>I read a lot of nasty horrible stories about tor and i'm afraid of it.
Well, if I write a book about how horrible freedom can be will you believe
me?
>I want to become serious about my privacy and surf the internet anonymously
but i don't want to see orrible stuff
Things don't magically appear on your screen. You have to actively and
willfully search for them. It is not like you open the TorBB and your screen
gets filled with Isis decapitations and shit.
>Is Tor really that bad? or are all lies?
It is not. It just like firefox. It as the use you give it. You can use
Firefox to view the most horrible things in this world, in the clearnet and
for free (as in beer)
>Should i use a VPN instead?
Why not both?