Which virtue of you, you are speaking of? KR IRS 19723 On Wed, 19 Jul 2023 at 00:23, gopala krishnan <[email protected]> wrote:
> Mr Rajaram, > > You wrote - > > ● Ignoring the virtues of people we dislike. > > This was what Mr A P S Mani posted yesterday. > > While you make responses for each and every post, how did you not > responded to it. Respond to it also. > > Gopalakrishnan > > > > On Wednesday, 19 July, 2023 at 09:08:48 am IST, Rajaram Krishnamurthy < > [email protected]> wrote: > > > Disliking/Hating Tendency > The opposite of the liking/loving tendency is also true. We tend to > disfavor people we already > dislike and hate to a level of irrationality. This results in: > ● Ignoring the virtues of people we dislike. > ● Disliking people, products, and actions merely associated with the > object of our dislike. > ● Distorting facts in order to facilitate hatred. > Quotes > [A] major difference between rich and poor people is that the rich people > can spend > their lives suing their relatives.” Warren > Buffet as quoted by Munger > Politics is the art of marshalling hatreds.” Anonymous > Examples > ● “When the World Trade Center was destroyed, many Pakistanis immediately > concluded that the Hindus did it, while many Muslims concluded that the > Jews did it.” Munger > ● Similarly, post 911 years saw investment fund managers with foreign > sounding > names experiencing reduced fund flow from investors , in comparison to > counterparts with > commonplace American names. In other words, before having evidence, they > used the tragedy to further their > preexisting hatred. Resource Elizabeth Lesser Take the Other to Lunch (TED > Talk). > xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx > Envy/Jealousy Tendency > Munger points how out our evolutionary desire to own others’ possessions > leads to worse > situations like hatred, fights and so on. Abraham Tesser’s academic > research on the > Self Evaluation Model counterintuitively shows that our self esteem > suffers and therefore, feel the most jealous of other people when they’re: > ● Close to us (ie sibling, friend) > ● Outcompeting us in areas that are important to us > Quotes > It is not greed that drives the world, but envy.” Warren > Buffet as quoted by Munger > Antidotes > ● Disarm other people’s jealousy of you with vulnerability. > ● Practice mindfulness when you feel jealous or envious accept and > appreciate your > emotions. Your emotions often are telling you something about yourself, > and being > aware of what messages they bring can bring you new personal insights. > Example > In the Wesco Annual Meeting (2000), Munger made the following remark on > the importance of > being satisfied with one’s own life: “Here's one truth that perhaps your > typical investment > counselor would disagree: if you're comfortably rich and someone else is > getting richer > faster than you by, for example, investing in risky stocks, so what ?! > Someone will always be > getting richer faster than you. This is not a tragedy.” > Resources > ● To Create a Real Connection, Show Vulnerability > ● Be Happier with Your Life: 6 Ways to Let Jealousy Guide You > xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx > K Rajaram IRS 19 7 23 > > On Tue, 18 Jul 2023 at 20:01, Rangarajan T.N.C. <[email protected]> > wrote: > > > https://storage.googleapis.com/lp-leadmagnets/Mqvr5DVnvbJsuKWhEb3N4a/uSV4pMX3mA8KNxoJst3DLZ?date=1689690746.58 > > -- > On Facebook, please join https://www.facebook.com/groups/keralaiyerstrust > > We are now on Telegram Mobile App also, please join > > Pattars/Kerala Iyers Discussions: https://t.me/PattarsGroup > > Kerala Iyers Trust Decisions only posts : https://t.me/KeralaIyersTrust > > Kerala Iyers Trust Group for Discussions: > https://t.me/KeralaIyersTrustGroup > --- > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups > "KeralaIyers" group. > To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an > email to [email protected]. > To view this discussion on the web visit > https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/keralaiyers/CAL5XZope0L%3Dw8qgW5Zi3D-nrmS769%2BedDZs0Q-rjdixnsjjKMA%40mail.gmail.com > <https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/keralaiyers/CAL5XZope0L%3Dw8qgW5Zi3D-nrmS769%2BedDZs0Q-rjdixnsjjKMA%40mail.gmail.com?utm_medium=email&utm_source=footer> > . > -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Thatha_Patty" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To view this discussion on the web visit https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/thatha_patty/CAL5XZorEBpVv-MB8vVZrfA8JAx0hU-Cxfer7G%2B7z8CAmQnUOSQ%40mail.gmail.com.
