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Don't Date Me Because I'm Beautiful

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Offers advice for women to tell if their boyfriend really cares
for them or just dates them because they're beautiful. Tells you
how to determine if he's really into you or not.


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Don't Date Me Because I'm Beautiful
Copyright (c) 2007 Kathy Stafford, All Rights Reserved
Dear Kathy
http://www.dearkathy.com



We're currently living in an age where it seems as if the
external is the only thing that matters to the world.  Everyone
wants to feel that there's more to them than just being a piece
of "eye candy."

It's true that there are men out there who are only interested
in women for how they look on their arm, but if we're honest and
take a good look around, we find that those men are few and far
between. What you need to figure out is why you're worried if
the man you're with is only with you because of how you look. In
other words, are you assuming that he's with you only because of
how you look?

Perhaps it's a case of having little self-confidence. If it'll
make you feel better, it's probably not even your fault. For
many attractive women, it comes from a long line of always being
referred to by the way they look. People have always complimented
them on how pretty they are. And after a while, it becomes second
nature to think of themselves that way. They're don't think
about their worth as a person but only how good they look.

As we get older, however, we're less concerned with how we look
than with what's inside of us – and what's inside of those
people in our lives. Sure, every man out there likes the thought
of having a really beautiful girlfriend, but most men actually
are looking for things that go beyond the exterior. The odds are
that you have a boyfriend who's one of those men.

When you're with him, think about the conversations that you
have and the places that the two of you frequent. Do you talk
about a wide variety of subjects and have you gone to places like
museums or galleries? When your boyfriend talks about you, does
he always mention how you look, and somehow neglect to mention
how bright you are?

Think about how he views other women, as well. Does he comment on
the way that other women look without going beyond their physical
appearance? After all, the way that he's looking at other women
is probably a good barometer for how he's looking at you.

Now you might decide that looks are the only thing that he's
into, and if that's the case, you might want to think about
where you want things to progress from that point. Do you really
want to be with a man who only cares about how you look and
isn't interested in what's inside of you? Do you want someone
who doesn't even think about what your hopes and your dreams and
your thoughts are?

Probably not.

If you feel that you're not being seen as the whole package, you
might find that it's time to move on and find a man who is more
concerned with what's inside of you, rather than in how you're
packaged. After all, looks can change but what's inside usually
doesn't. You want someone who'll still be with you even after
you have a few wrinkles and a few extra pounds.





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When Shopping for a Man.” and learn the right way to find a 
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