated character, he did four episodes
> of The Simpsons (the program he called "the best show on American
> television") and in one decides to steal Homer's "donut-shaped universe"
> idea.
>
>
>
> Q4 Is there any district in Tamil Nadu that has all 5 landscapes
> mentioned in Sangam literature?
>
> A4 Rahul V Updated 19h ago
>
> Yes, there is indeed only one district in Tamil Nadu which has all 5
> landscapes. That's none other than TirunelveLi.
>
> Marutham (Plain lands) : Cheranmahādevi Town with the ancient
> Kailāsamudaiyār Temple.
>
> Kurinji (Hills) : Agasthyamalai - One of the tallest peaks in Tamilnadu
> amidst the Western Ghats.
>
> Mullai (Forests) :Mundanthurai Saranālayam - A great wildlife sanctuary
> amidst range of dense forests in Western Ghats.
>
> Neithal (Coasts) :
>
> Uvari Beach - A historic beach where Portuguese naval chiefs once
> anchored in the 16th century.
>
> Paalai (Desert) :
>
> Therikaadu - The only desert in Tamil Nadu and Red Desert of India.
>
>
>
> Q5 Why is our foot the most common body part bitten by insects?
>
> A5 Thomas Sperry, Been a LotR fan since grade school.Answered Sun
>
> Because the feet are closer to the ground, where the insects live. Also
> in many cultures, people don’t cover their feet as much as we do in the
> United States.
>
> Personally, it’s my arms and my torso that get attacked- mostly by
> mosquitos.
>
>
> Q6 How many children did Lord Shiva have?
>
> A6 Aditya T Updated November 30-2020 Studying the epics and
> Puranas
>
> *Lord Shiva has 7 children -*
>
> Lord Kartikeya -
>
> He was the eldest son of Shiva and Parvati. He was born with the union of
> their cosmic energies, with the purpose of killing Tarkasura, which he
> fulfilled. He was appointed as God Of War. He was married to Indra (or
> Brahma)’s daughter Devasena, and Valli.
>
> Lord Ganesha -
>
> Lord Ganesha was created by Goddess Parvati herself, from the mud of
> Kailash. After he was beheaded by his own father Shiva, he was given the
> head of elephant. He became the God Of Wisdom and Knowledge. He was married
> to Siddhi and Riddhi. His sons were Shubha, and Labha.
>
> Andhaka -
>
> Andhaka was born through Shiva and Parvati’s sweat. He was given into
> adoption to Hiranyaksha. Andhaka lusted on Parvati and faced Shiva, getting
> killed by him, and Parvati also (in Mahakali form). Later, Andhaka’s son
> Adi also receives similar treatment, and Andhaka’s other son Bakasur was
> killed by Krishna.
>
> Ayyappa -
>
> A demoness Mahishi had the boon that she could only be killed by an
> offspring of Shiva and Vishnu. Hence, Vishnu took the form of Mohini and
> united with Shiva, resulting in the birth of Ayyappa, who was adopted by
> Southern king Pandalam. Ayyappa later killed Mahishi, and has remained a
> lifelong celibate till date.
>
> Ashokasundari -
>
> Ashokasundari was born from the Kalpavruksha, when Parvati wished for her,
> and imagined her stature. Ashokasundari was soon married to Chandravanshi
> king Nahusha, and their son was Yayati, the progenitor of various clans.
>
> Manasa
>
> Manasa, the Naga goddess, was the daughter of Shiva as per Shiva Purana.
> She was born from the seed of Shiva. Manasa’s son Astika was the one who
> urged to stop Janamejaya’s Sarpa Satra.
>
> Jalandhar
>
> Jalandhar was the son of Shiva born when the energy of Shiva’s third eye
> combined with the ocean. Jalandhar was very mighty as when he invaded
> Kailash, he defeated everyone including Indra, Nandi, Kartikeya, Ganesha
> etc. However, he was later killed by Shiva after Vrinda immolated herself.
>
>
> Q7 What are some facts about temple of Dwarkadheesha?
>
> A7 Varada Amonkar 21h ago I've researched and read lot regarding
> Indian epics.
>
> It is said that *Lord Krishna great-grandson Vajranabha constructed
> temple of Lord Dwarkadheesha on same place where there was Hari Griha*
> (Lord Krishna's residential palace). Later Mahmud Begada, 'Sultan' of
> Gujarat, destroyed this structure within 15 th century.
>
> Originally shrine of Lord Dwarkadheesha is more than 2500 years old. *It
> was rebuilt before six hundred years.*
>
> Rituals carried within Dwarkadheesha temple are as per traditions of
> Pushtimarg, which holy Vaishnava saint Vallabhacharya introduced.
