ARR posted what was seen long ago but thought provoking a kind of perverted thought of some one. And ARR can widen his base, then living in a small well. IYER has only 1,2,3 members; and all frogs want to stay within that well without seeing the outside world? WA is enough. Now frustrations are seen by the old agers. OLD AGE is a blessing like children. Have you seen children sulking whatever goes wrong? So too the old aged. Did Krishna advise Arjuna and the world? How many today knew about B G? And because of not heeding or learning , whose loss is that? So as older we shall be advising the juniors whether they heed to or not. That is our moral thing. We are not hurt by foolish criticism; Wrong observations; indecent comments; wrong deductions; erroneous implementations; no ego; no rancour. So keep travelling. I had seen so many who opposed it as young, later turning into the middle age, acknowledging the goody attitude of the other long after. OLD AGE IS LIKE A COCONUT TREE FULL OF WATER AND LEAVES FOR THIRST KILLING AND SHADES; ALL WILL NEED THEM ONE DAY. on that day the advisor may not be here at all. KR IRS 7125
---------- Forwarded message --------- From: ARR <[email protected]> Date: Tue, 7 Jan 2025 at 08:05 Subject: [iyer123] You Get Older To: <[email protected]>, <[email protected]>, Guruvayoour <[email protected]>, <[email protected]> Courtesy to someone unknown. SharedđŸ‘‡ So, my dear, when you get older, never teach anyone anything, particularly morals or ethics. No one likes to be lectured to. Even if you are sure you are right. Remember how this bothered you once? Did you take the advice of the elders yourself? Do not try to help unless requested. Don't impose yourself on anyone. Don't try to protect your loved ones from all the misfortunes of the world. It’s beyond you. Just love them. Don't complain about your health; your fears; your inadequacies; your retirement !! Don't turn into a hag. Don't expect gratitude from children. Remember: there are no ungrateful children - there are stupid parents who expect gratitude from their children. Don't say phrases like: 'Me at your age... ' 'I gave you the best years...', 'I'm older and experienced, so I know better... ' This is generally not well received. Take care of your spouse, even if she becomes a wrinkled, helpless and moody old person. Don't forget she was once young, good looking and cheerful. And maybe she is the only one who really needs you right now. Do try to keep up with time at all costs: understand new technologies. Constantly, study something new. It’s fun. Do not fall behind in time. Do whatever you want, while you can !! Don't blame yourself or others for anything. It’s pointless to review or revise whatever happened to your life or to your children's lives. Preserve your dignity in any situation !! Till the end. You still have immense and intrinsic value. Age is not a losing game. It’s upto you to embroider the closing years in a way you can !! -- To go to your groups page on the web, login to your gmail account and then click on https://groups.google.com/ --- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "iyer123" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To view this discussion visit https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/iyer123/CABnwRDesGw2Y7wQZn%2BOMzhFL-%2BgSGSZX_Aw5Q9F3oLL9FQvsxQ%40mail.gmail.com <https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/iyer123/CABnwRDesGw2Y7wQZn%2BOMzhFL-%2BgSGSZX_Aw5Q9F3oLL9FQvsxQ%40mail.gmail.com?utm_medium=email&utm_source=footer> . -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Thatha_Patty" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To view this discussion visit https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/thatha_patty/CAL5XZor8tWpULjq6HaW7rS--4ge52kWceqh5hr1EmzcvFyQKRQ%40mail.gmail.com.
