Life is not a bed of roses, neither is it full of thorns. It is full of ups
and down. It’s like an endless ocean and its vastness. We are sailing in a
boat and want to touch the shore. We will stay determined and try our best
to reach at our destination point.
“Life is not a bed of roses”.
Assuming that life is always as a bed of roses, this was hard to believe on
this proverb. But now I started to realize. Then what? A question popped up
again in my mind? Is life full of thorns?
“Life never waits for anyone; you have to come up & get”.
*Your life is your choice*
This is our life, it should be our choice to wear either a Cinderella dress
or a torn dress. Our life depends on us. Either you would sit idle in a
torn dress or struggle hard to get fit into a Cinderella dress.
Generally, it is told,” Life is full of battle but there’s a part of issues
and challenges confronted by the people in everyday life. Success in every
field of life never comes to you on its claim. You have got to battle
difficult to induce to it. An individual is himself or herself capable for
making his or her life either the bed of roses or the bed of thistles. He
or she have to struggle to get what he wants. It would make you more
strategic and stronger.”[1]
It is also broadcasted, ‘”If you learn to fight through complications, you
are the true warrior. Now just stand up, make yourself determined to fight
for your rights. Believe me, you would make your life full of roses. All
the things can be solved by just making up your mind.”[2]
Pragmatically thinking, “You ought to never regret your life troubles. For
nearly all, life isn’t simple. Everybody has his/her claim problems. An
individual may endure from an irrecoverable illness. In spite of having as
well much cash, a person may not be able to remedy his son's debilitating
infection. In some cases, relationship issues get so serious that it takes
away the peace of life. You ought to not fault your good fortune. Good
fortune brings openings. But you’ve to work difficult to utilize the
opportunity in your support. Just be thankful to your God. If your life is
not a bed of roses, don’t make your life full of thorns.” [3] For every
dark night, there comes a brighter day.
1,2 &3 denotes three gunas expecting life. Life is a mystery. We find some
walk through without efforts as well as any qualification on the spot. Some
with all tags all around remain a failure. Some struggle a lot to reach and
fall down at the end line without touching. Running differed; ran well;
also Ran; and ran and fell dead; keeps running; running unseen by the
horizon, etc etc. What exactly it meant. Astrologically, Rama had such a
jadagam of 5 highlights; one will do for anyone to succeed; but Rama had 5
ucham. Yet spent 14 plus 40 years without a wife and had to leave the bed
of roses but never lived any life on thorns. That means in the minds of the
general public, read or novice, would have said:1 astrology is false; 2 No
Purva janma and all but all-around people only decide; 3 what is the use of
being a Satya sandan without getting rich. But richness, bed of roses,
happiness, a perfect life without pain etc is one’s mind’s game, where
majority minds think only as a THAMASA Guna. A limited marriage is observed
as a RAJASA Guna. Both face the up and down of their life and live
emotionally and get lost with a wrong interpretation of the beds of Roses.
Only a few DO REALLY HAVE THE TRUE BEDS OF ROSES AND ALONG WITH THE BEDS OF
THORNS AS IS THERE ANY ROSE WITHOUT THE THORN?
So, do you mean to say working hard is wrong? Or bds of roses can only be
reached by hard work? Or did you mean that be idle and not work but you
will get all the LUCKY BASKAR? (GOOD FILM TO SEE AT THE OTT-100 CRORE
PROFIT FILM) Rama suffered? Sita suffered? The Dasarathan family was in
shambles? Astrology is a senseless object?
None sir madam. Roses and thorns are in each mind. B G says that
thing alone. Action alone is needed; not hard work or soft wok; just work;
keep working; and do not aspire for that need you dream about; then life is
a bed of roses with the thorns all around but you are unaware of those
thorns. Buddha a learned in Sanskrit suffered a royal life under the thorns
to find out desire is the factor that enforces the sufferings unaware of
HIS DESIRE TO SOMEHOW KNOW IT IS ALREADY IN SANSKRIT WHICH WAS LEARNT BY
HIM FROM 4 GURUS. Or Buddha never said anything like that at all but later
commercial distractors as bodhi his shishyas floated a Baskar style theory
which fraught only with the wars in the bundists nations.
Vedantic philosophy never had any bosses and the best came out of the best
without any mean proportion as a way of simple but strong life as RAMA had
all the years unmindful of the imaginary status UNLIKE always general
category people design with their minds. Keeping 100 million dollars did
not make the rich happy since their minds are always in misery. That is why
his jadagam was exemplary in the sense Rama always had his wife close to
him whether lived physically far away. Pisirandayar’s friendship with the
king was highlighted only when they were parted by a distance. LIVING
TOGETHER IS GOOD; LIVING TO GATHER LATER IS FAR BETTER THAN BEING GOOD. 16
BOONS ARE NOT WHAT ONE GIVES COLOR; BUT WHETHER THOSE COLORED CAN BE
RELISHED WHENEVER AND WHEREVER ONE IS. I wrote long back 2 stories 1 from
Purana: Narada and the farmer who said twice NARAYANA. 2 From Katha Saritha
Sagara: A daughter born to his Guru was destined to be only a prostitute at
Kasi; shishya who knew it when Brahma went to write her destiny; so he told
her that she shall obtain anyone on any night unless offered 100
sovereigns; as her income was destined already by brahma, only brahma had
to go to her home every night and gave b100 sovereigns keeping her
chastity.
So, all live only in rose garden beds, with both the
roses and thorns as Rose has always the thorns. People thamasa always
running around say LIFE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES. Another sector, planning and
achieving working hard sat, LIFE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES BUT HAS THORNS TOO.
There are sthitha Pragnans who simply work and sleep routinely, quietly to
serve others, and live happily always and say life is not full of roses or
full of thorns, but just flowers all around. KRISHNAMURTHY PADHATHI WILL
SAY -where the vessel gets cut off from the thread to drown into well
water, 1 DOES NOT ONLY MEAN THAT HUSBAND AND WIFE WILL BE ONLY PARTED; BUT
REALLY IT DOES MEAN THAT WIFE VESSEL WILL CUT OF FROM THE CLUTCHES OF THE
THREADS AND REACH THE HUSBAND WELL WATER. ROSES AND THORNS ARE MINDS GAME;
SATVA LIKES IT LIKE RAMA; THAMASO HATES ITY AS NOT A BED OF ROSES.
K Rajaram IRS 11224
On Sun, 1 Dec 2024 at 04:33, Jambunathan Iyer <[email protected]> wrote:
> *Life hits hard when you realize that it's not a bed of roses. Instead, it
> is a series of triumphs and challenges, testing your resilience,
> decision-making skills, courage, and wisdom. There are ups and downs,
> twists and turns, which makes it a rollercoaster ride. Honestly, life is a
> journey filled with both joy and sorrow.*
>
> N Jambunathan Rengarajapuram-Kodambakkam-Chennai-Mob:9176159004
>
> *" What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you
> become by achieving your goals. If you want to live a happy life, tie it to
> a goal, not to people or things "*
>
>
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