Dear Kevin, Thanks for setting me straight on my wandering thoughts. I did go back and re-read some of the email and now I get it. I am lucky enough to have someone in my backyard and she has been very kind in coming for a visit when she is out and about. It's wonderful. I am going to make an effort to get myself out of this bed every day and into my chair even though I get beat up every time I do it. Dave will take me anywhere I want to go and there is another member that is about an hour away whom I want to go and see. The only problem is that I can no longer recall who it is that lives in Detroit, Mi. so I am going to post this to the List as well as to you. You are such a kind, giving and forgiving person. We certainly need you in this group and not off running around to other sites. But, maybe spreading our wings and meeting other people with TM is a good idea. I just want them to come to us. I am such a selfish person. I need to know if anyone is emailing with Gunny. I haven't heard a word from him since Pam died and he was very close to her. If you are reading this Gunny, I had to let Pam go in order to get on with my life and so I quit holding on to Pam and let her go to her new home in Heaven. I realized that I was holding her back from reaching her new home where she deserved to be. Letting our loved ones go is the greatest gift we can give them after they have passed on from this World. There is another home waiting for them and I hope that they have made it there. They deserve to be in Heaven where they belong. And, I hope we all stay where we belong, on this site that has nurtured us until we were strong enough to deal with TM in our own ways. God Bless Us Everyone. Jude. In a message dated 9/17/2009 7:45:21 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, [email protected] writes:
Jude, If I can pipe in on this....I don't believe any established groups are breaking up at all....this all started from a thread I started asking for folks that were in N.E. Ohio because I was looking at starting a regional group for us here in N.E. Ohio. Some of this stemmed from the fact that Gilly had just recently met for the first time, another TM'r and was thrilled to no end. I posted something about wanting to get a group together because there may be others out there that might want to meet another TM'r and they may just have someone in their "backyard". That's when someone else piped up and said it would be a good idea to start posting where everyone was from because even though many of us "know" each other through the list, there is a possibility that some of us might be in closer proximity to others than we realize which would be conducive to arranging a meeting with other TMr's. I believe that's all this is about..... Kevin W. ____________________________________ From: "[email protected]" <[email protected]> To: [email protected]; [email protected] Cc: [email protected] Sent: Thursday, September 17, 2009 6:24:07 PM Subject: Re: [TMIC] Support groups Maybe I missed something...Is our large group breaking up? Are we forming small groups in each of our States or something? Will someone please explain what is going on with each of us giving up the State in which we live? I love our special TM group and will hate giving up the love between us. Without you I don't know what I would have done when Pam passed away. You all had my back and supported me until I could stand on my own. That's what we do for one another. Now we are doing it for Carol who just lost her loving husband, Jim and needs us to hold her up. She needs us. We need each other all of the time. I have had very close relationships with one or another of you at different times when I was desperate for a friend. I don't know how those friendships began, but when I needed you, one special person showed up. It has been difficult to figure out why certain people have been there for me at different times. Well, I'm tired...more about this later. Love to you all, Jude In a message dated 9/16/2009 5:22:14 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, [email protected] writes: Grace Mitchell SW PA Devic's Support On Wed, Sep 16, 2009 at 12:54 PM, Cindy McLeroy <[email protected]_ (mailto:[email protected]) > wrote: Cindy McLeroy Support group leader for Southern CA Reply direcly to me if you are interested in joining our group. We've been going strong for almost 7 years.