>
> *This temple is one of Divya Desams (108 temples dedicated to Shri
> Vishnu).*
>
> Seventy-two pillars support this five-storeyed temple made of limestone,
> and it has one beautiful pinnacle with intricate carvings, and it's style
> reflect Chalukyan architectural pattern.
>
> There is Swarga Dwar (gateway to heaven) which means entry gate, and then
> there is Moksha Dwar meaning (gateway to salvation) exit.
>
> God which is enshrined within this temple is Sri Dwarkadheesha (Sri
> Krishna himself).
>
> Within temple complex there are shrines of Lord Pradyumna (Lord Krishna's
> eldest son from Rukmini),Goddess Bhavani Lord Balaram, Lord Krishna's grand
> son Aniruddha, Kuseswara Mahadev, Devaki, Veni Madhava(Sri Vishnu), Goddess
> Radhika, Queen Satyabhama, Mahalakshmi, Jambavati(second wife of Lord
> Krishna and mother of Samb), Goddess Saraswati and Lakshmi- Narayan.
>
> There is one Rukmini temple which is 2 kms away from temple of Lord
> Dwarkadheesha. Legend is that Rishi Durvasa had once cursed Rukmini to be
> separated from Lord Krishna. She meditated on one place (where her temple
> now stands) and finally Lord Vishnu came in front of her and dispelled her
> curse. One temple was constructed on place where Rukmini once meditated.
> Idol of Queen Rukmini is decorated as Chaturbhuja Mahalakshmi.
>
>
> Q8 What are some of the healthy habits one should practice daily?
>
> A8 Kruti Naik April 7-2021Gym freak
>
> *Drinking amla juice every morning empty stomach*
>
> Running for 20 minutes at least everyday
>
> Working out for 20 minutes at least everyday
>
> *Sleeping early by 10. Waking up early by 5.30.*
>
> Eating when hungry and not starving
>
> *Limiting processed food*
>
> Limiting bahar ka khana. More ghar ka khana
>
> Oiling your hair twice a week
>
> Applying ghee in soles and palms before going to sleep at night
>
> *Keeping your head covered while sleeping at night with an over-the-head
> cotton cloth*. It is great for sound sleep. Something like this.
>
> MY NOTE- IT SHOULD NOT SUFFOCATE
>
> 11. Staying active entire day. Walk and walk
>
> 12. Eating dry fruits every single day
>
> *13. Drinking enough water throughout the day*
>
> 14. Eating seasonal fruits and foods.
>
> 15. Getting a face clean up once every 15 days.
>
> 16. Applying face masks once a week
>
> 17. Cleaning your nail every week
>
> 18. Applying moisturizer 2 times a day
>
> 19. Taking an afternoon nap
>
> *20. Keeping your house, bedroom, office desk clean*
>
>
> Q9 Can you tell about 'Jaleshwar Shiv Temple' of West Bengal
>
> A9 Posted by Saurabh Tilakraj Jain Thu The legendary 'Jaleshwar
> Shiv Temple' of West Bengal, a Hindu temple dedicated to Lord Shiv situated
> in Santipur, Nadia district. It is one of the oldest temples of rural
> Bengal.*In this unique temple, the Shiv Linga is placed on an elevated
> pedestal.*
>
> It is believed that devotees who offer water to the Lord on the last
> Monday of the month of Shravana all their wishes are fulfilled.
>
> The 'Jaleswar Temple' is a south-facing temple with the slanting roof of
> four edges having two doors to the east and south.
>
> *It is believed from the ancient times that the Jaleswar Temple, which
> represents Lord Shiv as the 'God of* Water' is to protect the purity and
> serenity of the soil.
>
> The height of the visible Shiv linga, made of black basalt, is 0.92 metre
> but considering the underneath structure of the Linga, it is said that
> Jaleswar Shiv Linga is the tallest one on earth.
>
> On the upper part of the entrance door, different forms of Lord Shiva are
> engraved. An epitome of peace in the delta of the Ganges has been 'home' to
> persons like Ancient poet Krittibas (who translated Ramayana in Bengali)
> and Adwaitacharya (the spiritual mentor of Shri Chaitanya Mohaprabhu) for
> many years.
>
> *Not only a holy place of pilgrimage for Vaishnavs, the two cults of
> Shakti and Shiv also thrived from this holy soil.*
>
> According to legends, the temple derives its name from an anecdote which
> says that *during heavy drought the villagers poured pails of water on
> the Lingam resulting in a heavy downpour. Since then the name 'Jaleswar'-
> the god of water is prevailing.*
>
>
> Q10 Why is it always a duty of a housewife to clean the home and
> look after everything?
