One Mother's Perspective
Of The Military

From J.F.
9-10-3


Hi Jeff -
Here is a letter from a friend of mine who recently visited her son at Ft. Hood, Texas, just prior to his being shipped out to Iraq. I feel it provides an interesting "mother's perspective" on the whole issue. She has told me I can share this letter, so feel free to post it if you choose...
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Here is what was weird about being in Texas at Fort Hood with my son last week (just before he shipped out to Iraq): almost every civilian we met, off the base, that found out my son was Iraq-bound got very excited, like it was a good thing.....they were almost envious.....they didn't question what the heck we're doing there at all.....they just pumped my son�s hand and slapped him on the back like he was a hero....oh, brother!
There's such a thing as misguided patriotism and misguided courage, don't you think? On the base, well, there was absolutely no grey area at all.....you could feel the bizarre, almost happy energy that everything was geared up for war.....it really made my stomach flip-flop. It was surreal. Ft. Hood is the biggest military base in the world, and everywhere I went there was a happy electricity that there's "a war on".....the worst thing was the PX --- it was selling war trinkets like you would see souvenirs sold at Disneyland.....t-shirts, gewgaws, little teddy bears dressed up in khaki soldier uniforms....Jeff, you would have gotten sick....in the book section there wasn't a single thing for sale that wasn't pro-military....or about any other subject. Talk about brainwashing!
There were lots of strange rules on the base too, that made no sense. For example, I couldn't have lunch with my son in the base cafeteria because I had on a dress without sleeves...(it was over 100 degrees outside). Yet in my son's barracks, there was one soldier who was allowed to keep a gigantic pet snake, (the biggest snake I've ever seen in my life!) and there were broken beer bottles and empty six-packs everywhere---the soldiers are allowed (encouraged?) to drink on base. The whole message to the soldiers is �the more macho, the better�.......and that includes the women soldiers, too!! Especially the women soldiers!!
Maybe individually there are more thoughtful people in the military (like my son) who simply enlisted hoping to be of some (also misguided) "service" to their country, and then hope to check-out after their enlistment with some generous education funds and Vet benefits.....but the whole atmosphere there is gung-ho, regardless of right or wrong.
I'm still scratching my head about what the heck my son is doing in this mess....I have to respect that he wanted to make an independent decision and strike out on his own.....but if only he'd thought about it more, and if he only had an opportunity to really know what he was getting into, not just hearing a recruiters false promises.
People should be given generous education monies for "serving" our country in capacities that help real human needs....working in food pantries, or nursing homes, or with Habitat for Humanity building homes, or in schools...etc. Instead all the good programs are getting their budgets slashed.... it's very sad.....
            The Mulindwas Communication Group
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            Groupe de communication Mulindwas
"avec Yoweri Museveni, l'Ouganda est dans l'anarchie"

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