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The guy you're going out with it trying to decide how much time he's going to want to spend with you, and that means first impressions are really going to matter. If you blow this, there's a good chance that you're not going to get to the second date, so you want to make sure that you handle things the right way from the start. Of course, if you actually don't care how the date goes, then there's no pressure and you don't have to worry about how you come across. But since you probably are interested in him (or you wouldn't be going out on a date), you want this date to go well. So you need to do some basic preparation. Think about the kind of person he is, and plan accordingly. If he's well-educated and bright, you might talk about something related to the arts. On the other hand, if he's an average guy who just likes to have fun, then there are clubs and concerts that you can go to that would probably work out just great. Most importantly, be yourself. If you try to put on airs to impress him it may get you another date, but it's not a good way to build a relationship. When you think about this date, you're going to want to go someplace where you're both comfortable. The whole purpose is to get to know each other and you don't want there to be tension filling the air. The more relaxed you are, the more each of you will reveal your true self, and the more easily you'll be able to determine whether or not you want a second date. So figure out what you want from this date. If this is someone that you've been thinking about the possibility of a serious relationship with, you definitely want to come with your "A" game on. On the other hand, if you're just looking for someone to have some fun with and someone that you can spend a few hours with, this one date might be all you get out of it and you can just relax and have fun. Some guys have gone on dates without intending for anything serious to happen, but they enjoyed themselves so much that there was a second date and a third date, and even marriage. In the end, what you expect from the relationship will determine how important that one date is going to be. If you're looking for a serious and long-term relationship, that date is all important. It sets the basis for the relationship and is the first step in getting to know your date well enough to determine if he is right for you. On the other hand, if you're just looking for someone to have some fun with, it's not going to matter as much. At the end of the evening, you can just walk away, having enjoyed yourself. You may find that you both enjoyed yourselves so much that you want to go out again! --------------------------------------------------------------------- Kathy Stafford, Relationship Coach, I show singles how to get married and couples how to STAY married Do you want more from your relationship? Go to http://www.dearkathy.com for relationship articles, advice, and programs. Get Kathys new book, Relationship Remorse: Mistakes Women Make When Shopping for a Man. and learn the right way to find a loving and committed life-partner. Order the book at http://www.relationshipremorse.com Copyright © 2007 Kathy Stafford / dearkathy.com. All rights reserved. --- END ARTICLE --- Get HTML or TEXT Copy-and-Paste Versions Of This Article at: http://thePhantomWriters.com/free_content/db/s/does-one-date-matter.shtml#get_code ..................................... 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