The institution of marriage in India is so bonded that women 99% accept the inevitability and live along with the person she married. And any husband disgracing her father and mother. faces the point of no return. So that husband should have apologised for the ill treatment of her parents, which is the bD FACE BECAUSE OF WHICH SHE CAME BACK. One who does not respect the society and the persons, is an animal; and such animals must be tamed as human, acting as one among them. Women are greater only because of that. KR IRS 20 1 24
On Fri, 19 Jan 2024 at 20:26, Chittanandam V R <[email protected]> wrote: > > > *Received from Shri Sitendra Kumar* > > *Reunion of a curious couple* > > *Satish Kumar Sharma* > > *SOME stories are such that whenever you recall them, you feel good that > you played a part in them. In 2018, I was serving as the Commissioner of > Police, Surat. One afternoon, a man in his early 20s came to meet me. For a > person just four feet tall, he carried himself well, but his face wore a > troubled expression. This was Kevin.* > > *He said he had married the girl he loved, against the wishes of her > parents. But after staying with him for some days, she had gone to her > father’s house and had neither returned nor was answering his calls. He > suspected that his in-laws were keeping her in confinement and pressuring > her to break the relationship.* > *Kevin wanted my help in meeting his wife just once at my office to be > sure of her intentions. ‘Why at my office?’ I asked. He said that at any > other place, his wife would not express her true wish freely.* > > *So, I told a staffer to call up the girl’s father and ask him to bring > her to my office the next day. He was reluctant, but agreed when he was > told that if he did not comply, he might have to face a complaint of > wrongful confinement.* > > *The next day, Kevin met his wife — a nice-looking girl — in the anteroom > of my office. But the meeting was futile. A dejected Kevin told me that his > wife did not want to come with him. I asked her the reason. She said > Kevin’s handicap had put her parents in an embarrassing situation in > society. She could not see them troubled. ‘What about Kevin? You have > married him knowing everything,’ I said, but she remained quiet. I did not > press the point further and she left with her father.* > > *Kevin was heartbroken but composed. I asked him not to lose hope and give > his wife some time. I also told him to come back if he needed any help. He > thanked me and left.* > *About a month later, he came again. He pleaded for just one more chance > to talk to his wife. He said he was confident that he would be able to > persuade her to return to him. So, we contacted the girl’s father again. He > was not willing to bring the girl, but we somehow brought him around to it.* > > *Kevin met her again at my office. I don’t know what transpired between > them this time, but his wife agreed to return to him. To be sure, I asked > the girl if she was firm on her decision. She said yes. I complimented her > for her stand and called in her parents. The girl repeated before her > parents what she had told me. They had no choice but to accept her wish. > They left. I wished Kevin and his wife well and they also left, in high > spirits.* > > *Kevin’s in-laws are still estranged from the couple, but he and his wife > are living happily with their two-year-old daughter. Sometimes, I wonder > what Kevin said to his wife in their second meeting to win back her. But I > have never asked him. There is no need for it.* > > *- Satish Kumar Sharma* > > ******************************************** > > *Chittanandam* > > -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Thatha_Patty" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To view this discussion on the web visit https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/thatha_patty/CAL5XZoo5OPYaapcCbbFFxEWwMkeJQkgwivuM_%3DqyeuOSYHsoUg%40mail.gmail.com.
