Friends
There is a whole lot we need to cover about the Acholi thugs that looted our
property, but raped and murdered many women in Luwero and West Nile from as
young as 8 year olds to as old as 70. As I have indicated in passed series, the
violence Acholi men did into our regions has never been experienced by anyone
anywhere, they got an 8 year old girl and cut her vigina out with a broken
bottle, they got a girl and argued on who to rape her first, when they failed
to agree on who to rape her first, they blew her head off with a gun, this poor
girl in Luwero died for her rapists failed to agree on whose dick goes into her
first. And if you have followed my series these are the lighter atrocities
Acholi did in Luwero and West Nile. So it became important for us to understand
what makes an Acholi man, but what is his expectation from a woman, and how do
they treat their wives? Men treat women the way they were educated at growing
up, if a man gets a bottle piece and cut a woman’s vagina out, you bet I need
to understand his upbringing and how he treats his wife at home. We found a
study that was done about Acholi men by Dr. Charles Amone very compelling, and
we are here-by encouraging you to read what he researched about Acholi men and
what he found out. Acholi men are born and grow up women and child abusers but
drunkards, and what is so sad is that Acholi women and children are not even
aware that they’re abused. Women and children are tools and property that are
replaceable. And here is how to sum it all up, if you have a cow and a woman on
a boat and you have only one chance to save one, you save a cow for you will
use the cow to get another woman. Friends the situation we have on Acholi men
is that pathetic.
At this point let me state that given what we have read from this report, it is
my opinion that all women that were raped by Acholi men in both Luwero and West
Nile must stand up and sue Uganda Government because it failed to do a back
ground check, on Acholi men, before it made them soldiers. Even though Obote
and Tito Okello government were removed, Uganda government never move so you
can file a class action today because Uganda government is permanent. Given the
historical back ground we have seen about Acholi men, no intelligent government
would have ever agreed to hand them a gun to man road blocks let alone fight a
war in Luwero and West Nile. When you get a man that grew up under this system
and hand him a gun to man a road block into Kireka, you have developed a very
clear megalomania narcissist which Acholi men clearly became. By allowing them
to become soldiers, Uganda government handed all women in Luwero and West Nile
to them and so they devoured them. In as much as we are raising these
atrocities, if you are a woman that was raped in Luwero and West Nile raise up
and get a good lawyer in Uganda, to file a class action on Uganda government
for handing you over to the Acholi thugs. If that class action is filled we
will closely monitor it and we will help as required.
Friends this is what Dr Charles Amone found out on who is the real Acholi man.
Culture and Domestic Violence Among the Acholi
People of Northern Uganda
Culture, Domestic violence, Patriarchy, Acholi, Dominance
Dr. Charles Dr. Charles A
Dr Charles Amone
Senior Lecturer of History, Gulu University-Northern Uganda and Fulbright
Visiting Scholar, Millersville University
of Pennsylvania-USA.
Culture and domestic violence
The Acholi are a Lwo people currently occupying seven
districts of northern Uganda namely Gulu, Kitgum, Pader,
Amuru, Agago, Nwoya and Lamwo. They are also found in
the Magwi County of Southern Sudan. The Acholi are patrilineal.
There is a small handmade stool in every typical Acholi
home. It is called “Arwot ki Oda” (Personal communication
with Antonio Okee, an Acholi elder). Only the man, the head
of the family, sits on this stool. This is his symbol of authority
over the household. “Arwot ki oda” is translated as “I am the
paramount chief in this home”. The man, among the Acholi,
is a patriarch. He owns all assets of the family including land,
animals, birds, crops and anything movable or immovable.
He also wheels control over his children and wife/wives. In
case one of the wives or children gives out or sells anything
belonging to them without the permission of the man, he
is entitled to discipline the culprit. The disciplinary measure
may take the form of spanks, lashes of the cane, hard work on
the family garden or strong reprimand.
