Complaining is an art form which is paving the way of progress and inviting the attention of the wrongdoers , to revert back and listen in order not removed from their path. It is a prayer Those who do not give thanks for their welfare , those who do not call HIM, when good, remembers the bad times and talks. If I say I have all things-Income Tax will enter; the govt will say why should be getting help;(that is why senior citizens re kept above board) if we say always in the complaining mode people will lose interest soon; there are people on this earth who will torture their relatives and friends and tet will complain that all others are only torturing them; GOD knows; but people also knew it so they remain silent to vote out later. NON -COMPLIANCE IS THE ROOT CAUSE OF THE COMPLAINT. KR IRS 5124
On Fri, 5 Jan 2024 at 09:10, Rangarajan T.N.C. <[email protected]> wrote: > People complain for five reasons as remembered by the acronym G.R.I.P.E. > > - > > *The “G” in G.R.I.P.E. stands for Get attention.* People complain > simply to establish a connection with other people. This is why people > often follow a greeting with a complaint. It’s a way to keep the > conversation going, which gives both people something every human being > craves: attention! > > > - > > *The “R” in G.R.I.P.E. stands for Remove responsibility.* When > someone is given a task they don’t want to do, she or he will often > complain about the circumstances surrounding the task to try and be removed > of the responsibility of doing the task. They will say something like, > “I’d love to do what you ask, but…” and then they unleash a string of > complaints about other people and circumstances that will prevent them from > doing what you asked. > > > - > > *The “I” in G.R.I.P.E. stands for Inspire envy*, which is another way > of saying “brag.” It’s considered rude to brag about your good fortune. > But you can complain about your good fortune and achieve the same > benefits. When a person says, “You know, the worst part about sitting in > first class is having to wait forever for all the other people to walk past > you and get to their seats.” This person is actually bragging about their > first-class status. > > > - > > *The “P” in G.R.I.P.E. stands for Power.* Nothing gets people on your > side faster than upsetting them and complaining is the best way to outrage > people. I call this “Enrage and Engage.” If you can upset people, you can > motivate them to action and this is why complaining is a cornerstone of > media and politics. If you upset people, they will follow you and listen > to you. > > > - > > *And lastly, the “E” in G.R.I.P.E. stands for Excuse poor > performance.* If you ask someone to do something and they don’t do it > or he or she does a poor job, rather than accepting the blame (and > potentially your wrath) the person will blame circumstances and other > people to be excused for their poor performance. It’s a way of saying, > “It’s not my fault." > > Why Do We Complain So Much And How To Deal With Complainers With Will > Bowen — MindBodyDad > <https://www.mindbodydad.com/mind/complaining?ss_source=sscampaigns&ss_campaign_id=65212b49f1f2e84e7f135b1c&ss_email_id=657bb60edce26436aa8bc8b8&ss_campaign_name=Practical+Guides+To%E2%80%A6.&ss_campaign_sent_date=2024-01-05T02%3A12%3A14Z> > > Why Do We Complain So Much And How To Deal With Complainers With Will Bo... > > Bill Bowen, author of “A Complaint Free World: How to Stop Complaining and > Start Enjoying the Life You Always Wa... > > <https://www.mindbodydad.com/mind/complaining?ss_source=sscampaigns&ss_campaign_id=65212b49f1f2e84e7f135b1c&ss_email_id=657bb60edce26436aa8bc8b8&ss_campaign_name=Practical+Guides+To%E2%80%A6.&ss_campaign_sent_date=2024-01-05T02%3A12%3A14Z> > > > -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Thatha_Patty" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To view this discussion on the web visit https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/thatha_patty/CAL5XZorj43TM3%2Bm3%3DojyfgoN7QKZ3c10doxCUiqwWimHASL4yA%40mail.gmail.com.
