I got behind on my Dave watching last week, and only saw one of them (with
Tina Fey, who I still have a thing for, and got rewarded for it by seeing
her talk about her boobs) last night. I think this was the Thursday show.
Right before the Top Ten list, Dave told a little story (I paste below the
description from the Wahoo Gazette):

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http://www.cbs.com/late_night/late_show/the_wahoo_gazette/
"And while last second changes to the Top Ten are being made, Dave decides
to tell another story.   There is a female Late Show staffer who happens to
be a lesbian.   She was hailing a cab the other day.  A cab stops for her
and before she gets in, she turns and kisses her partner goodbye.   She
hops in the backseat and the cabbie quickly turns and asks, "Are you
French?"  "
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In his actual telling of the story he mentioned Barbara Gaines by name,
though they did not cut to a shot of her standing what I guess is only 20
feet away at that little producer's podium. He also elaborated more than
the above reflects, on her lesbianess. He has done things like this on
occasion, and it may have just been a space filler to let them get the Top
Ten list ready (Dave often seems to share anecdotes from his day that just
strike his fancy for some reason, often with no discernible reason. I did
wonder if it was more intentional than that - perhaps to again publicly
identify himself with the several lesbian, gay (and, I think he has a
transgendered) employees, or if it was a response, in Dave-logic, to
criticism he got from Rosie O'Donnell before Christmas. I don't think that
was discussed here, but she apparently got pissed at a joke he told in
early December after she announced she was getting engaged. I did not think
it was that funny a joke, but the main thing I recall thinking when he told
it was "is Rosie O'Donell still a pop culture reference? What's next, a
Ricki Lake joke. But apparently thought it was just short of hate speech.

I read a lot of stories about Rosie's overreaction, but nothing about a
response from Dave or his camp.

Below are some links and excerpts illustrating Rosie's reaction:

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http://www.shewired.com/box-office/2011/12/12/rosie-odonnell-fires-back-letterman-tasteless-lesbian-tow-trucker-joke

"Rosie O'Donnell has fired back at fellow comedian-talk show host David
Letterman's jokes about her engagement, commenting on his recent sex
scandal and suggesting he might be antigay.

Last Tuesday night, following the announcement of O'Donnell's engagement to
Michelle Rounds, Letterman joked, "The woman she is marrying, her fiancee,
was driving ... and her car broke down. And guess what happened? Rosie
pulls up right behind her in her tow truck."

Friday night on OWN's *The Rosie Show*, O'Donnell wondered what prompted
Letterman to resort to making such a stereotypical crack. "Why is that,
Dave?" she asks. "Why? I don't remember making fun of you when you had sex
with all your interns, Dave. I didn't do that. I didn't make fun of your
rampant, throbbing heterosexuality, did I Dave?". O'Donnell then riffed on
a familiar Letterman trademark—his top ten list—when she gave her top five
reasons why she refuses to appear on his show. Included among them are:
"Dave, when you had that heart surgery, you shouldn't have told the doctors
to take out the whole thing" and "Not only do you appear to be antigay,
you're anti-tow trucker.""
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/16/rosie-odonnell-letterman-trump-bachmann-perry_n_1153677.html

"So here I was getting nothing but support and love from the general public
and then I go into work and the writers said, "Did you see the Letterman
thing?" They played the clip for me and I was kind of shocked.

Now, do I think David Letterman is a homophobic guy? No. Do I think those
jokes had homophobic undertones? Yes, I do. Because that is just a way to
mask the word 'dyke.'

"Rosie pulled up with a tow truck" and "She's also now the defensive coach
of the Brooklyn Sabers," a hockey team I guess. What are those jokes about?
*Rosie's a dyke. Rosie's a dyke.* Now, did I think Dave would ever say,
"Rosie's a dyke?" No. But that is that what that joke is about, yes, it is.

When I got the crazy haircut [back in 2002] and was in the news with all
the "Rosie's insanity," "She's having a breakdown," "She's crazy," -- he
did a lot of stuff about me. He had Bruce Willis come out with a short wig
like my hair. He did a lot of jokes about me. But I was always like, "OK,
whatever." But in the wake of feeling so unbelievably supported and loved
and freed by my own personal change, it felt like a slap. Every week the
Letterman people call and say, "We want you on the show." So [on my show]
we rolled the clip [of Letterman joking about me] and I came back and said,
"Why? I'll tell you why [I won't come on the show], Dave." And then I
listed the top five
reasons.<http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/13/rosie-odonnell-david-letterman_n_1145758.html>They
were funny jokes that I did, but what I was really saying was, "It's
not OK for you to do that. It's not OK for you to say unfunny jokes where
the bottom line is, 'Isn't Rosie a dyke?'"

When Dave had all of his issues of his heterosexual acting out, of his
heterosexual union with his wife, when he had sex with interns on his show,
I did not do jokes about that. I know where the line is. I'd never say to
Dave, "You know you're not really a manly man. You're a skinny,
gap-toothed, unappealing man. There are men much more manly than you." I
don't do that. I wouldn't do that. But he feels it's okay to basically say,
"Isn't she so dykey?"

I just feel at 50 -- there's a wonderful speech on the TED women
conference<http://conferences.ted.com/TEDWomen/>by this woman Susan
Levine where she talks about the benefit of being in
the fabulous "f**k you 50s," where you get to a point where you're in your
50s and you're through menopause and you've just had enough, and you're
like, "You know what, f**k you, right?" and that’s where I've sort of
arrived at.

Do I think Dave innately hates gay people? No, I do not. Do I think it was
a thoughtless and offensive, not just to me, but to every gay person in the
country and to every kid struggling with their sexuality, who hears
presidential candidates saying we are not worthy, not equal to, that we are
less than? Do I think that it's damaging to them? I do. And I'm going to
stand up for myself and for them when I feel that it's necessary."

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