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Family Law: Men Are Kicked in the Teeth July 26, 2009 by Henry Makow Ph.D Brian's family was the last I had expected to break up. Brian and Gail had been married 24 years. They had six children ages 7-18 and were active in the pro-life movement. At elections, they were the only ones with a lawn sign for the Conservative party. Brian, 46, ruggedly handsome and dishevelled, was a carpenter and bricklayer. He quit grad studies in city planning because he couldn't stand the politics. Brian is a very rare person. He is genuine. In April, he stopped a man from beating a woman on a downtown roadway. Hundreds of passersby just stood by and gawked. Ironic, he stood up for a woman, and now is being crushed by feminist family law. Recently I met Brian, and learned why he and Gail had moved away. BRIAN'S STORY It seems Brian had a mid-life crisis. He had fallen into a deep depression and couldn't work. Perhaps the stress of operating a small business for 20 years had caught up to him. "Many times it was, if you don't get the job, you don't eat," he said. After five months of depression, Gail secretly got a restraining order and a month later, she ordered him out of the house. She told him she couldn't cope with his depression. She told the police she was "afraid of his temper." While he waited in the police car handcuffed like a common thief, a cop said he should be thankful. She could have falsely accused him of assault and put him in prison for weeks. In 24 years of marriage, Brian never hit Gail. Sure he had a temper and occasionally raised his voice. So did she. It was a normal part of family life. Gail had been "his best friend." Brian forgives Gail and makes excuses for her. He championed causes that must have taken a toll on her. For example, they had received death threats for his defiance of a local biker gang. But the biggest factor was a neighbor who had just split up, and filled Gail's head with feminist dogma. Gail told him: "I bet you never thought that sucky little Gail would become a strong independent woman." This is how Communist-Satanist movements work, corrupting one person at a time. Whether its destroying one family or getting one more child on Ritalin, the cancer spreads from cell to cell. They always operate behind the smokescreen of some "social ideal" but their real agenda is to divide and conquer and destroy. Brian had always consulted Gail but she never took much interest in decision-making. Now she pretends to enjoy "calling the shots." She has become aggressive and abrasive. COURT In court, criminals get better treatment than Brian did for "having a temper." A husband and father, he was considered an enemy of society. He lost the fruits of a lifetime labor: his children and his home. "It was all rubber-stamped," Brian said. "The lawyers and judge didn't give a damn. My lawyer said justice was just a word." He was left with a few tools, clothes and books. Tears welled up in Brian's eyes when he told the judge: "All I ever wanted was to be a knight in shining armor. Instead I'm Satan himself." Alone in his apartment, he cried over the loss of his children: "the floodgates really opened up." During the school year, Brian looked after the children more than Gail who was a schoolteacher. "I miss getting the children up in the morning, even when they are cranky," he says. Gail's betrayal shocked Brian out of his depression. He still sees his children who seem to be managing. He is getting work, dating and trying to put his life back together. The novelty of being an "independent woman" is beginning to wear off for Gail. She is overwhelmed with work and parenting, and the children say she is always yelling. CRUEL HOAX Women are being hoodwinked into thinking they want power. Power is the wrong kind of fuel for them; eventually their engines start to sputter. They need male love expressed as male power. A feminist with six children will have a hard time finding it. Many people ask me what we can do about the New World Order. Make no mistake, domestic violence and family laws are the vanguard of the Communist NWO. The Rockefeller "think tanks" have ordained the destruction of the nuclear family by smashing paternal authority. The object is to foster isolation and dysfunction so we cannot resist servitude, and to decrease population. The protection of women is not the real agenda. Where families are concerned, the totalitarian state has arrived. If a couple is overheard having an argument, a neighbor can phone the police who will take the husband away. Opportunistic and naïve feminists, lawyers and politicians advance this evil agenda. There are good people among them who could not be comfortable with this. We must ask them to reconsider. I encourage people to form small groups and meet regularly for mutual support and action. (The NWO wants us to be isolated.) We should remind judges, the press and politicians that they have been subverted. We should demand changes in domestic violence and family laws. At election time, we should call politicians to task. We cannot stop the attack on Iraq or Afghanistan. But we can stop the attack on families. As men, we can stand up and resist tyranny. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---- Comments for " Family Law: Men Are Kicked in the Teeth" Bill said (July 28, 2009): I read your article linked at steve quayles site titled "Family Law: Men Are Getting Kicked in the Teeth" I can relate to brians predicament and anger and frustration with the law in going through divorce. I was a teacher at the time my ex wife broke the news she was leaving me for another relationship about 16 years ago. I ended up leaving my job, spending time in a psychiatric hospital and going on long term disability. I can relate to the song amazing grace in that it was grace that caused my heart(mind) to fear and grace my fears relieved. the grace was the awareness that evil in the form of the perpetrators of the NWO had a lot to do with my personal suffering and also healing. I totally agree with your assesment of the NWO and support yout efforts in trying to fight these bastards. Thank you for writing the article. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---- Len said (July 28, 2009): I have no doubt, Henry, this is a true story and essentially what is happening in countless marriages and families. The poison of aggressive and heartless feminism destroys more lives than anyone has yet seen or fully understood. Thank you for doing your best and your part in exposing this incredible evil. Men and women (as husband & wife) were meant FROM THE BEGINNING to be helpful and faithful to each other; feminism, to a very large degree, DESTROYS THAT at the very root and heart of relationship. It is truly the evil politics of selfishness and resentment. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---- Matt said (July 28, 2009): It seems men are still getting screwed over in the family courts. I bet the guy is paying a nice amount in child support and alimony too. With six children they probably leave him with about 20% of his NET income. They always compute that stuff on gross revenue, but the wife probably got the tax write-off on the kids so he has to file single and zero on the full gross income minus alimony. That typically takes away any idea of running your own business as the courts set a fixed monthly fee based on best case income from the last 3 years or so. They dont care about the normal ups and downs that happen in a small business. I always thought it was odd that when you're married, you can have big ups and downs financially and the world didnt care. You could drive your family into a cardboard box on the street and if you "just married", its "oh well". However, get divorced and now the father is expected to make the monthly payroll come hell or high water. There is no downs financially once you get divorced; the monthly alimony and child support keep building up like a debt and even take on interest! In terms of divorce, child support, alimony and the like, the western governments are totally in la-la land. Who dreams these rules up? The western governments like to talk about being fair, and human rights, but its actually all BS. Abortion is a great example of the governments double talk. It takes both man and woman agreeing to have sex, but if the woman gets pregnant, its "her body/her choice". She can kill the guys child and the father has to suck it up. If she keeps the baby, its back to both man and woman being responsible. If abortion is going to be legal, a man should either have the right to "opt out" like the woman can or "opt in" and get partial custody and have child support responsibilities. If a woman wants an abortion but the man doesnt, the woman should have the baby and give full custody of the baby to the man. Of course all of it is a big house of cards that has no easy answers, and ultimately abortion is wrong. Anyway, I'm still living in Cebu Philippines and still believe it was the right choice for me. The cost of living is much more reasonable for me, and it helps to keep me on focus with my business work. I know that if I was still living in the States, my x-wife would have totally devastated my life with constant threats if I didnt keep up with her daily demands. Her attitude with me is very different with me being in a different country. I have to admit that it is very hard to not see my sons that I have with her regularly, but I have flown out for long visits over the years to keep up with them. My Filipina wife and I had a son who is now 16 months old, and its a completely different experience having a family like this. When I lived in the States with my x-wife, there was a big stress on me to earn a huge income and we definitely lived way beyond our means. In fact that life style drove us to bankruptcy. Of course going bankrupt and not having the fancy cars and 3000 sq foot house really put a dent in my x-wife and my relationship. Here in the Philippines, my wife and I live a much more basic lifestyle, yet its fulfilling in most ways. I definitely have a significantly less stressful like which has allowed me to focus on my work and generate income. Its so different from my previous marriage that is hard to use the same word to describe both situations. The Philippines is more reasonable when it comes to family law. While they do have lots of crazy laws like the States does, the reality is I am definitely freer here than in the States, especially as a divorced man. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---- Henry Makow is the author of A Long Way to go for a Date. He received his Ph.D. in English Literature from the University of Toronto. He welcomes your feedback and ideas at [email protected] *** exposing the hidden truth for further educational research only *** CAVEAT LECTOR *** In accordance with Title 17 U.S.C. Section 107, this material is distributed without profit to those who have expressed a prior interest in receiving the included information for research and educational purposes. NOTE: Some links may require cut and paste into your Internet Browser. Please check <http://tinyurl.com/33c9yr> http://tinyurl.com/33c9yr for more real news posts and support the truth! 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