If you want good, nice, beatiful women come to Toronto.
Sweet ones from Iran, Chile, Indonesia, China, Japan, Germany etc............ The sky is the limit.
It is unfortunate African women are so hostile to black men. Even innocent 'hi' is greated with hostility, can you imagine?
Is it our poverty or it is backwardness?
Mitayo Potosi
From: Owor Kipenji <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] CC: [EMAIL PROTECTED], [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: ugnet_: Beware of beautiful women Date: Sat, 4 Oct 2003 22:32:30 +0100 (BST)
Beware of beautiful women MAN TO MAN --- By Hilary Joseph Bainemigisha Oct 4, 2003
Have you seen a very beautiful woman? Don't direct me there because I am a peace-loving Ugandan.
And I have been so since the time I started active combat. I always saw friends who bragged about their beautiful women without telling us about the actual cost of maintaining them. They just enjoyed walking arm-in-arm with a knockout girl, welcomed the envy of the public and what they thought was respect, admiration and approval.
Behind the scenes, they would literally throw themselves at her feet, unaware that they were signing proposals to give her more power. Sooner, and never later, she would use those powers to dissolve the parliament and leave the cabinet tumbling after.
And when it came to the romantic balance sheet with this beauty-dating pal, we had more timber than his firewood. We were safer in Rwakitura while he was in the Soroti trenches. And it was him who would always complain about congotimbering people.
You see, extremely beautiful women came packaged with natural disasters like pride, selfishness and attitude. It is easier to march Kony down Old Port Bell Road than to find a real looker who will not give you a hard time and leave when some Gaetano shows up.
I know there are lots of guys out there who wouldn't mind having the misfortune of boyfriending some distilled Abby but look again and see if it is not merely an ego rush problem. What is meaty about women is the thrill, love, respect, honesty, commitment and dependability.
Beauty is a wrapping that will peel off when the first baby's cries are heard in your room. And then you will have a woman who believes that all ministries should suffer a 30 percent budgetary cut to fund her vain attempts to retain her previous looks.
Don't you see yourself forfeiting your cold bell beer until she discovers that she cannot attract catcalls anymore? By then either you or her (but most probably you) will be on your deathbed, hoping in vain for a third term.
As a veteran in the dating trenches, I must tell you that in a lasting relationship, beauty should only be treated like Kakooza Mutale. It helps you come in and, by the time it gets to the point of commitment, it will no longer matter whether he is a major or captain. All you want to do is get him out of your space.
If you have a beautiful woman, you are likely to be one of the people who think women are generally selfish. Because she doesn't help you carry the bags and is overly concerned with material things, you think it is a woman thing.
But it is not. There are many women of integrity. Those who are dependable and keep their word.
You can stay with your beauties and suffer an everlasting struggle to improve yourself. For most beauties are complainers. They are very selfish and consider anything that takes them out of their comfort zone a terrorist.
They prefer flying private jets to produce children in Germany. If you have no relationship with State House, and you cannot raid DR Congo for timber, you will have to dust your spear and rob a micro finance office. Because a beauty cannot change her plans to fit yours. It is you who is supposed to rearrange yours to fit her needs.
So, brothers, beware of the package that looks perfect. She is a bomb, dresses to assault, attracts attention to you and all that. But you just don't seem to really have fun. You find yourself skipping presidential lunches, picking up enemies as you go along and fighting imaginary foes only to be told that there is no third term.
So it is best to weed this woman out of your garden of lovelies as quickly as you can.
� 2003 The Monitor Publications
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