Michael, you're right.  That's nature's Law of Parsimony, isn't it.  Anyway, 
imminent
death is not a way I'd particularly recommend for changing one's outlook on and 
living
life.  I am an avid supporter of Ghandi when he said that we humans' noblest 
virtue lies
not so much in being able to remake the world as in being able to remake 
ourselves.  But,
if we want to change the world, we have to start with ourselves; we have to 
choose or be
helped to choose to be the change we wish to occur.

 

Make it a good day.

      --Louis--


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From: Michael Smith [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Monday, July 28, 2008 11:22 PM
To: Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS)
Subject: RE: [tips] hypothetical: Elizabeth vs. Randy

 


While impending (shortly) death may be the greatest teacher in valuing life, 
time, and
experience, I don't think one need wait that long!

It is possible, after a fashion and perhaps almost as good as the teachings of 
imminent
death, to really consciously choose to value life moment by moment, experience 
by
experience--living mostly in the now. (Buddhism may have something to say about 
that).

I actually just got Randy's book (and haven't viewed the lecture) and so 
haven't read all
of it. Although he may have a 'simple' view of human nature, it's usually the 
simple and
the direct which often has the most meaning when it comes to important things 
like how
does one live?

It is also the simple and direct which works when faced with tremendous stress 
(e.g.
combat, self-defense in fighting for your life), not eloquent, grandiose 
theories of
action. This is, I think, paralleled in life.

Perhaps we are more simple than we give ourselves credit for!

--Mike



--- On Mon, 7/28/08, Louis Schmier <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

From: Louis Schmier <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Subject: RE: [tips] hypothetical: Elizabeth vs. Randy
To: "Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS)" <[email protected]>
Date: Monday, July 28, 2008, 5:47 AM

 

            Michael, why so apparently clinical.  In your comparison between 
"analysis"
and "lecture," are you denigrating the value of a "lecture?"  Why couldn't 
Pausch's
"lecture" be the result of an articulation of deep reflection, if that's a more 
acceptable
term than meditation, and a willing to share?  Maybe you have to stare the Grim 
Reaper in
its face to understand for his words not to feel "touchy-feely."  They touched 
me, for I
understand.  Having come literally within a hare's breath of dying one year ago 
this
coming mid-September--and somehow having survived that massive cerebral 
hemorrahage
unscathed-it does give you occasion to pause and reflect on the meaning and 
purpose of
your life and on life in general.  For me, it somehow makes every moment vivid, 
every
happiness more luminous and intense.  It has developed a hunger that is also a 
form of
joy.  I find that having walked through the valley of the shadow of death has 
enlightened
my life-and changed my toward life and death.  Each day I awake, I realize that 
what I
choose to do with this one day is up to me.  So, I make a resolution to 
consciously greet
this one and only day I have with a resolving "yes," that I will not live in 
the shadow of
pessimism, cynicism, anxiety, and fear, that I won't let the gift of this one 
more day
pass as a blur and merely mark it off.  Instead, I will live, love, laugh, have 
fun, and
enjoy to the fullest throughout this one more day given to me--as it if were my 
last and
as it almost was on that fateful September 15th-with no guarantee of tomorrow.  
Now, if
that be Pollyannaish,  so be it.  Beats being down and jaded

 

 

Make it a good day.

 

      --Louis--

 

 

Louis Schmier                                
http://therandomthoughts.edublogs.org/

Department of History                   
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Valdosta State University

Valdosta , Georgia 31698                    /\   /\   /\                   /\

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