In a message dated 12/5/2004 1:58:52 AM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
No, John, taking Godâs side is more important than taking manâs side. (That is the point.) It has nothing to do with rules. Izzy
You could not be more off the mark if your remarks are in the shadow of my comment. I have found, over the years (and with my previously happy ex) that the only "rules" that matter are 'their"rules. Without exception, those who put being right in front of relationships, who separate the two (and that is what I am really talking about) lack the ability to be empathetic and, from a psychological point of view, cannot afford to admit that they are the ones who are wrong. I see it in counseling on a consistent level. Because my husbands does not do this or that, I am justified in my criticism of him. These people can be in a room full of people who care for them, telling them they are being hurtful, and they will argue the point, believing that they are the only ones who are right!! The disciples of Christ could not have been more immature, more wrong and He continued to care for them, respect them, die for them. He was a true friend.
John
