RE: [TruthTalk] Joanna Williams - friend of some 10 years speaks on believing teens

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I’m not going to read this if you can’t identify the writer…iz   From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Lance Muir Sent: Saturday, March 11, 2006 12:05 PM To: TruthTalk@mail.innglory.org Subject: [TruthTalk] Joanna Williams - friend of some 10 years speaks on believing teens   Well, since I'm being asked for a response on this...my initial feeling is that we need to live in the real world having contact with real people...perhaps listen a little more to others and how they live.  In my experience with people, including believers by the way, struggle with sin is common.  By the way, people are so much more harsh on visible sins such as addictions to alcohol, pornography, drugs etc...whereas I believe Jesus always looked deeper into our hearts and spoke to much that was invisible to many...such as self-righteousness, judgement towards others, jealousies, religious obsession. etc.  These are way harder to weed out of our lives than outer behaviours that seem to upset the church so much.  I pray that we may see these situations with the heart of God, listening and dealing with others on a very real level which unfortunately is so often tucked away and not talked about enough.  We have many hurting people in our churches who are deeply addicted to many non-christian behaviours...but rather than judge...it may be much better to listen, to learn and to work out the deeper rooted hurts and issues that cause people to lose themselves in the worlds of pornography, alcohol, sexual relationships etc.  It is so important to be the kind of Christian that is listening to others with an open attitude and no pre-conceived judgements in mind whether they are in the church or not.  A couple of instances pop into my mind right now...one is from last Saturday when I actually popped by my friend's house...co-worker from the bank where I work.  As we sipped on coffee, her boyfriend/spouse began to talk about how he used to go to church in England and considers himself a believer in God and Christ but would no longer go to a church anymore because of the questions about his relationship with my friend and the fact that they were living together.  He began to share his hurts about this situation and then we got into one of the best discussions I've ever had on the book of Job.  He relates a lot to Job and the judgement his well-meaning friends brought to him during a rough time in his life when they should have been listening and loving him and not judging him.  How wonderful at the end of the book when Job not only comes into a deep trust with God but God also invites him to pray for the very friends that incessantly accused him.  Great victory there and much to be learned from that story.  Another situation I am reminded of is happening in my church right now with a young teenager who is pregnant and has come to our church for shelter.  While she loves the Lord and clings to His love at this hard time in her life, she is also still involved with her boyfriend outside of marriage right now and realizes her situations are not perfect.  I have just chosen as a youth ministry leader to walk beside her, with no judgments given, and just let the Word of the God speak to her and let her make her choices...letting her know God's great love just as she is.  I feel as if as a church, if we come out of the little religious bubble we've allowed ourselves to be in...much awaits us.  Sure life will not be black and white but it will be interesting and beautiful...as diverse as each person's dna and personality is...it is in these simply unique ways that God does touch and change each life...not in cookie-cutter ways or via textbook answers!  I hope this helps somewhat...would love to continue the conversation!!  All the best to all of you...Roll up your sleeves and get into the amazing mix of life with others...God will pop up in the most surprising places!!  My e-mail address is [EMAIL PROTECTED]   if any of you care to contact me at any time!  Thank you!