I m always with a person giving his last Rs 5 for charity than the TATA and Birla donations; so too I praise that GOD who did better sacrifice than any open on earth KR IRS 20 10 23
---------- Forwarded message --------- From: Capt Ravi Kant Mahajan <[email protected]> Date: Fri, 20 Oct 2023 at 10:27 Subject: SOLDIER’S FATHER To: * SOLDIER’S FATHER *By: WING COMDR VENKI IYER The helicopter appeared over the late morning horizon. We were to receive Mr Lachhman Singh Rathor who was visiting our Flight Unit to perform the last rites of his son, Flying Officer Vikram Singh. Only the day before, I had sent the telegram, *“Deeply regret to inform that your son Flying Officer Vikram Singh lost his life in a flying accident early this morning. Death was instantaneous”.* It was the first time for me to meet and manage the bereaved next of kin, in this case the Father of the brave officer. While most of the desolate family members insist on seeing the body, many a time there isn’t a body to show!! Flying Officer Vikram Singh’s remains were only a few kilos –scrapped from what was left in the cockpit. We had to weigh the wooden coffin with wood and earth. The pilot brought the helicopter to a perfect touchdown. Soon Mr Lachhman Singh Rathor was helped down the ladder, a small frail man, maybe 80 years, clad in immaculate dhoti. As I approached him, he asked in a quiet and dignified whisper, *“Are you Venki, the Flight Commander?” “Yes Sir.” I said. "Vikram had spoken to me about you. I’d like to speak to you alone for a minute.”* We walked to the edge of the concrete apron. Then he said *"I have lost a son, and you have lost a friend. I’m sure that you have taken great care in arranging the funeral. Please tell me when and where you want my presence and what you want me to do. I’ll be there for everything. Later, I would like to meet Vikram’s friends, see his room and, if it is permitted, visit his work place. I then would like to return home tomorrow morning”.* A commander couldn’t have given me clearer instructions. The funeral, with full military honours, was concluded by late afternoon. After the final echoes of the *‘Last Post’* faded away, Lachhman Singh spent the evening talking to the Squadron Pilots. Vikram’s roommate took him to see Vikram’s room. Lachhman Singh desired to spend the night in his son’s room instead of the guest house we had reserved for him. Early next morning after a tour of the squadron area, my boss took him to his office. A while later, the staff car took Lachhman Singh to the civil airfield two hours away. As the car disappeared round the corner, I remarked to my Boss, *“A brave man he is. Spoke to me like a General when he told me exactly what he expected from us during his stay here. I have never seen a more composed man on such an occasion. I admire him.”* * “Yes, Mr Lachhman Singh Rathor is a warrior in his own way. He had three sons and laid to rest all of them. "His first son, Capt. Ghanshyam Singh of Gurkha Rifles, was killed in Ladakh in 1962 War. Second son, Major Bir Singh, died along the Icchogil Canal in 1965 in an ambush. His youngest, Vikram Singh, who had the courage to join the Air Force, is also gone now. Single handedly, he has done more for our country’s defence than All of us combined.”* *"Yes, he is indeed a brave Indian ; in fact HE is MORE INDIAN than anyone else - His sacrifice can never ever be repaid by the Country !! He is almost a Martyr himself!!"* * But our Great Nation does not recognize this simple unassuming Giant – while India recognizes their Super Rich Cricketers who are conferred **BHARAT RATNA** while a bunch of actors and actresses are conferred **PADMA VIBHUSHANs and PADMASHREEs !!* *But what about the 'LOSERS'? Those who have SIMPLY LOST their EVERYTHING for the Nation! Like this Father of Three Brave Soldiers. An unfortunate Nation'**. written by my friend soldier * -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Thatha_Patty" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To view this discussion on the web visit https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/thatha_patty/CAL5XZoo-%3DY-S9Fn7DCpM7zVm_BbkmnOfwHL%3D0JB1%2B%3D8es2Rx_w%40mail.gmail.com.
