IFF one's beliefs concerning the 'nature of things' informs one's life then, it is virtually impossible for those beliefs not to be present in all that one says and does.
 
Whether we differ as to which end of the boiled egg should be at the top (Gulliver's Travels) or that the earth is flat or not, such belief(s) will find themselves into all of our human interactions. Is this not so?
----- Original Message -----
From: Dave
Sent: May 29, 2005 01:43
Subject: [Bulk] [TruthTalk] Perry vs DaveH

DAVEH:  Note to all TTers.....Please do not read my reply if you are tired of this discussion/disagreement between Perry and me.   I will change the subject line to make it easy for you to delete any further discussions between us without reading them.    Perry posted this to me off-line, and yes....I could reply off-line, but choose instead to publicly post it for those who may have been following the discussion.  I'm doing so because accusations have been made and remain unresolved to this point, in my opinion.   I would like to think that what I am posting below will clarify much of what has been posted, and perhaps lead to a meaningful conclusion.  If you can bear to read one more post related to the Perry vs DaveH debate, read on.....

Charles Perry Locke wrote:
Dave, I guess TT is getting tired of hearing our disagreements.

  I know that in the past I have read posts from you suggesting that you think I would prefer mormons not post on TT, It would be nearly impossible to find them in the archives, and I do not save old posts.
DAVEH:  Trying to look for something that doesn't exist is pretty difficult, Perry.  When you say you do not save old posts, aren't they in your TRASH folder?  I would look them up for you if I could, but am currently out of town and have some of them back on my home computer.  Furthermore, I had my son build me a new one back in October, so if whatever was said prior to that time is pertinent, it can't easily be accessed.  Even so, if I were to find nothing (which would be expected IF I didn't say it as you have so accused), you probably would not be inclined to believe me.

      I've not tried the archives, so I don't know how easy it would be to search through all the old posts.  When I get some time (ha!), I may give that a try.
However, I am not making that up. My memory is not that bad.
DAVEH:  I do admit to having a bad memory....so, I could be wrong.  
So, the best I can do is to keep an eye out and point it out to you if it happens again. Of course, my having brought it to your attention, you are not likely to say so overtly.

  You deny ever stating such. That's fine if you do not recall saying it.
DAVEH:   You are right, I do not remember saying that I believed you did not want me to post LDS material on TT.  In fact, I remember you saying several times that you did not mind me posting or even teaching LDS stuff, but rather you opposed me claiming I was not in TT to teach Mormonism.    I fully understood what you said, and had no thoughts that you were trying to restrict me from posting anything on TT.  That is why I think you've got this wrong, Perry. 

    However, I vaguely remember saying to DavidM at one time something to the effect......

If Perry doesn't want me to post.....

.......or perhaps.....

Maybe Perry doesn't want me to post....

.........which would have been in the form of a question to ponder.  That would have been more likely what you remember seeing and misinterpreting as.......

Perry does not want me to post...
.

......which may have brought us to this point of disagreement.
This is sort of like you saying you do not "teach" on TT. I am sure you have an explanation or reason or rationale that will redefine your terms to exclude yourself from ever having indicated that I would prefer that mormons not post to TT. That seems to be an overall mormon tactic...redifine the words to mean something other than what they traditionally mean.
DAVEH:  Look up the dictionary definition for teach, Perry.  There are a few more definitions for the term than simply the one you want to use.  If you want to think I am changing the term to a definition that is not acceptable....I respectfully disagree.  While answering questions about my beliefs may be informing people....yes, you might say it is teaching them what I believe.....I don't view it as teaching Mormonism on TT.

    I perceived your comment about me teaching Mormonism on TT as being the reason I am here....to try to indoctrinate TTers into thinking and believing like Mormons, .  And I repeat....that is not why I came to TT, nor is it the reason I remain on TT. 

