Such a good point ! I have always tried to make this point to Prasanthi in our conversations.

Our help should not make the independent - dependant. It is in both our good interests...as well as theirs' to make sure they know that we are always there to help...but...they must first try to help themselves and then come to us, if they NEED more.

I think Krishna must smart brush them on saving penny by penny for unforeseen petty expenses such as autofares and so on (keeping in mind they are ppl of limited means). They might never be able to save enough for medicare or infact any expense more than 500rs ever so easily....but....they can surely save for conveyance, preliminary medication,etc if softly but clearly directed/advised.

-Divya


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Subject: Re: [tomakeadifference] Latest update of Sirisha, the 5 yrs old girl with Heart problem...
Date: Mon, 20 Mar 2006 00:35:58 -0800 (PST)

Hi Krishna,

You are doing an exemplary work. But becareful the parents should not miss utilse the help or expecting every thing from others. I really worried that they are telling they don't have auto charges to reach hopital. As they are aware of the kids condition they should kept some thing aside for urgent things. We should help the needy but at the same time need to be frank with them. Don't try to do each and every thing for them, let them do what ever they can do.

    Hope every body got my point.

  Regards
  Sravan

webdesigningexpert <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
    Hi Friends
  Best wishes.
Iam monitoring Sirisha's health condition regularly. Her health is stable for most of the times. But she is getting serious problems at few times. She is using medicines regularly. Day before yesterday night Sireesh went to severe condition all of sudden Siresha's father and grandfather went to a village. So there were no men to accompany them in that night. They took her to some hospitals nearby their home but they denied treating because her condition is serious and undergoing sensitive treatment by Care Hospitals by seing reports. The Sirisha's mother called me with crying while her mother taking Sirisha to nearest hospitals. I asked them to come very immediately by Auto directly to Care Hospital and I will join there. They don't have the facilities of taxy nearby. I thought it would be delayed if I go to Sirisha's home at outskirts of the City and again bringing her to Care. After some time, Grandmother of Sirisha phoned me and said Sireesha was sleeping and her condition was little bit ok She said that she would come to Care Hospitals by next day morning. I told them not to fear and make a call to me if her condition is serious again, If needed I will come to there even in midnight by car and admit Sirisha in Care Hospitals. (The place where Sirisha lives is very long distance from the middle of Hyderabad. Vanasthalipuram is outskirts of Hyderabad and still Sahebnagar is distant from there). Again her health condition went severe on Saturday morning. I asked them to come in Auto directly from their place to Care Hospitals, Banjara Hills. They told that they don't have money. I said them to come away and I will pay money to Auto driver. They came and I paid money to Auto driver. Sirisha looked so dull. Dr. Nageswara Rao garu (Pediatric Cardiologist) examined immediately though he has so many waiting. She was tested by Echo machines. They identified a block in heart valves and off course there was a hole already. She was undergone few tests like Saturation test etc., . (I am gaining knowledge in some medical terms it seems.) She was given medicines and tonics to control the severe condition. Dr. Nageswara rao garu said not to worry to the elders of Sirisha and her operation will be performed with ease. He drawn a rough picture of heart on paper and explained where the problems lied. A block is to be opened and a hole to be closed. Thanks to him for explaining with patience and filling courage in Sirisha's family. The Dr. Nageswara Rao garu and other doctors were impressed a lot by knowing the efforts of our Groups for Sirisha and asked to convey his appreciation to all members. I told them about the "Make a Difference" and "WWHY" groups. They told that they felt happy about participation and initiation of ours from the society. They told they are striving hard to treat children with heart complaints.
  Dr. Nageswarao garu said " These sort of things inspire us" .
I arranged meals to Sireesha and her Grandmother in Care canteen. I purchased medicines & tonic. My brother could reach Care to accompany me when we were at Care Medical shop because he was very busy in a project. Thanks to him. I gave Rs. 200 to Sireesha's grandmother and told to use them for immediate conveyance whenever it is needed.
  Sirisha's health is ok now. She is taking medicines regularly.
Thanks to Mr. Ram Mohan of WWHY group for showing willingness to attend Care hospitals. He tried to come but due to some unavoidable work he could not. Anyhow he was ready to come to Care all of sudden in case of emergency by leaving all works and rush immediately. He made calls to me and enquired the situation time to time. There was an article written by Dr. Nageswara Rao garu in Eenadu about how to take care of children with heart deceases in Summer.
  Here is the link :
http://www.eenadu.net/archives/archive-14-3-2006/specialpages/sp-healthmain.asp?qry=sp-health5 I said to him that we will take number of zerox copies of the article and distribute to the parents of the children with heart diseases. That is more than half page in Enadu paper's print Edition. He told he would send the .pdf file in email to me to take prints easily. That file was given to him in a CD by Eanadu . When I was not able to update the Group directly about Sirisha some times, Prasanthi garu updated the Group about what is going on. Thanks to her. Iam not getting time to take meals at most of the times. My busy work schedules are like that. Soon I will post the details of expenditure and let US friends to obtain an Outsourcing contract from India .
  Regards
  Krishna
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