Michael, had an identical situation today.  My answer was a "no" to the
extra work.  I told her if she knew what she had to do, why didn't she do
it in the first place.  There are always consequences, and sometimes it is
a hard and costly lesson to learn.  In my case, if this one class is going
to mess her up, it is because she has and is messing up other classes.  I
decided that I was not going to be the "to the rescue" guy.  She'd have to
learn to rescue herself and not put herself in danger in the first place.

Make it a good day.

                                                       --Louis--


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On Tue, 3 Dec 2002, sylvestm wrote:

> I am not referring to the r&b classic by Aretha Franklin
> but to a student who came to me to try to rescue her
> from an academic problem.This student has missed lots of
> classes and his barely passing the course. Anyway,she feels
> that it is essential that she gets a C in the class to maintain
> her financial good standing. So she wants me to give her extra work.
>  Michael Sylvester,PhD
>  Daytona Beach,Florida
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