Sanatana dharma Part 8 KR IRS 28424   Hindu dharmaa Kanchi mutt


Philanthropy (HinduDharma: Part 6, Siksa (14 chapters))

[In the chapter entitled, "Sesame and Water: Where do They Go?", the
Paramaguru spoke of the debt to be paid to our fathers, our duty to worship
Paramesvara as well as to feed the creatures of the earth. He stated that
Tiruvalluvar also spoke of the same dharma in his "Kural": "Tenpulattar
deivam, virundu, okkal tan enru angu aimbulattaru ombal talai."] Here (in
the foregoing quotation) is one good proof that Tiruvalluar respected the
authority of the Vedas. Some suggest that he did not belong to the Vedic
religion and that he was a Jaina or a Buddhist. And some claim that he
transcended all religions. It is also suggested that he openly condemned
sacrifices in which animals are killed. In support of their view, they
quote a stanza from the Kural.[The Paramaguru's comment on the Kural
passage is contained in Chapter 23, Part Five.] Tiruvalluvar who composed
his Kural, with its universal appeal, was not an atheist opposed to the
Vedic dharma. What he refers to as virundu is the same as the Vedic
manusyayajna.

2    Every morning a handful of rice(uncooked) must be set apart for the
poor. All the families must do this without fail every day. The rice thus
kept must be collected from house to house, from quarter to quarter, cooked
offered to the deity of the local temple as naivedya and then distributed
among the poor. With the handful of rice set apart for the poor, keep just
one paisa also. The paisa collected from each family would be sufficient to
buy salt, chilli powder, etc, to mix with the rice to make it more
palatable. It would also serve to buy firewood and to pay the rent for the
vessels. To carry out such a scheme is to do a great service to the poor -
and to the Lord. Charity like this should encourage temple going, not to
speak of devotion. Since the food is first offered as naivedya, it would
mean that the poor will take it as prasada which will impart them inner
purity.

3      Annadhanam or the gift of food is one kind of service of
paropakaram. We talk of service to the poor, social service and so on.
Today all this is done with much fanfare and publicity. In the past the
needy were served naturally, without making any noise. Service comes under
"putras- dharma" and it includes digging wells and ponds for the public,
feeding the poor, building temples for the spiritual well-being of people,
laying our gardens. Excavating wells and ponds has been mentioned first.
The importance of this word may be gauged from such remarks in ordinary
conversation: "What 's he doing? Digging a well or something? “It is
extremely meritorious to excavate pond outside the village to slake the
thirst of cattle. All the people in a village must join together without
the distinction of poor and rich, high or low - work involving physical
effort. It will incidentally contribute to greater social harmony.

4    With education we purify our intelligence, with meditation we cleanse
our mind, with sloka or poetry we clarify our speech. How do we purify our
body? By exerting ourselves in the service of others. As we keep serving
people in this way we will obtain inward purity. When all take part in the
work of digging a pond or well, without any differences, without one man
feeling superior to another or inferior to him, our ego too will be dug
away. More important than the water welling up in the pond is the love
welling up from our hearts. No outward show is needed in social service; we
must not make an exhibition of our work. Collect pieces of glass scattered
on the footpath and keep them away in a safe place; even this service to
people and a means of cleansing ourselves. We must try to please the Lord
with the very hands and feet that he has given us - we must do so by
serving others and by looking upon all as himself.

5    அன்ன சத்திரம் ஆயிரம் வைத்தல்   ஆலயம் பதினாயிரம் நாட்டல்

அன்ன யாவினும் புண்ணியம் கோடி  ஆங்கோர் ஏழைக்கு  எழுத்தறிவித்தல்

   Anna chathiram aayirm vaithal  Aalayam pathinayiram naattal

Anna yaavinum punniyam kodi  Aangor ezhaikku ehutharivithal. (subramanya
Bharathi)  .

6      All human beings must express their gratitude to their fathers
(pitrs) and to the gods- they have a debt to pay their fathers, rites to
perform for the gods. We must serve our fellow creatures to the best of our
ability and extend hospitality at least to one guest a day. This is Adithya
or what Thiruvalluvar calls "virundu", also known as manusyayajna. Then
there is Brahma yajna to perform, the word "Brahma" here denoting the
Vedas. Brahma yajna means chanting the Vedas and making others chant them.
This is a duty carried out by a few on behalf of all. One of the rites
common to all is Bhuta yajna, demonstrating our love to all creatures,
feeding them etc. Pitryajna, devayajna, manusyayajna, bhutayajana are rites
all are duty-bound to perform in one way or. If each individual does his
work according to the Vedic dharma and does it in a spirit of dedication to
Isvara he may be said to be performing Brahmayajna. Thiruvalluvar has said
more or less the same thing as the Vedas say:

7  Tenpulattar, deivam, virundu, okkal, tan enru anguaimbulattaru ombal
talai.   Tenpulattar are the pitrs, the fathers. All are duty-bound to pay
their debt to them. Mother Veda says: "Matr-devo bhava, pitr-devo bhava. "
(Be one to whom the mother is a deity. Be one to whom the father is a
deity. ) Auvvai, who brings us the essence of the Vedas, observes: Annayum
pitavum munnari deivam" [Mother and Father are the deities first known. ]

8     We must treat our parents with respect and do all we can to keep them
in comfort. We cannot make sufficient recompense for all the sacrifices
they make on our behalf. After they depart from this world we must without
fail offer libations to them and perform the sraddha ceremony, all in the
sastric manner. Though they ridicule the idea of performing sraddha, even
reformers have agreed that we must care for our parents.

