CELESTIALNYMPHS- PART 3

APSARASURVASHI -CONTINUED 

Urvashi’s SecretAdmirer: Durmada

This story is in the Brahmanda Purana, Chapter 3

Hamsa, the king of the Gandharvas, had an army general namedDurmada. Durmada 
had fallenin love with Urvashi. Whenever he encountered her, we would followher 
with lust. On many occasions, Durmada had confessed his undying love 
forUrvashi, but Urvashi had immediately rejectedhim. She was, in fact, already 
married to King Pururavas.

One day, Pururavas and Urvashi were present in the court ofIndra. There, 
Pururavas signalled to Urvashi that they would meet in the corner of the 
Nandana Garden atnight. Durmada saw this gesture, and he understood what 
Pururavaswas telling Urvashi. Herealized that this was his chance. 

He called a Vidhyadhari (celestial woman) named Unmada, andtogether, they made 
a devious plan. Unmada disguised herself asUrvashi, and Durmada disguised 
himself as Pururavas. 

Thus, at nightfall, Durmada and Unmada arrived at the NandanaGarden disguised 
as Pururavas and Urvashi respectively. When Urvashi sawDurmada, she thought it 
was Pururavas and they united in sexual intercourse.When Pururavas saw Unmada, 
he thought it was Urvashi, so they had sexualintercourse as well.

After they had intercourse, Durmada beganloudly laughing. His ploy had 
succeeded. Urvashi was initiallyperplexed, and then realized his true identity. 
This was not her husbandPururavas. This was that stalker Durmada. At that time, 
Unmada also arrivedthere with a dumbfounded Pururavas. Urvashi was furious.

“Durmada, I curse you that you will be born on Earth as aRakshasa. And your 
partner Unmada, she will also suffer a terrible fate. She will be born on Earth 
as thedaughter of King. She will fall in love with one man, but she will end 
upmarrying another!”

Durmada and Unmada wereshocked by this curse. They begged Urvashi to forgive 
them. They didn’t want to leave heavenfor Earth. 

Urvashi took some pity on them and said, “Durmada will beborn as the son of 
Unmada. Durmada will die during a war and attain heaven.Unmada’s husband will 
also die. With the death of her husband and her son, shewill be so sad that she 
will jump into a fire and obtain heaven as well.”

Urvashi’s curse came true,but that is another story for another day.

My note- This legend is new to me. Through Google also Icould not verify

Pururuvas in search ofUrvasi- finding in Kurukshethra

One time, when he came to Kurukshetra, he couldn’t believehis eyes. Urvashi was 
standing right there in front of him. “Urvashi, my love.Wait! You can’t leave 
me during such a difficult time. I can’t live withoutyou!”

Urvashi looked at his state and felt pity. She said, “You have fallen 
fromgrace. You were once a powerful king, and now you are a ruined man, 
obsessedwith a woman you can never have. So stop this madness and go back to 
yourkingdom. Rule well!” Saying this, Urvashi vanished. But Pururavas was 
inconsolable.For the rest of his life, he remained a deranged man, with no 
purpose orambition.

My note- The information is partially correct- Details asper Google search is 
as follows:-

Kurukshetra (specifically the Anyatah-plaksha lake) is thelocation where Apsara 
Urvashi met King Pururavas after her initial departure, though it was not 
necessarily a single "last" visit in allversions of the legend.

According to variousPuranic and Vedic sources:

The Meeting at Kurukshetra: After Pururavas accidentallybroke the conditions of 
their marriage, Urvashi returned to heaven. Theheartbroken king wandered for a 
long time before discovering her at a lake inKurukshetra, where she was 
sporting with another Apsaras.

The Annual Agreement:During this meeting, Urvashi refused to return to his 
palace but agreed to meethim at that same spot once a year for one night.

Handing Over the Children: In many versions, these annualvisits at Kurukshetra 
continued for several years. She used these meetings tohand over the sons she 
had borne him (most notably their eldest, Ayu).

The Final Separation: While Kurukshetra was the site of theirrecurring "last" 
earthly meetings, the story often concludes with Pururavas performing a 
firesacrifice (Agni-yajna) to become a Gandharva himself so he could join her 
inheaven permanently, rather than waiting for her visits on earth.

Urvasi bathes inPrayag to get her celestial status after living in Earth

Urvashi after living with king Pururuvas used to get her  transformation after 
bathing at Prayaga, whichrestores her celestial status. Thisillustrates the 
redemptive power of sacred water. 

King Pururuva’s  family lineage

The next passage recounts Pururavas’s family lineagebeginning with the creator 
god Brahma, from whom he is descended in only four generations.Brahma had a son 
named Atri, who married Bhadra; their son was called Soma, orthe moon. A minor 
deity, Som was prominent in the ancient Vedic period as thesource of soma, the 
intoxicating divine elixir used in Vedic sacrifices. Somawas highly attractive 
and eloped with Tara, the daughter of sage Brihaspati,while Brihaspati was 
away. Taragave birth to a son, Budha, who together with Ila conceived Pururavas.

Pururavas becomes “a great king and established the LunarDynasty named after 
his grandfather” (“Story of Urvashi and Pururava”). Pururavas’slineage 
establishes his proximity to the gods, his kingly virtue, and his roleas 
founder of the dynasty in which the action of the Mahabharata takes place.

