*Dear People,* ** *One small Change in Rathan ji main he said that 11th is my engagement day. *
*Yes I am really engaged on that day but its not my marriage engagement ( I am Getting Married in next few years).but I need not go to Pandicherry University to submit my Ph.d thesis (mid Review ) so I am not available on that day.* *Sincerely * *Kasyap * On 02 Mar 2007 00:45:17 -0800, Ratan Kumar Singh <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Hi All, Postponing any event where large number of people are anticipated, is not solicited. If there are 40 members, there cannot be any ideal date on which all the 40 will be there. It really hurts to learn that regular members are not able to meet up owing to various reasons. But postponement? I am not for it. Say you put it for 11th/18th or any given date. And I am not available on that date. Then what do you do? Either you rate me as an irregular member and go ahead with your celebration or you again postpone it for my sake. As there is no end to postponing business, you will stick to some date writing me off. Now if in that sense only regular members matter, then probably it will be a gathering of say a maximum of 10-15 people (who can really be called regulars). And anyway, we are almost 14-15members now for celebration.So now the question is between REGULARS and celebration. I want to suggest something.Let's go ahead with our plan to celebrate on 4th. Thankfully we have not ordered food from any caterer otherwise I would have ended up in paying a hefty food bill for no use. Think about Arun. He is coming from Chennai for this event. Now at the last moment if he cancel his ticket, he would be losing 50% of the fare (assuming that he is travelling by train) which is a wasteful expenditure. Feel about Kasyap; he went upto ZOO park to find out all these details. Now how he would feel when there wont be any celebration? And 11th is his engagement day. So he wont be able to attend on 11th. I wont be there on 18th and so on.Everyone knew that we are going to celebrate on 4th. Now why this problem is cropping up? I thought of the shopping part today evening. If I had done that yesterday evening for 30 people??? Please consider all these things before cancelling/postponing any event for which there are certain preparations needed beforehand. And I also want to suggest that, lets meet again in some other time depending on the availability of members which won't be an anniversary celebration, but would be a ALL-MEMBER MEET which we can conduct for 4-5 hours in some nearby park. What do you say? Lets celebrate on 4th and also meet up again sometime with all the members. Holi is a big festival in north India. and Holi is on Saturday. Who is playing Holi here in Hyderabad, on Sunday, that too with a group of people? In what way Holi is going to affect us? At the max some kid may throw some balloons filled with coloured water. Does that change our life and celebration? I am totally AGAINST THE CANCELLATION or postponement of the celebration. We may meet up again sometime this month.But why cancellation/postponement? Ratan P.S. Earlier also I have cancelled something which I initiated for TMAD (SHIFT's bank account for TMAD's operation). It hurts and disturbs to the core when you are involved in something and that thing never takes off. *Prasanthi Uppalapati <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>* wrote: Hello Friends, I am very sorry to mail but I hope that at least our members respond and participate. As Sunday is also Holi (celebrated in Hyderabad), it seems it is not adviceable to go out. So far, we have 4 members not participating. Suresh A, Ravi Shankar, Karthik, Murali. Sundar told me that he will try 90% and may be cannot come too. It seems KK garu too not participating. Satish garu (Prasad Charasala gari friend) also said that he is very busy and not sure of coming. So for whom we are celebrating? amdaruu participate chesi, amdaruu idi mana group ani feel avute baaguntundi. Suresh garidi unavoidable business trip. What about others? mundu numchi manam date announce chesaamu. So with so many problems cropping up at the last minute, I think, there is no point in celebrating. So I request you all to say, are you interested in celebration or not? If so, please give us possible dates on the weekend and we will choose a date (only options are March 11th and 18th. If we postpone further, it will not be an anniversary celebration) based on the majority and we will celebrate. Otherwise, I personally feel not to celebrate at all. We can go to any orphanage or work for any cause. Celebration we thought for all of us. If everyone cannot feel so, there is no point. -- Thank you. with regards, PRASANTHI. ---- When you want something, the whole universe conspires in helping you to achieve it. ------------------------------ Don't pick lemons. See all the new 2007 cars<http://autos.yahoo.com/new_cars.html;_ylc=X3oDMTE0OGRsc3F2BF9TAzk3MTA3MDc2BHNlYwNtYWlsdGFncwRzbGsDbmV3Y2Fycw-->at Yahoo! Autos.<http://autos.yahoo.com/new_cars.html;_ylc=X3oDMTE0OGRsc3F2BF9TAzk3MTA3MDc2BHNlYwNtYWlsdGFncwRzbGsDbmV3Y2Fycw-->
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