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From: "Joe Clarke" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: "William H. Magill" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Sunday, January 02, 2005 12:35 PM
Subject: Re: [UC] Re: Scams In General - Welcome to my crisis


> Two indicators that I use, and I've learned them from repeated
experiences,
> are 1: if I am approached suddenly in a gas station or a parking lot.
People
> are more vulnerable in these places of transit because they are there a
> brief time, don't know anyone and they can't deny that they have money.
> And 2: the more elaborate the tale the less likely it is to be true.  I
> offered once to pay the tow company with a check in order to transport the
> broken down vehicle, etc...  I received the same response as Bill did to
his
> offer of a token.   Now that I think of it there is one more indicator and
> that is when the con-artist approaches you with "I'm not a bum; I'm a
> college professor (btw who says a college professor can't be a bum?)"  Or
> also the quick, "Yes my name is _____ and my sister lives across the
street
> and I."...and he acts very familiar with you and the neighborhood.   I
find
> the faster the transaction the more likely it is a fake.
>      I've seen a man/woman team who would have their car broke down, with
> hood up and all on an exit ramp or on the side of a busy road.  The second
> time I saw them do this I drove by and watched the expressions on their
> faces as they tried to flag down the next unwitting soul to drive by.
>     As a social worker, I've learned that crises are usually the result of
> other long standing difficulties that will not yield to an 11th hour quick
> fix.  It is a temptation to fly into crisis mode with a client, but it is
> usually ineffective and further supports the crisis-fix-crisis cycle.
>
> Joe C.
>

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