A Model For The Evolution Of This Global Culture Of Wife Beating.
My audience are women because it is women who don�t know why men beat their wives. Let me create a fictitious world where women have muscles and are stronger than men. I have a lot of knowledge about patriarchy but I will simply it in this model.
Imaginary world.
Girls are born with very strong innate believes that is necessary for them to have in order to succeed in the chain of reproduction, and obviously, this believe is triggered only when the girl begins to menstruate. So, a girl who does not menstruate will not know of this natural believe that goes hand in hand with menstruation. Due to girls aggressive competition to reproduce, they don�t discuss this believe with each other.
Girls deep innate believe
Nature tells a girl as soon as she menstruates, that if a boy knows that she �drips� blood every 28 days, all her children will die. So back in days when we lived in the caves, everybody knew why some mothers lost all their children. Women with their very strong believes, decided that they should institute a culture that would prevent a boy from knowing that a girls menstruation because this will save their children from dieing.
�First� generation (simultaneously globally)
Older women sat under the tree and decided that boys innate believes should be replaced with a culture (religion). All boys were taught that each time a girl complains about gravity dragging her breast to the ground, his penis, which is already pointing to the ground, just waiting to drop at any time, will fall off. But he can avoid this if whenever she complains, he stands on his head.
�Second� generation (simultaneously globally)
Girls menstruated, fear, initiated by this natural believe kicked in. But wait a minute, a girl looked around and said, �No wonder they are brainwashed to stand on their heads. She realized that the reason there are so many boys/men standing on their heads for four days straight, every month, is because during menstruation, women were faking breast pain caused by gravity.
�Third� generation (simultaneously globally)
This unfair feminists culture of head standing disfigured men�s head shape and caused retardation and often pain. Men began to defy this culture. Women had to improvise another strategy. They wrote the bible and put down rules in black and white. Any man who defied the Goddess� words, was simply �shot� to death, drowned or strangled. This Goddess also said �Feel free to beat your husband if he does not want to stand on his head or obey you�. The Holy Goddess is great! Praise be to Goddess!
�Fourth� generation (simultaneously globally)
Patriarchy was born in America. Men decided to find an alternative to head-standing because women were beating men because men had pentagon heads. Men who refused to stand on their heads were beaten by women because they were different and the Goddess said that men should obey women. American men decided to challenge feminism by producing magic pills and different types of bras and special chest gears to hold the breast up. Women supported this project 100% and as matter of fact, wrote many books and theories on how gravity hurts the breast and how pills is the best solution; women helped built pharmaceutical companies everywhere. Women agreed with men, that this would alleviate women�s breast pain caused by gravity, in that way, men no longer have to stand on their heads and they would have normal head shapes just like women. Wow! Sweet American men. THEY SUPPORT EQUALITY. And are very much against oppression of women. Aren�t they great! It makes sense because their would be no need for any woman to continue beating any man because they both have identical head-shapes.
Unfortunately for American men, things don�t go as planned. The whole world would be wondering what went wrong in America?
Would American men have taken a different approach if they knew about menstruation? Absolutely!
The Real World.
Sperm production goes hand in hand with a strong innate believe, which is the driving power behind this ruthless, universally accepted culture of physically torturing wives. All men produce sperm, all have the same belief and all men are determined to keep the secret. He may not beat you, but he knows why other men do it. He will not tell you the truth because he would be digging his own grave.
When a boy is born, patriarchy (culture and tradition and religion) calls him to the corner, away from the girl, and says �Look, when you start producing sperm you will see the importance of beating your wife. But you have to deny her the right to get angry, otherwise, it would be meaningless to beat her. So use this culture s the reason for beating her.
So�
In Gambia-This is a real culture
There is a song for 5yr old girls with lyrics that �A wife who makes her husband angry with her, will never go to paradise and she will take her children to hell with her.� So whenever a �sperm producer� feel like beating her, he would decide when to get angry and while beating her, this words will accompany his action: Why are you making me angry? If you don�t want to go to paradise, that is your choice. Don�t take my children with you?� And he will leave her with a few broken ribs because he understand the significance of this brutality. He also knows that if she knew the real reason for this severely beating, he risks losing his life. But patriarchy has protected him by making her believe that his action is her fault.
In America-This is a real culture
Whenever a man wants to beat his wife, he initiates an argument that he controls so that she raises her voice. Every American battered wife will tell you this �It starts with a simple argument and he just blew everything out of proportion. It was a simple argument�. Unfortunately, American culture does not allow a man to beat his wife because he wants his children to go to paradise, so men have improvised a culture that is safer for them. A husband will then beat his to a pulse, and claim that she made him angry by yelling at him, and yet he controlled the conversation so that she gets to that point of raising her voice. What she does not know is that, the argument was very well controlled to remove her right to get angry after a broken rib.
In India-This is a real culture
A husband has the right to inflict physical pain on his wife if her family does not give him the bride price that he demanded. He can demand �An invisible Jet that travels at the speed of sound� that has to be delivered within two days. Otherwise, he will dig her leg with a small razor. It happens everyday. India's hospitals are flooded with wives who have been burnt with cigarettes (sp), cut with razor blades, broken ribs, craked skull all because the family did not deliver this jet within two days. These men make demands that they know that the poor family's can't afford. Yet the truth is, they were preparing to beat the wife because of the secret that goes hand in hand with sperm production.
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There is one thing common with all three women.
The actions by their husbands are the women�s faults. Which creates a safe environment for the man. If she can�t get angry, she can�t resist his brutality, she can�t defend herself, she has no reason to dig a knife through his heart while asleep on the same bed at night, she has no reason to cut off his dick at night.There is one thing common with all three men.
They decide when to act. And that decision is made whenever the social secret that accompanies sperm production is triggered.In other words, there is nothing any woman or law, can do to stop a man from beating his wife because she is not the cause but unfortunately, in a man's head, beating her is the only solution to the problem in his head (The social secret)
Solution
1. One thing that will stop all men, universally, from beating their wives, is to let the wives know the real reason for this evil heartless dark side of a man. Her anger will give her the will to die over that will to live and no husband wants to share a bed at night with such a powerful force. This is the reason, no man, even one on his death bed would reveal this social secret to any woman; not even the man who does not beat his wife.
2. I have a scientific solution that will stop any man on his tracks from merely, yelling at his wife. Like I said before, women could have stopped men�s cruelty many years ago, if they had knowledge of this social secret, which is now in Anyo�s possession.
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Next time you hear Kofi Anan or George Bush address the UN about how to stop domestic violence or how to empower women with economic independence, ask them why it has not worked in America? And with pride, tell them to �Shut the �flip� up�, because Anyo, has got the overnight solution, which does not require economic independence and they damn well know it because they also produce sperm. Let them know that women have been trying to unravel the mystery of why men beat their wives and we finally got it!
I will introduce women to 3 books written by American men about the real reason (social secret) men beat their wives. Ladies, you will never understand their advanced �English vocabularies� and the way in which they carefully combine English words so that they don�t get in trouble with other sperm producers.
I will forever be the only woman on earth with this knowledge, until, of course, the day of my presentation.
Knowledge is power. All women need knowledge; not economic independence.
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