Pranam Mr Rangarajan on " - https://aeon.co/essays/are-men-animals-yes-but-not-in-the-way-you-might-think?utm_source=Aeon+Newsletter&utm_campaign=9f2f1a5e8a-EMAIL_CAMPAIGN_2021_11_29_01_54&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_411a82e59d-9f2f1a5e8a-72018288 ; *Matthew Gutmann is professor emeritus of anthropology at Brown University in Rhode Island. His latest book is Are Men Animals?) **https://aeon.co/essays/are-men-animals-yes-but-not-in-the-way-you-might-think?utm_source=Aeon+Newsletter&utm_campaign=9f2f1a5e8a-EMAIL_CAMPAIGN_2021_11_29_01_54&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_411a82e59d-9f2f1a5e8a-72018288 <https://aeon.co/essays/are-men-animals-yes-but-not-in-the-way-you-might-think?utm_source=Aeon+Newsletter&utm_campaign=9f2f1a5e8a-EMAIL_CAMPAIGN_2021_11_29_01_54&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_411a82e59d-9f2f1a5e8a-72018288> **https://aeon.co/essays/are-men-animals-yes-but-not-in-the-way-you-might-think?utm_source=Aeon+Newsletter&utm_campaign=9f2f1a5e8a-EMAIL_CAMPAIGN_2021_11_29_01_54&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_411a82e59d-9f2f1a5e8a-72018288 <https://aeon.co/essays/are-men-animals-yes-but-not-in-the-way-you-might-think?utm_source=Aeon+Newsletter&utm_campaign=9f2f1a5e8a-EMAIL_CAMPAIGN_2021_11_29_01_54&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_411a82e59d-9f2f1a5e8a-72018288> * *KR T*here is nothing new in the west theory. The father of Psychology Sigmund Freud had said," In Freudian <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sigmund_Freud> psychoanalysis <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychoanalysis>, the term *oral **stage* or *hemitaxia* denotes the first psychosexual development <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychosexual_development> stage wherein the mouth <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mouth> of the infant <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infant> is their primary erogenous zone <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erogenous_zone>. Spanning the life period from birth to the age of 18 months, the oral stage is the first of the five Freudian psychosexual development stages: (i) the oral, (ii) the anal <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_stage>, (iii) the phallic <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phallic_stage>, (iv) the latent <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Latency_stage>, and (v) the genital <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genital_stage>. Moreover, because it is the infant's first human relationship—biological (nutritive) and psychological (emotional)—its duration depends upon the child-rearing mores <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mores> of the mother's society. Sociologically speaking, the duration of infantile nursing <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breast_feeding> is determined normatively <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norm_(sociology)>; in some societies it is common for a child to be nursed by their mother for several years but in others this period is much shorter. Psychologically <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ego_psychology>, Sigmund Freud <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sigmund_Freud> proposed that if the nursing child's appetite were thwarted during any libidinal <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libido> development stage, the anxiety <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anxiety> would persist into adulthood as a neurosis <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neurosis> (functional mental disorder).[1] <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_stage#cite_note-1> Therefore, an infantile *o <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fixation_(psychology)>ral fixation <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fixation_(psychology)>* (*oral craving*) would be manifest as an obsession with oral stimulation; yet, if weaned <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weaning> either too early or too late, the infant might fail to resolve the emotional conflicts of the oral, first stage of psychosexual development <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychosexual_development> and they might develop a maladaptive <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maladaptive> oral fixation.
