Yesterday jazz today redrafted clearly. But Parent is to be taken care of, even if she is the head of Pimp and He is the broker for the iomp work of daughter. But respect is different. Respect arises only out of the unique play enriched with the sacrifices both by parent or individually either father or mother. My friend Nagarajan @ Bobby retd IAS used to say that anyone can beget a child. However than maganai sandron enak ketta thayum, avaoyin mundiyiruppa seitha thanthaiyum only are respectable parents and father and mother.
MOTHER ஈன்ற பொழுதின் பெரிதுவக்கும் தன்மகனைச் சான்றோன் எனக்கேட்ட தாய். தன் மகனை நற்பண்பு நிறைந்தவன் என பிறர் சொல்லக் கேள்வியுற்ற தாய், தான் அவனை பெற்றக் காலத்தில் உற்ற மகிழ்ச்சியை விடப் பெரிதும் மகிழ்வாள். When mother hears him named 'fulfill'd of wisdom's lore,' Far greater joy she feels, than when her son she bore The mother who hears her son called "a wise man" will rejoice more than she did at his birth eendra pozhudhin peridhuvakkum thanmakanaich chaandroan enakkaetta thaai xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx FATHER குறள் 67: தந்தை மகற்காற்றும் நன்றி அவையத்து முந்தி இருப்பச் செயல். தந்தை தன் மகனுக்குச் செய்யத்தக்க நல்லுதவி, கற்றவர் கூட்டத்தில் தன் மகன் முந்தி இருக்கும்படியாக அவனைக் கல்வியில் மேம்படச் செய்தலாகும். Sire greatest boon on son confers, who makes him meet, In councils of the wise to fill the highest seat The benefit which a father should confer on his son is to give him precedence in the assembly of the learned thandhai makaRkaatrum nandri avaiyaththu mundhi iruppa cheyal ஒருவர் தனது வாழ்நாளில் பெற வேண்டியது அறிவில் சிறந்த குழந்தைகளே. அது பிறவித் துன்பத்தை துடைக்க வல்லது. நமது பிள்ளை என்றாலும் அதனதன் வினைப்பயன் அதனதனை தொடரும். குழந்தைகள் உண்ட மிச்சம் போன்ற அமிழ்து இல்லை, அவர்களின் குரல் போன்ற இனிமை எந்த இசையிலும் இல்லை. தன் குழந்தைகளுக்கு நல்வாய்ப்பு ஏற்படுத்த வேண்டியது தந்தையின் கடமை. தாயும் தன் மகனை சான்றோன் என்பதில் மகிழ்ச்சி அடைவாள். குழந்தைகளும் தன் தந்தைக்கு நற்பெயர் பெற்று தர வேண்டும். Thus anyone not covered by these descriptions are not respectable parents; but keeping their welfare by their children cannot be denied at any cost by the children. Another friend of mine, Satyapal IPS, used to say that all sons at 40+ will understand how good his father was and all daughters show their love from a distance as if she belonged to another house. So generally Good parents are devoid of good children and Good children are devoid of Good parents. K Rajaram IRS 241024 ---------- Forwarded message --------- From: 'venkat giri' via iyer123 <[email protected]> Date: Wed, 23 Oct 2024 at 21:32 Subject: [iyer123] A MAN CALLED FATHER To: Iyer <[email protected]> *Respected Sir/s,* * SUBJECT: **A MAN **CALLED **FATHER* *F**antastic,, **A**dviser,**T**eache**r,**HER**o**,exceptional and **REMARKABLE!!!!* *“The greatest mark of a **FATHER is how he treats his children when no one is looking.”* *He is the one who takes care of the entire family including his own parents, wife and children. He earns his bread and butter for his family and tries his best to fulfil their needs and demands.* *A FATHER , teaches his children about right and wrong and encourage them to do their best. See that they make good choices. Fathers use everyday examples to help children learn the basic lessons of life. * *Eat together as a family**.* *A great post on Twitter: * *Conversation by son* * Dear MOTHER. This is My first month's salary.. * *30 thousand rupees..* *Does father ever earned thirty thousand like me?* *I will get more promotions and salary..!" * *The mother had never heard her son talk like this before. **He does not talk much at home. He never talks straight to his father. If such a person had such words in his mouth...? Mother was heartbroken. * *"Why. are all such words coming out now..? That too talking about father very mockingly..!" "Isn't he the only one who mocks me? When he was a fresher in college, father bought him a phone after pestering by mother. * *After a year, he bought it himself.. If the father bought a phone, he would have thought that the son’s studies would be spoiled..!" "That's right.. You also scored less marks in the third semester..! "Can't you tell father to be patient if I get less mark? Why did he grab the phone and hand it to you and say, "Keep it.. Just give it to him after he finishes college..?" “Concentrate on your studies.. my son..! "Did I not say that I will study properly from now on. Then why did you come to college and ask my class teacher.. Do you know how bad I was put in.?" "He himself said that he used to come to college every now and then to make you afraid that I have always watched you..!" "Isn't that all right.. He hs been YELLING that I won't even pass the exam in the third semester.. Yourself, sister, and brother were all at home and dragged me and trampled me.. How much shame would it have been for me? I took a vow to my mother.. I want to live as an honourable man. I am one of the two people who passed the campus interview.* * WHY Now you are talking all these, you said something in between and said that you took a vow. He hid all his affection and behaved strictly to make you jealous..! * * Even mothers expect their children to protect us tomorrow. Fathers are not like that. **Son.* *"Our children are to better than us, they always will think..! Mother will feed you.. **Father will think about your life..**!" "You are the right man... When will you come to support him..!" * *"Let's see if you say this word after 15 years..!"* * "Why.. I'll tell you..! You have to please your household..!" "You can't say.. because then you would be a father of your children..! By that timeYou must have understood the thoughts of fathers about their children..!" * *Then father enters the house. "Look, father has come.. Give him that money and see what he says..* *!" "What are you saying .. "I have earned a lot in the same way every month and bring it without losing a penny.." You are going to order..! Dad was near..! "Daddy..!" "Is he scolding me..?" He looked up at his son in amazement. A small lightning streak in his eyes..* * A few seconds of brightness on his face..! "This is the first month's salary..!" "How much..?" "Thirty thousand.. after two years of the training period, it will come to over a lakh..!" "Good.. keep it yourself ..!" "Why do you say that..?" "Yes, brother.. I also spend a little unnecessary money.. I have noticed that you are very thrifty..! Dad will not accumulate any wealth for you.. .. I will blow porridge for my mother and younger sister as long as there is **STRENGTH in my body.. After that, will you take care of them responsibly..!"* * “Will you be disappointed..!" "I Do not care about that.. **After many years, you now only called me as "FATHER"..!"* *The son held his father's hands with confused eyes..! **"Father.. I have misunderstood you for so long..! * *A small tremor of old age in the hands of the father!!!!! **Trembling at the hands of the son...! Dad's eyes were filled with tears of joy... The tears in his son's eyes were dissolving the guilt...! * *Regards* *V.Sridharan* *Trichy * -- To go to your groups page on the web, login to your gmail account and then click on https://groups.google.com/ --- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "iyer123" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To view this discussion visit https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/iyer123/176397920.3553561.1729699339106%40mail.yahoo.com <https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/iyer123/176397920.3553561.1729699339106%40mail.yahoo.com?utm_medium=email&utm_source=footer> . -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Thatha_Patty" group. 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