SON IN LAW IN PURANA

The Brahma Purana

20. Son-in-Law

Marriage, Family and Position of Women

The position of a son-in-law is of particular significance in the Hindu
family. The parents-in-law remain very eager to please him as the happiness
of their daughter in her married life depends completely on him. The Brahma
Purana also gives a happy picture of the cordial reception of the
son-in-law at his father-in-law's house. But at the same time if the
son-in-law ill-treated the daughter, the father of the daughter intervened
and asked for justice regarding the treatment of his daughter. Thus when
Samjna, Tvasta's daughter, being unable to bear the lustre of the sun (her
husband), left her home and came to her father's house, her father advised
her to return to her husband's house but when he saw that she was adament
in her decision, he allowed her to practice penance in the forest. Later
on, when Surya came to know about his wife's decision, he came to Tvasta's
house where he was given hearty reception but at the same time, Tvasta
advised the Sun to lessen his lustre so that his daughter could be happy
with him. Whereupon the sun pared his brightness on Tvasta's wheel (A.6.30
ff.). The son-in-law on his part also properly respected the father-in-law.
Indra. Thus it is said that once the demon Mahasani captured All the gods
approached Varuna as he was the father-inlaw of Mahasni. At the request of
Varuna, Mahasani released Indra (129.14-29). in-law. But the Brahma Purana
also gives an instance where a father-inlaw shows unequal treatment towards
his different sonsThus it is stated that Daksa invited all his sons-inlaw
in the celebration of his sacrifice but did not invite Siva, the husband of
his eldest daughter Sati, as he had a prejudice against him and openly
condemned him in the sacrificial hall when Sati asked the reason for such
distinction of treatment (34.7-24).

K Rajaram IRS 51124

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