You are confusing the issue by not identifying the issue at hand. Spanking a child is a form of discipline. It is a way that children are trained. The Torah teaches us that if a child does not respond to such chastening, but rather becomes rebellious and incorrigible, then the parents should take them to the elders to be stoned to death (see Deut. 21). Maybe God would question your sanity for being unwilling to obey Torah on this matter.
Aaaaaahhhh, the good news of the gospel !!
JD
