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I'm spending my life energy in front of the computer, I feel like , and it's not moving my business forward!" That's what a client of ours was telling us. And how about you? You're staring at a screen right now, reading this. How many hours do you have to spend in front of a computer to make your business work, anyway? Additional Article Information: =============================== 1160 Words; formatted to 65 Characters per Line Distribution Date and Time: 2008-11-17 11:48:00 Written By: Mark Silver Copyright: 2008 Contact Email: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] For more free-reprint articles by Mark Silver, please visit: http://www.thePhantomWriters.com/recent/author/mark-silver.html ============================================= Special Notice For Publishers and Webmasters: ============================================= If you use this article on your website or in your ezine, We Want To Know About It. 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How many hours do you have to spend in front of a computer to make your business work, anyway? I mean it--do we all have to become flat-screen zombies with bad backs and a 24 inch depth of vision from staring no further than the screen? The internet is wonderful and all, allowing you to make friends with me and others whom you would never have met, and to grow your business in unimaginable ways . . . But I don't want to life my entire business life in front of a screen. Do you? First Things First: An Antidote For Despair Our client had gone into a deep despair about her business without even realizing it. The despair had lasted several weeks and had shown up in just plain not wanting to work on her business, feeling listless about it, and working on other things. What is despair? According to the Oxford American Dictionary, despair is "the complete loss or absence of hope." That certainly describes the state of despair, but it's not exactly what despair is. The important thing to know about despair is that it is NOT an emotion. It's not. Despair Is A Mashup If you want to be sorta cool in geek circles, you talk about "mashups," which is simply when two or more online computer applications are made to work with each other to accomplish something. For instance, there's a mashup that combines Flickr, an online photo-sharing service, with Google Maps. The combination allows you to scroll all over the world looking at shared photos by geographic location. Despair is kinda like that, except instead of filling you with inspiration about different exotic locales, you end up listless or depressed. Not as fun. Here's the mashup combination: a situation that isn't so much fun PLUS an uncomfortable emotion PLUS The Decision. For instance, our client had a situation where her business wasn't growing as quickly as she wanted it to, she had anger and upset about this. And then she made The Decision. The Decision, which was mostly unconscious, was that her situation would never, could never change. Without The Decision, you've got a troublesome and perhaps painful situation that needs creativity. But when The Decision is added to the mashup, you're in trouble and so is your business. Many people attempt to escape the despair mashup by either forcibly changing the situation, or the emotion. But an easier and quicker way to do it, which worked for our client in about five minutes and propelled her into some amazing ideas for networking outside the internet, is to change The Decision. The Fantastic Advantage of Uncertainty Here's the trick: don't try to change The Decision from one extreme to the other. In other words, don't try to go from "It will never be better" to "Oh my goodness gracious, it's going to be amazing!" For one thing, your body won't believe it. For another, no one likes that fake cheerfulness, least of all you. Instead, just try to wedge some uncertainty into that decision. Is it really never going to be better? Is it really true that this business is doomed? The uncertainty creates two things: room to finally feel and express all that trapped emotion--which may be anger, grief, sadness, or whatever. Journal! Express! It will blow through in a little bit, as long as you don't mash it up with The Decision. The second thing it creates is room for hope. And as my Sufi Sheikh says, "Hope is the most important medicine." Without hope, you might as well pack it all in. So, have you done it? Have you taken your despair about being trapped in a flat-screen internet world and allowed some hope in? Because if you have, let's take a look at some things you can do to open up your business. Keys to More Hope-Filled Networking * Start Online, Take It Offline So you've already spent time on the internet, and you've come across blogs, businesses and people that you like. Some may be big shots, others not so big. But you like 'em and admire 'em. Have you picked up the phone and told them so? If they happen to be local (and it happens, believe me), have you thought about inviting them out to tea? Have you thought about mailing them a handwritten card? Or how about when I jumped on my bicycle and dropped in on a new friend and fellow blogger here in Portland? Get away from your computer and start dialing, pedaling and inviting. * Find a More Shallow Sense of Authenticity Our client had been digging deep to find her most vulnerable, passionate authenticity, which is just fine, but it was wearing her out. There is a place for that, and then there's also a place for bubble gum. That's right, she and a friend were going to just go out and taste a bunch of unusual bubblegum flavors and blog about them. I suggested that she dial up some of the people she admires from her too-many-hours-on-the-internet and invite them to join the gum game, even if they aren't local. Gum may seem a little lightweight, but she thought it was fun as a small adventure. What adventurous parts of yourself have you been unintentionally hiding from your business list? What small adventures can you invite others into? How much aliveness could you add to your business by including these things? * Tie It to Your Business In our Heart-Centered Article Writing course, I talk about Teachings. You don't have to get all heavy-handed about it, but even in your lightweight bubblegum adventures, you can connect them to your business and talk about them in context. For instance, the gum game our client is playing could be, if she wants it to, directly linked to a fun way to get her clients and readers out of workaholic mode. And by including others in the game, it spreads the word about her business at the same time. You shouldn't be spending all of your marketing time in front of the computer. Escape despair by simply bringing some uncertainty into The Decision. Then let your sense of authenticity run amuck, get away from the computer and start connecting by phone, snail mail or in-person. The fun and connection will come back around and infuse your business with an aliveness that your clients are thirsty for. Here's where you can tune into the bubblegum adventures of Lisa and cohorts: www.adventuresinfreetime.com The best to you and your business, Mark Silver --------------------------------------------------------------------- Mark Silver is the author of Unveiling the Heart of Your Business: How Money, Marketing and Sales can Deepen Your Heart, Heal the World, and Still Add to Your Bottom Line. He has helped hundreds of small business owners around the globe succeed in business without losing their hearts. 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