Lists of such changed definitions abound on the internet. It is a very accomplished and nebulous tactic, hard to argue against, but I have seen it becoming more and more popular, especially since Clinton attempted to redefine "is" and "inappropriate sexual relationship".
DAVEH:   You (or perhaps Kevin, I can't remember for sure) has made that association several times.  Why....to attempt to discredit what I say?    Numerous times I have explained that I (LDS folks) do define things differently.  And numerous times I've offered my definitions, and asked in return for other TTer's definitions just so we can have a more meaningful discussion that doesn't get misunderstood.   In this short exchange, didn't I ask you to define what you mean by teaching Mormonism on TT?  (My memory is so bad, I do remember thinking about asking you to define it, but I don't recall if I ever posted the thought.) 

    One thing I've noticed about TT....Some TTers are reluctant to firmly define their thoughts or terms.  I suppose that is a form of protection.  If one doesn't explicitly define what they think and believe, then it is harder for the opposition (so to speak) to attack it.  I suppose you could say I now use a similar tactic with you and Kevin regarding my believes about many LDS things.  Why should I share them with someone intent on denigrating me or my faith.  It is easier just to be vague rather than stick one's neck out to have it promptly lopped off. 

    The problem with defensive vagueness is that it does not foster an interesting discussion, or an exchange of ideas.   Rather it tends to make the aggressor want to attack more and the defender withdraw to a safe haven of vagueness or even lurking.   It seems the less you feed an attacking dog, the more vicious it gets....eh!  As I see it, many threads in TT degenerate into such, which to me is disappointing.  I think this is why there are fewer people posting, and more folks leaving TT.

    I doubt there is anybody here that is going to significantly change their beliefs or way of living due to what anybody else on TT posts.  Perhaps I'm wrong, but most folks here are pretty strongly set in their ways and I don't see anybody being swayed one way or the other from the path they currently walk.  Instead, it seems many simply leave TT when the nonsense, rhetoric and bashing reaches an intolerable level.

    When I first came to TT, I imagined it would be a place where I could easily find out how Protestants think about their religious beliefs.  Surprisingly, I found it was anything but easy to ask a simple question and receive a simple answer.  I suppose other TTers may have felt the same way when they asked me questions, as many LDS answers seem to entail a lot of explanation of details to answer so that there would be little confusion over the definitions of the terms we use. 

    So....I wonder if you perceive my detailed explanations as teaching Mormonism as opposed to my attempt at simply answering a difficult question that requires a lot of background information related to LDS doctrines and beliefs?  I bet that's a big element in this matter.....

  As a side anecdote, I was traveling home from work on the Amtrak Metrolink one afternoon. The lady behind me, in a voice that was loud enough that is was difficult to ignore, was teaching someone she was talking with on her cell phone how to lie by changing the meaning of words, so when you (figurative "you", not literal) say the word, the person you are talking to will think you mean one thing, but you redefine the word to mean something else to you, so you always have a fallback if you are caught. It was sickening to hear her weave her lies about the words and how she was saying to redefine them.
DAVEH:  I agree, Perry.  I think such tactics are used a lot in the business world to sell stuff much in the way I've been trying to sell Terry a set of leathers.  As a parody to amuse TTers, I thought it would be fun.  As a principle put into practice, I abhor it.   However, I strongly disagree if you think I use that tactic in my religious discussions on TT.   I'm quite aware of the differences of our definitions of terms, and feel that I've gone out of my way to clarify what I mean when those differences might lead to confusion.  Yet some TTers still want to accuse me of being deceptive when discussing things using terms that are similar, yet defined differently.

  I suggest we agree to disagree, as I did regarding our first point of contention.
DAVEH:  I'm quite amenable to having amicable discussions that end in disagreement.  I don't feel compelled to win these debates.  I hesitate to even think of these discussions as debates, though that is probably the proper definitions, as they tend to be rather combative in nature.  I would much rather view them as exchanges of our perceptions and beliefs about Jesus, religion or whatever.  I don't see much of that though.

     What I am less than enthusiastic about is your claim that I've been deceptively trying to teach Mormonism on TT.   I've understood that you mean that I'm doing such in an effort to indoctrinate TTers.  If that is your thinking, Perry....I continue to strongly and respectfully disagree.