Property ownership is clearly written in the unwritten rules
governing the Acholi family. The man owns everything. His
deputy is the first male born. A woman who wants to slaughter
a cockerel for the family meal will get permission from the
head of the family or her first male born. The irony is that every
member of the household contributes to the acquisition
of the family’s asset. The land, for instance is tilled by men,
women and children. Crops produced, however are owned
by the man. Excess surplus is always sold by the woman and
the money given to the man to spend sometimes on drinking
sprees. Women and children have no authority over the
crops they produce and all this is because the lands on which
the crops are produced belong to the man.
This brings me to the issue of freedom of movement in northern
Uganda. On days or hours when the man is not engaged
in his daily chores at home, he is free to travel, say to visit
friends and relatives and on market days, he can spend time
with folks till late or till the next day. Some actually spend
two to three days. They don’t have to explain to anybody
where they delayed. Men and boys control their movements
while the wife and girls are controlled by their husbands and
brothers respectively. Onen Lateny, an Acholi elder said to
me that there is a popular saying among the Acholi that “Ka
wot pa coo pe kipenyo” loosely meaning “Men don’t have to
explain where they are going or have been”. If a man or boy
is leaving home or has returned home after unusually taking
long out and his wife, mother or sister enquires where he is
going or has been, the man or boy is often offended. His
answer will be “ka wot pa coo pe kipenyo”. Women and girls
on the other hand, cannot leave home or spend long outside
without the permission of their husbands and brothers. The
exception to this is when they are working on the family garden
or doing such roles as collecting firewood and drawing
water. But even here, the women are not expected to take
long. They are supposed to return early and release the men
to go for whatever they chose including fool’s errands.
Division of labour is equally abusive. Acholi culture promotes
hard work but women are expected to perform extra duties.
The man, his wife/wives and children of seven years and
above are expected to work on the family garden. Children
lead the way, followed by the wife and the patriarch is last.
As they return home in the evening, the woman, her baby on
the back, is carrying firewood, the cassava or sweet potatoes
for today’s dinner, her hoe and the man’s. The man is empty
handed or carrying an axe or spear. Upon reaching home,
the woman’s additional responsibilities begin including fetching
water, bathing children and preparing dinner. Children
and women are overworked in this setting yet they get the
least reward for their labour. When the women or children
complain, they are punished for acting contrary to cultural
dictates.
The least reward women get for hard work is because they
are regarded as foreigners. The Acholi political systems, like
most systems of Africa, are clanic. The wife is regarded as
member of another clan. “Dako pe wati”, or “a wife is not
your relative” is a common adage. Not a relative because
she belongs to another clan (Personal communication with
Geresoni Obong, an Acholi elder). A relative must be a clan
mate. When boys are being tested whether they are old
enough for marriage, they are asked “If ordered to kill either
your wife or daughter, which one will you kill and why?”
The intelligent boy is expected to say he will kill the wife
because he can be exorcised of that crime. The Acholi believe
that one who advertently murders a relative will never
be cleansed. One’s daughter is a relative because she is a
clan mate. This opinion about women is not unique. A Dinka
(southern Sudan ethnic group) riddle poses that: If you were
crossing a river with your cow and wife and there is danger
of drowning and you can save only one of them, which one
would you save? The answer is that you save the cow because
with it you can marry another woman.
Conclusion
Domestic violence as stated by (Guileine, 2012) is a crime
that can include physical abuse, emotional abuse, economic
abuse, and sexual abuse. It is a pattern of behavior used to
establish power and control over another person through
fear and intimidation, often including the threat and use of
violence. Partners may be married or not married; heterosexual,
gay, or lesbian; living together or dating. Those involved
in a domestic violence situation may be romantically involved
or not, e.g., they may be related to each other or simply living
in the same house or belong to the same family. Among
the Acholi, like most Africans, domestic violence stems from
culture. Cultural attributes empower men and boys to have
absolute control over their wives and sisters. In the process of
exerting their cultural hegemony, the men and boys commit
domestic violence inadvertently. Due to cultural dominance,
the victims may not even know that domestic violence has
been committed.
Stay in the forum for Series thirty is on the way ------>
EM
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