Re: [TMIC] RE:OT TOM CARR

[HeyJude48506]

In a message dated 1/29/2006 12:34:34 PM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: OK ITS BEEN QUITE A FEW YEARS SINCE IVE BEEN ON THE LIST,I DO REMEMBER POSTINGS FROM TOM,BUT WHAT WAS THIS PRANK HE DID ON THE SITE,I WAS NOT AWARE OF IT, I HOPE PEOPLE PAY THIS MUCH ATTENTION TO ME WHEN I DIE,WHAT DOES IT MATTER,MOST OF US DONT KNOW EACHOTHER PERSONALY WITH THE ACCEPTION OF THIS LIST. SORRY TO OFFEND ANYONE.                                           JEFF SHOOT FIRST! ASK QUESTIONS LATER. Do you Yahoo!? With a free 1 GB, there's more in store with Yahoo! Mail. Hi Jeff,   Yes, there is a lot of commotion going on over Tom's death.  I think that he would like that.   You did not offend me at all with what you said about us not really knowing one another, but I have a different outlook than you, so please...take no offense.   You are right, I have never met any of the women on this site that I have become close to.  That, I think, is one of God's miracles.    It does make a difference that we are separated by distance and disease, but that does not mean that we cannot truly get to know one another.    The women I share my feelings with do the same with me.  We open our hearts to one another.  We speak of things that we cannot share with other friends or family because they do not fully understand the breadth of our pain and other issues surrounding TM.   We talk about our wonderful caregivers, about the isolation, the constant cathing, the pressure sores...you know all of this.   I feel very close to the friends I have made here at TMIC, and I know a couple of them that value my friendship too.  That's the way love works and grows.  It doesn't matter whether I know your face at all...it's whether I know your heart that counts.   Peace, Jude