Dramatic meeting of kingPururava and apsapras Urvasi

Urvasi, who “found the atmosphere of heaven stifling,”often sneaks down to 
earth after dark with fellow nymphs “to feel the wet dewunder her feet and the 
soft breeze against her body”  Heaven to Urvasi is “cold and synthetic.” Forhis 
part, Pururavas is jealous of heaven’s glories, which he has seen firsthandas a 
regular guest at Indra’s court. After these visits, Pururavas wouldrelieve his 
envy by flyingabove the clouds in his chariot “at break-neck speed.”

Just before dawn one such night, on her way back to heaven, Urvasi is kidnapped 
by ademon. Pururavas witnesses the abduction and flies to her rescue.The story 
lingers over the life-changing moment of their first touch: “for thefirst time 
Urvashi experienced the warm flesh of a mortal, for the first timeshe heard 
blood pouring in veins and for the first time she heard theinhalation and 
exhalation of breath” (“Story”). Pururavas feels “high” beingnext to the most 
ravishing of all the heavenly apsaras, whom he has admiredbefore in Indra’s 
court. But Pururavas leaves Urvasi and the other apsaras togo on their way. 
They depart passionately in love, but neither knows withconfidence whether the 
other feels the same way.

Separation and longing ensue. Urvasi waits for Pururavas to“make the first 
move” (“Story”); she is a woman of her time in this regard andholds to 
traditional gender roles. Meanwhile, Pururavas, in his virtuoushumility, cannot 
imagine Urvasi giving up pride of place in heaven in order tolive with a mere 
mortal, and he avoids rejection by doing nothing: “So bothpined for each other.”

In heaven, Urvasi gives a dance performance in which sheplays the role of 
Lakṣmī, goddess of wealth. Distractedby thoughts of Pururavas, she mistakenly 
calls his name during the performanceinstead of Visṇu’s.The error offends her 
teacher, the sage and dramaturge Bharata, whopunishes her with a curse: she 
will be able to live with Pururavas and willhave his son, but if ever Pururavas 
and his son lay eyes on each other, Urvasimust return to heaven. Sheis thus 
forced to choose between them.

Different versions ofthe Pururuvas- Urvashi legends

In the Mahabharata, thisreunion marks the end of the story. 

Other versions of the tale, however, continue to differentendings. The Rig 
Vedic hymndealing with Urvasi and Pururavas takes the form of a conversation 
between thecouple near the end of events that unfold only after their reunion 
atGandhmadan. 

As told in a later Brahamana text, and later again in theBhagavata Purana, 
these events are, in brief, as follows. Urvasi lives withPururavas in his 
palace on two conditions: he must promise to watch over herpet goats—in some 
versions, they are pet sheep—and Urvasi must never seePururavas naked. 
----Detailsare already told .

In the Rig Veda, Pururavastries to convince Urvasi to stay, but she repeatedly 
rejects his arguments—a common patternin Vedic “conversation” hymns between 
mortal men and immortal women (Doniger,Rig Veda 245–46). Urvasi tells of their 
frequent sex—three times daily—and howshe yielded to him even when she had “no 
desire” (253). She also reveals thatshe has born him a son, which is news to 
Pururavas. Pururavasthreatens to kill himself if he cannot have her, but she 
tells him not to,arguing that good relations are simply impossible with women 
since they have“the hearts of jackals” (254). 

The hymn concludes with a narrator’s consoling remark toPururavas that though 
he is mortal—”a kinsman of death”—his son will make the propersacrifices on 
earth after Pururavas is in heaven to ensure the well-being ofhis line (255). 
The resolution is profoundly Vedic, since Vedicculture saw the sacrifice as the 
key to preserving dharmic world order.

 

In the Bhagavata Purana,Pururavas ends up reunited with Urvasi in heaven, but 
only after a series oftrials on earth.When the gandharvas’ trick succeeds and 
Urvasi leaves, He finallycomes on Urvasi at Kurukshetra on the Saraswati River, 
and the sameconversation from the Rig Veda takes place. Urvasi warns the king 
thatwomen are “merciless” and, moreover, associated with death (83). They 
arereunited, but with difficult conditions set, again, by Urvasi: they will 
sleeptogether only one night each year. Initial “delight” in reunion turns 
to“affliction” in anticipation of their cyclic separation (83). 
Pururavaspropitiates the gandharvas for help, and in the forest, they give him 
a clayfire vessel of a type used for worship. In theory, Pururavas canperform 
rites with the vessel that will allow him to reach heaven and be withUrvasi 
forever. In the next line, crazed by grief, he confuses thevessel for Urvasi, 
but quickly realizes his mistake, returning to the palace ingrief and 
determined not to “accept a substitute” (83).

The story then inserts an ancient Vedic element: thecosmic ages change, the 
next yuga begins, and “knowledge of the Veda revealsitself in the king’s mind” 
(Jarow 83). Thus renewed, Pururavas returns to the forest, rubs twosticks 
together, and chants a mantra: “Pururavas is in the breast of Urvasi”(83). He 
gains entry toheaven through this fire sacrifice and reunites with Urvasi. 

 

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