Perry

From: Dave <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Reply-To: [email protected]
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [TruthTalk] mormon angels. was: Dave uses Socratic Method of Teac
Date: Sat, 28 May 2005 10:40:36 -0700



Charles Perry Locke wrote:

Dave,


  The LIE I accused you of was making me out to be against mormons posting on TT,

DAVEH:   ???   Huh?   What are you talking about, Perry?

when I have NEVER been against that. I felt that you intentionally twisted it around, and made it appear as though I objected to your posting mormon doctrine

DAVEH:  Where did you get that notion, Perry?  Either my memory is much worse than I expected, or you are making this stuff up.  And....I think the latter is more likely in this case.

when I DO NOT AND NEVER HAVE.

DAVEH:  Nor have I ever said that /I think you objected to me teaching Mormonism/, or anything remotely similar.   What have you been smokin', Perry???   :-)

   If you are seriously accusing me of such....dig out the quote that supports your supposition.  Until then, please quit whining and misconstruing what I've posted.   For a guy who has accused me of being deceitful, and twisting what you've said....you seem to be creating a mistruth in the way you've twisted this matter, Perry.  Go back and read my posts that you consider at fault and see if you didn't misinterpret what I posted.  If I am wrong...then post it for everybody to see....and I'll apologize.  If you don't find any incriminating evidence, then do you think you might owe me an apology?  Or......should we just accept your silence as  an admission of wrongly accusing me of posting something I didn't say?

I only objected to your teaching (from my perspective) and then denying it.

  The only thing left to do is for you to acknowledge that you understand that I never objected to your posting motmon doctrine

DAVEH:   ???   Why should I have to acknowledge such, when I've *never* posted anything that inferred that /you objected to me posting Mormon doctrine/!

or else to provide evidence to the contrary, and that the only thing I ever objected to (from my perspective) was your denial of your teaching mormon doctrine.

DAVEH:   And for that, you called me deceitful, did you not?


Perry



From: "Charles Perry Locke" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Reply-To: [email protected]
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [TruthTalk] mormon angels. was: Dave uses Socratic Method of Teac
Date: Fri, 27 May 2005 07:31:30 -0700

Dave,

  I respect your position, and I beleive that we may have settled our first point of contention.

  While you may not consider some of your responses to be teaching mormonism, I most whole-heartedly believe that some of it is.

  When you answer questions that are asked, and even when you give mormon references to support it, I do not think of that as "teaching" per se. However, when you ask a Christian what he/she believes, and he/she tells you, and THEN you counter and rebut it with mormon doctrine and references, which you have done in the past, then you ARE teaching mormon doctrine, no marter how subtlekly you do it.

  So, I can live with that fact that you DO NOT consider that teaching, which allows you to say that you are NOT teaching mormon doctrine, but I will adhere to my belief that you ARE teaching mormon doctrine when you do that.

I will set out to resolve our second point of contention in my next post.

Perry

From: Dave Hansen <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Reply-To: [email protected]
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [Bulk] Re: [TruthTalk] mormon angels. was: Dave uses Socratic Method of Teac
Date: Fri, 27 May 2005 07:07:02 -0700

DAVEH:  If you want to define teaching as responding to questions about my beliefs, then you might have a point, Perry.  I view it a bit differently though.  To be a teacher, one needs students.  For the most part, I don't view TTers as being students wanting to learn.  Witness Debbie's comments today....

   From my LDS perspective, Teachers are to teach the gospel by using the Word of God.   As you know, for the most part....I have refrained from posting latter-day passages on TT, excepting in specific cases when asked to do so or it was appropriate for the discussion.  As a courtesy to TTers, I've tried to focus my discussions within the confines of the Bible.....which in effect composes less than half of what I believe to be Canon of Scripture.   Can I teach Mormonism while ignoring much of what God has said?  Not in my opinion.  If I wanted to teach Mormonism, you'd be seeing a lot of references to our Standard Works instead of just Biblical quotes.



Charles Perry Locke wrote:

Dave, do you sometimes teach mormon doctrine on TT?

From: Dave Hansen <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>

Pery wrote: Are you on TT to teach mormon doctrine?

DAVEH:  No, Perry....as I've explained before, that was not what motivated me to join TT, nor is it the reason I remain.



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