I have never posted a single message to equal number of egroups and received so many angry responses from men. It seems that the men who read me everyday, simply ignored me because they thought that I was wasting my time. "Culture-AConspiracyAgainstWomen" hit patriarchy right below the belt. That is good.
I wait to see what men will say when I tap deep into their psyche as to why men beat their wives. I am very confident that I am the only in the whole who knows the real answer. By the way, it takes me a few minutes to write what I researched and investigated for four damn long years. I am a woman who has lost the ability to do a lot things including thinking and asking and anwering questions about why men do what they do to women.
I am very proud of me. I am a woman with knowledge and KNOWLEDGE IS POWER. I want all women to have knowledge like myself.
KNOWLEDGE IS POWER
Anyomokolo Has Power
Anyo
mmuganzi <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Hi Anyo....
Patriarchy is definately responsible for the surbodination of
women..lol
In [EMAIL PROTECTED], Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:
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> Patriarchy-A Conspiracy Against Women.
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> By An African Woman
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> My introduction is the Gospel Truth. I would like any man of any
status from any part of the world to challenge my introduction.
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> Introduction:
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> Patriarchy (culture and tradition and religion) is a social system
whose mission is to retard a girl's mental development by replacing
our moral conviction with culture and tradition and religion so that
we are easy to control, use and abuse by men because men have innate
fear of our vagina and each other's penis. Patriarchy's mission is to
disables a gi rl's mental development so that we are intellectually
incapable of performing mental tasks to defend ourselves against
evil. �
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> Child Mental Development.
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> I have read a lot about child mental development and I shall
translate. You don't have to read any text in order to know this but
I like to connect the dots in simple terms.
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> We all know that there is something unique about a child's (under
13yrs old) ability to learn and retain information. The brain of a
child younger than 13, stores whatever information it is given
because it does not have a choice. It is the reason we say that "if
you teach your kids this, then that, or that they were (not) raised
properly, or this was how my parents taught me, and bla bla�"
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> In other words, what you learn before you turn 14yrs old, will
determine your character as an adult, but every learnt behavior can
also be unl earnt especially if the environment does not accommodate
it. A brain older than 14yrs old has the ability to select what sort
of information it stores. This also explains the rebellious nature of
a teenager. They rebel because their brain can select. This also
explains why Indians like Indian food/music/cultural dances, Africans
like African food/music/cultural dances. These are foods, music,
dances, they ate, heard and danced to before they turned 13 years
old. When a person becomes an adult (18yrs +), the information stored
in a child's subconscious, will be retrieved and will dominate their
adulthood.
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> This explains why girls are taught how to be wives from infancy.
Think about it, does it make sense to teach a 10yr old girl how to,
one day, take care of a 25 year old man who in most cases is 10 years
older? Why does culture not wait until the girl child is mature (14
yrs old) and able to synthesize informatio n. The answer is because
they would be too old to brainwash. Their brain will filter all the
garbage in culture, tradition and religion that is clearly
disadvantageous to them as girls. Which leads to my next question,
how would women's daily interaction with men be if we were not coded
and programmed with patriarchy's systematically arranged collection
of laws that is clearly disadvantageous to us girls/women? One thing
for sure is that we would not be so easily controlled and used and
abused by men at such alarming rates. Nature has provided as women
with an innate defense mechanism.
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> Patriarchy, is a school where new born girls are sent to learn
sexual and social morals. The foundation of this curriculum is to
teach a girl that the only license for pregnancy is marriage, which
sounds like a good thing. At this school, a girl must be able to
define and understand words that are used to belittle, degrade and
severely taunt a woman who deviates from these sexual and social
norms. Girls are taught how to avoid being stigmatized and associated
with these words. The core of this universal school for girls, is to
teach us that our destiny is to be a wife and as I mentioned before,
culture does not offer us a any choices.
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> How does culture retard a girls mental development?
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> How does culture retard a girls mental development so that she is
intellectually incapable of performing mental task which makes her
vulnerable, easy to control and be used and abused by a men?
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> It is inconceivable to find any two 10 year old African girls in
the playground talking about "I don't want to get married because
husbands beat their wives". Or talking about what do when a husband
beats his wife. Whereas the same 10 year old brain is being
mercilessly overloaded with teaching about future responsibilities as
a wives. Th e same 10 yr old is mercilessly being brainwashed to think
about nothing but following culture and tradition. The same 10 yr old
is working around the clock, day in and out, to avoiding being
taunted with words that are, unknown to her, coined to suppress her
mental development. In other words, this 10 year old brain, like a
stem cell, has been programmed to think about nothing but culture and
tradition. But why isn't culture also telling/teaching these same 10
year olds, the disadvantages of being a wife? I mean, the intensive
labor like a horse 24 hrs, sexual slavery oppression and use and
abuse, physical assault etc. The answer ! is because a 10
> yr will retain this information and as an adult it will be
retrieved. In other words, this would be a fully mentally development
woman that cannot be easily controlled and used and abused by a man.
This would be a woman with knowledge. This would be a woman who has a
choice; she would be intellectually capable of performing mental task
and defending herself; she would be interacting with men at the same
level, or even better. SHE WOULD BE KNOWLEDGEABLE. SHE WOULD BE ME
BECAUSE KNOWLEDGE IS POWER.
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> Given the knowledge that I have acquired about a men's psyche,
patriarchy, culture, tradition and religion, I can safely say that
women are indeed extremely stupid compared to men. I used to be one
those women. By stupid I mean completely severely incapable of
thinking beyond what they have been taught as culture and tradition.
Girls whose moral convictions have been replaced by culture,
tradition and religion are intellectually decapitated. Women in this
societies where patriarchy dominates are at the bottom of
intellectual hierarchy compared to their male age mates whose mental
development and innate (archaic) beliefs have not been replaced. If
it has been replaced, then it serves to disproportionately widen the
gap of mental and intellectual development between boys and girls. It
is the reason all men in these cultures, treat their wives like
brainless creatures. The level of social, emotional, sexual, physical
and psychological torture these women experience every day! as wives,
> is a gender catastrophe. These women don't live; they breathe and
walk on two legs. Because they are emotionally and mentally severely
paralyzed and culture offers them no alternative, men assume that
they are happy with the status quo.
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> Why Is This Culture A Conspiracy Against Women?
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> As an African woman who was born and raised in a patriarchal
culture, I have never heard of any words that are used to belittle,
degrade, humiliate and taunt a husband who beats his wife, neglect
his wife, abandons his wife, mentally, psychologically, and/or
children and cheats on his wife. There is no part of pa triarchy that
tries to mold boy's behavior so that they are less violent towards
their wives. Would I be wrong to say that marriage is a cult where
women are brainwashed and drafted to be used and abused by men? For
so many generations, patriarchy has failed to coin a single word to
taunt a wife beater. There is no culture and tradition that
intimidates or at least stigmatizes a husbands who beats his wife.
Not only is this an ideology that is socially accepted , but at an
individual level, men do not condemn each other's ruthlessness
towards women to each other. Which means that they understand each
other. They know what individual interests they gain! by beating,
> mistreating and abusing women or a wife.
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> Why do men beat their wives? If you have not heard it from me, a
woman with in depth knowledge of men's psyche, then you haven't heard
the truth. Trust me on this one!
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> To be continue�.
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