>
> A10 Ramadevi Gidugu Sat Former Self Employed, Full Time Mother.
>
> No. It's not her duty by birth. Since you mentioned the word '’house
> wife' automatically it becomes her responsibility to maintain and manage
> the house with whatever her husband earns. He is doing the provider job.
> She is a home runner.
>
> Having said that, if she feels it's hectic and she is feeling exhausted,
> she can save money in some other things, start something from home to earn,
> can hire a helper. If physically not capable to manage alone, have all the
> rights to ask her husband to hire a helper.
>
> *If husband has fixed hours time and not exhausted, she can ask him to
> share a little work also.*
>
> It again depends on his nature of work. Some work for different timezones,
> some do most strenuous and mentally exhausting work, some works drain out
> their energy levels.
>
> It's better ask him to help. If he does well and good. If he doesn't or
> think it's your job or really he can't, better you concentrate on your
> responsibility than how to bend him. Think about how to rationalise your
> work. No use in fighting.
>
> Like making powders, spices, pastes like tamarind, garlic, ginger once in
> a Week and storing them. Investing in good gadgets which would reduce your
> work load like food processor, rotimakers, fully automatic washing
> machines, even machines came to clean and mop the floor.
>
> If house wife chose to not go for a salaried job outside, then obviously
> she has to contribute to house by taking care only. It's her responsibility.
>
> I can't say it as a duty. Because sometimes she may want to go to her
> parents place, may fall sick, may go out of station to attend functions ,
> marriages etc. Then life won't stop for husband or wife.
>
> If you feel you can better utilise the time to persue some hobby or some
> money generating activity, you have to rationalise your work. Smart work
> helps more than hard work.
>
> If you see a considerable money generating possibility, you can explain to
> your husband and ask him could he contribute in any manner. If he could,
> you can further plan accordingly. Otherwise self reliance is always best.
>
> Personally I don't feel anywork is degrading or a burden. Each has some
> value and respect. To run life we need every thing in life in suitable
> proportions.
>
> *Finally why is it always a duty of a housewife to clean the home and look
> after everything? My answer is , Since she chose that role.*
>
> Why is it always a duty of her husband to earn and provide for the home?
> It's the only option he has and rarely he gets a choice to choose house
> husband role.
>
> Finally why both of you should continue your roles?
>
> It's your choice. You want to make your house in to home in that way. You
> can anytime discuss and alter, shift, exchange your roles.
>
>
> Q11 What are some of the most mind-blowing facts?
>
> A11 Shiva Shukla Sat Process Engineer at Indian Oil Corporation
> Ltd.
>
> Returning from office, soothing music, long silent road, covered with
> trees from both ends. It's sunny out here now.
>
> I was driving and enjoying the music, suddenly I saw 3 women sitting
> exactly mid of the road with heap of straw.
>
> As I was approaching them, I started moving the steering towards one side
> of the road, in order to cross them without disturbing or destroying
> whatever they were doing. But when I was about 50m away from the heap of
> straw, women stood and started instructing me to drive my car over the heap.
>
> The arrangement was something like this:—
>
> I drove my car over the heap and stopped my car in the corner itself. *Noticed
> that the women were continuously beating the heap to seperate the wheat
> from straw*. I came out and asked “ Di Can I click a pic"?
>
> She smiled and gave me a pose 🤗
>
> She murmured “ Di click the photo and upload it on Modi's site. *And let
> him know how much efforts we put in such scorching summer due to high cost
> of thresher*. She said this in her haryanvi tone.
>
> (Thresher- is a machine used to separate the wheat, maize other small
> grains from their chaff and straw).
>
> I passed a smile to them and hold my steering back to home without
> replying anything. But something stopped me. I put my car in reverse gear
> and drove my car over the heap for 4–5 turns.
>
> Their smiling face gave me a satisfaction, I know this small deed won't
> helped them much but still.
>
> The most mind blowing fact:—
>
> 1- We Indians know the jugad of slightest thing to make our work easy in
> any possible way. (Putting heap of straw in middle of road so that any
> vehicle crossing over it may provide some ease to their work)
>
> 2- We city based humans will never understand the intensity of labour our
> farmers and their family put to provide us well finished products.
>
> My note- In Tamilnadu it is a common scene in village roads paddy is
> spread with hey for separation along the rods
>
> *All the above QA are based on Quora on 12-04 - 2021. Quora answers need
> not be 100% correct answers *
>
> *Compiled and posted by R. Gopala krishnan on 12-4- 2021*
>
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