The infant who is neglected (insufficiently fed) or who is over-protected (over-fed) in the course of being nursed, might become an orally-fixated person. Said oral-stage fixation might have two effects: (i) the neglected child might become a psychologically dependent adult continually seeking the oral stimulation denied in infancy, thereby becoming a manipulative <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_manipulation> person in fulfilling their needs, rather than maturing to independence; (ii) the overprotected child might resist maturation and return to dependence upon others in fulfilling their needs. Theoretically, oral-stage fixations are manifested as garrulousness (talkativeness), smoking <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Smoking>, continual oral stimulus (eating, chewing objects), and alcoholism <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcoholism>. Psychologically, the symptoms include a sarcastic, oral sadistic personality <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadistic_personality_disorder>, nail biting <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nail_biting>, oral sexual practices <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_sex> (fellatio <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fellatio>, cunnilingus <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cunnilingus>, analingus <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Analingus>, irrumatio <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Irrumatio>), et cetera Since Freud's presentation of the theory of psychosexual development <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychosexual_development> in 1905, no evidence has confirmed that extended breast-feeding <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breast-feeding> might lead to an oral-stage fixation, nor that it contributes to a person becoming maladjusted <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maladaptive> or to developing addictions (psychologic, physiologic). The pediatrician Jack Newman <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jack_Newman_(doctor)> proposed that breast feeding a child until they choose to wean <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weaning> (c. 2–4 years of age) generally produces a more psychologically secure, and independent person Contradicting the Freudian psychosexual development <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychosexual_development> concept of oral-stage fixation <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fixation_(psychology)>, the *Duration of Breast-feeding and the Incidence of Smoking* (2003) study of 87 participants reported no causal relation between the breast-feeding period and whether or not a child matures into a person who smokes. ( Mobbs, E. J. (4 June 1990). "Suckling and Milk Production" <http://www.cabdirect.org/abstracts/19900442750.html;jsessionid=BB4720FF01FF5F5AD73242503092CA40> . *The Medical Journal of Australia <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Medical_Journal_of_Australia>*. Australasian Medical Publishing Company. *152* (11): 616. ISSN <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ISSN_(identifier)> 0025-729X <https://www.worldcat.org/issn/0025-729X>. PMID <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PMID_(identifier)> 2348798 <https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2348798>.Nagera, Humberto, ed. (2014) [1969 <https://books.google.com/?id=iD1qAAAAMAAJ>]. "Oral erotism (pp. 39ff.)" <https://books.google.com/?id=YrauAwAAQBAJ&pg=PA39>. *Basic Psychoanalytic Concepts on the Libido Theory* <https://books.google.com/?id=2BuvAwAAQBAJ&printsec=frontcover>. Abingdon-on-Thames <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abingdon-on-Thames>: Routledge <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Routledge>. ISBN <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ISBN_(identifier)> 1-31767039-6 <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources/1-31767039-6>. ISBN <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ISBN_(identifier)> 978-1-317-67039-1 <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources/978-1-317-67039-1>)(sigmund freud-. Three <https://nosubject.com/Three> essays on the theory <https://nosubject.com/Theory> of sexuality). So western theory of human relationship is now termed by many women as "in relationships" are the consequences of their illiteracy on body; that is why Wendy Doniger calls {THE HINDU} Linga worship as that of Phallus worship of male organ. So THE DAY WE WALK OFF FROM ALL THESE CONCEPTS ( BUT MUCH WATER HAD FLOWN POUT BEFORE THE CLOSURE OF THE DYKES AS WOMEN OF THE LAND SURGED FORWARD BY MALE ADVERTISERS.), LEARNING THE RIGHTEOUSNESS MIGHT BE ONLY IN THE kRITHA yUGAM. KR IRS 301121 On Tue, 30 Nov 2021 at 09:50, Rangarajan T.N.C. <[email protected]> wrote: > I must confess that I have not read the book but read only a summary > - > https://aeon.co/essays/are-men-animals-yes-but-not-in-the-way-you-might-think?utm_source=Aeon+Newsletter&utm_campaign=9f2f1a5e8a-EMAIL_CAMPAIGN_2021_11_29_01_54&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_411a82e59d-9f2f1a5e8a-72018288 > But I am confused about the hypothesis. Biologically men and women are > animals. In any raw situation, the women can definitely be tamed by the man > for sex and when confronted she will be a scared animal. The statement that > there is no record of any harem is debatable as our history books say that > every conqueror collected a harem. Even less than a hundred years back the > Nizam in Hyderabad had a harem as mentioned in literature harem. > https://www.international. change ucla.edu/cseas/article/93148 > What about sugar daddies? It is another form of domination, no doubt. > Only civilised behaviour can bring to reality the adage "female biology is > not female destiny" > > > > > > On Monday, 29 November, 2021, 10:39:03 pm IST, [email protected] < > [email protected]> wrote: > > > *Are men animals?* > > *Diagnosing men as violent and oversexed beasts is tempting but it’s a > regressive idea built on dubious analogies.* > > *by Matthew Gutmann.* > > *(Matthew Gutmann is professor emeritus of anthropology at Brown > University in Rhode Island. 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