9    "The sesame you offer, the water, the balls of rice, the plantains and
other items of food remain here," point out the reformists. "Or we see
someone removing them before our own eyes, or eating them. You say that the
departed parents are born again in this world. If that is true, is it not
madness to claim that what is offered here will reach them?" Some of you
must be harbouring similar doubts.Let me tell you a story.

10     A certain man had sent his son to college in a distant town. One day
the boy woke up to the fact that he had to pay his examination fee in a few
days. So he wrote to his father: "Please send such and such a sum by
telegraphic money order. " The father was a little perplexed. All the same
he went to the telegraph office and handed the clerk at the counter the
money that had to be sent to his son. "Please send it by telegraphic money
order," he told the clerk. He had thought that the clerk would make holes
in the notes, put a length of wire through them and send the whole thing to
his son. Moments later the clerk said to the man: "Your son will get your
money. It has already been sent. " The villager was again puzzled. He saw
the money still in the cash box without the notes strung together. He told
the clerk:"My money is still here. You haven't made holes in the notes
yet." The clerk assured him: "It will reach your son." Now he turned to his
work of sending messages: "Ka-tu-katu-katu." The poor village was still not
satisfied. But the money of course reached his son.

11    Offering libations to one's fathers is similar. If this rite is
performed according to the sastras, the deities concerned will convey them
to those for whom they are meant. If the fathers are reborn as cows the
offering made to them will be taken to them in the form of grass or hay.
The deities in charge carry out the orders of the Paramatman. So the father
of the mother whose sraddha is performed need not personally come to
receive the offering.

12        Does not the telegraphic money order reach the addressee? If the
addressee resides in a foreign country our currency will not be valid
there. If rupees are paid here arrangements are made to pay the money in
dollars, pounds of whatever. The things offered to the fathers according to
the sastras are conveyed in a form suitable to them.

13      What is important is a sense of gratitude to our fathers and faith
in the sastras. At parties a toast is proposed to somebody and all the
guests drink or eat to his health. They do so in the belief that by virtue
of the mental power the man toasted will become healthy. Sraddha means that
which is done in faith. Faith is of the utmost importance. If we do
something we must do it according to the rules laid down for it. When you
write a letter how do you make sure that it reaches the addressee? "I will
write the address as I like. Why should I drop the letter in that letterbox
over there? I have a better box at home." would you speak thus?    In the
state of worklessness, love, devotion, and jnana are not bound by any
rules. But when an action has a purpose behind it you have to respect the
rules pertaining to it.

Love and Sorrow (HinduDharma: Part 13, Nyaya (8 chapters))

14      The purpose of human birth is to live a life full of love for all.
No joy is greater than that of loving others. Amassing wealth, acquiring
property, earning fame, bedecking oneself give but transient pleasure, not
any sense of fullness. The happiness that permeates our inner being is the
happiness of loving others. When we love others we are not conscious of our
suffering, the physical exertion we make and the money we spend: indeed the
joy of loving gives us a transcendent feeling. A life in which there is no
love for others is a life lived in vain.



15     I said that when we love a person we forget our sorrows. But one
day, at last, it may be that the object of our love itself becomes the
cause of great sorrow. One day the person we love leaves us forever-or one
day we will leave him forever. "O he has left me forever"-"O I am leaving
him for ever": we lament in this manner. We feel disturbed when we realise
that all the happiness that love gave us has at last proved to be a lie and
ended in sorrow. "Is the final outcome of love then sorrow? "we ask
ourselves in agitation. The greater our love for a person the more intense
our grief when he or she is separated from us forever. We may then even
wonder whether a life without love, a life of selfishness or a life of
insensibility would be better. One leading such a life will not be affected
by being separated from the object of his affection. A selfish or
self-centred man, however, gathers only sin. Is it not a life lived without
joy- a life lived without a sense of fullness- a life lived in vain, a life
like that of a log of wood or stone?

16       [The problem then is]: Our love for others ends in sorrow.
However, if there is no love there is no meaning in life. What is the
solution to this problem? We must create such love as will never change,
love that will be enduring. The object of our love must never become
separated from us, never desert us. If there were such an object and if we
devoted all our love to it we would never be separated from one another-
there would be eternal bliss, everlasting fullness. To explain, we must
love the One Object that never changes. What is that Object? The
Paramatman. The Paramatman will never be separated from us. Even if our
life departs it will dissolve in the Paramatman and become one with him.
Only that love is everlasting which is dedicated to him.

17       The question arises: If one is to love the Paramatman that never
perishes, does it mean that we must not love anyone else, that we must not
love others because they will perish one day? If our love for the Supreme
Being keeps growing the truth will dawn on us that there is no one or
nothing other than He. All those whom we loved, all those who caused us
sorrow by being separated from us, they too will seem to us the
imperishable Supreme Being. We must learn to look upon the entire universe
as the Paramatman and love it as such. Our love then shall never be a cause
of sorrow.

18        Even if it be that our love is not such as to embrace the
universe with all its creatures as an expression of the Paramatman, we can
learn to love with ease all those great men of Atmic qualities as the
Paramatman, so also our sadguru who is full of wisdom and grace. Sufficient
it would be to love them and surrender to them. Through them the Paramatman
will give us his blessings. When someone we love dies we should not grieve
for him. We must console ourselves that only the body which was the
disguise of the Paramatman has perished, that the one who was in that
disguise has become united with the Paramatman. Our love then will be
everlasting. We must first learn to have such love for Isvara and for
people of goodness, for men of God. Then step by step, we must enlarge it
to embrace all creation. In this way the purpose of our life will be
fulfilled.

K Rajaram  IRS  28424

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