Cause and effect of loneliness
Cause and effect of loneliness are two-fold
One the 20-year-old woman in greed
The other the foolish twenty husband
When young money and sex blinds
All kinds of deserting all in needs
Richness in gesture unaware of needs
Poverty in mind in living needs
Poor souls develop a new society needs
Skirmish in start screams at the end
Uncontrolled aloof minds trying to find
The cause and effect outside far end
Internal bickering do rest here found blind
Thethum nandrum pirar thara vaaraa
What one sows so do one reaps
Selfish fishes, fished around the AURA
Where age will be a dead end, in heaps
Relations and friends may surge and react
Their needs may not be of any value or some
Meeting in service freeing the minds in tact
Minds at peace enhance the value life wholesome.
K RAJARAM IRS 21925
On Sat, 20 Sept 2025 at 20:28, 'N Sekar' via KeralaIyers <
[email protected]> wrote:
> I’m sharing something that touched me hope you all like it.
>
> We are in a
> loneliness epidemic.
>
> And the irony is, we’ve
> never been more connected.
>
> Group chats light up
> every evening.
> Emojis substitute affection.
>
> But no one tells you
> they cried in the shower.
>
> No one tells you they sat alone in silence for dinner
> fifth night in a row.
>
> We were never built for
> this much distance.
>
> For centuries in India
> Families lived under one roof
>
> Your neighbors knew
> your name
> You shared food
> You shared grief.
> You borrowed sugar.
> You didn’t need to ask, “Can I come over ?” You just did
>
> But then came the upgrade.
>
> We moved into better houses.
> Bigger salaries.
> Smaller lives.
>
> The kids who once played
> gully cricket now swipe
> through reels
>
> The women who once shared evening tea now compare
> Amazon deals.
>
> The men who once sat together reading newspapers now
> forward news they don’t read
>
> We replaced intimacy
> with information
>
> Now everyone knows
> where you are
> But no one knows
> how you are.
>
> We are lonely not because we lack people, but because we’ve stopped
> showing our hearts
>
> I see it when friends text me
> “All good” and then have breakdowns at 2am.
>
> I see it in fathers who haven’t hugged their sons in years.
>
> In daughters who fake laugh so their mothers won’t worry
>
> Even in love, loneliness hides
>
> You live with someone.
> Share a bed
> But the silence grows.
> The touch fades
>
> The conversations reduce
> to logistics
>
> “Did you pay the bill ?”
> “Did you order groceries ?”
>
> You forget to ask,
> “How’s your heart ?”
>
> We are raising a generation that knows how to hustle, but not
> how to hold each other
>
> And when someone breaks — as they inevitably do — we send them a playlist.
> A meme
> A quote
>
> But we forget the oldest Indian tradition
> Just sitting with someone in silence
> Without answers.
> Without fixing
>
> We don’t need more content.
> We need more company
>
> So let’s bring back slow conversations, soft hugs,
> honest eyes, and
> unapologetic warmth
>
> Because no matter how fast the world runs,
> the heart heals only at the
> speed of connection & love ❣️
>
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