Sim kuring heunteu nyandung..... mung satuju kanu nyandung ... kumaha teu satuju da eta aya dina hukum Islam (Al Qur'an), upami teu nampi hukum eta berarti Islamna heunteu kaffah (sampurna). Perkawis aya anu nyangsarakeun... eta mah amalan jalmina we anu teu leres... sanes ijid kana hukumna. Janten sakali deui kedah dibentenkeun antawis hukum sareng amalan jalmi anu ngalaksanakeun eta hukum, sapertos sirah sareng kopeah.... upami kopeah logor... anu digentos kopeahna sanes sirahna diageungan
Sim kuring oge gaduh ari conto mah... ieu asli aya jalmina sanes karangan.. mung namina moal disebat da kedah aya widi ti anjeuna heula upami bade disebatkeun mah..... Jalmina teh lulusan ti ITB jurusan Kimia murni angkatan 1980, anjeuna ayeuna nuju ngumbara di Ingris neraskeun kuliah S2 teras S3 diditu.... taun kamari anjeuna ngintunkeun foto waktos di wisuda S2 anu matak helok teh dina foto sanes anjeuna nyalira... geuning kumplit sabondoroyot.... dua bojo sareng putra-putrana... singhoreng nyandung.... tapi layeut.... di sabumikeun deuih.... Teras abdi oge kantos kapungkur nuju kuliah keneh.... nganjang ka Al-Arqom (cabangna ti Malaysia) hoyong terang we konsep ajaran aranjeuna.... da baraya sa Isalam keneh ... sareng heunteu ngamurtadkeun anu teu sapaham sareng maranehna sapertos jamaah ahmadiyah... Tah... diaranjeuna mah... nyandung teh.... dianjurkeun pisan.... malahan mah anu mirari istri kadua teh ku istri nu kahiji.... anu mirari istri ka tilu ku istri ka dua... anu mirari istri ka opat ku istri katilu..... duh...meni nikmat..... caroge mah kantun... ijab qabul wae.... Tos ah cag.... upami aya nu lepat hapunten.... eta mah kakirangan diri simkuring ;D EH -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of AA misan Sent: 08 Februari 2006 12:36 To: [email protected] Subject: RE: [Urang Sunda] "Sangsara"na Nyandung .......... Rek ulubiung ah pedah eta we geuning teu saeutik nu resep kana masalah 'panyakit' nyandung. Sateuacana atuh punten yeuh ka nu keur nyarandung alias ka nu keur ngarandapan panyakit nu matak nyangsarakeun ieu. Dina rohangan ieu kuring mah ukur rek mere conto fakta alias teu fiktif. Boga emang (moal disebutkeun timana jeung ngarana mah bisi aya balukarna jeung jadi panyakit keur kuring), alhamdulillah jumeneng keneh nepi ka ayeuna tapi kadieukeuna kalah leuwih ripuh jeung sangsara oge butak mastakana najan pereneh jadi kades . Kieu caritana ; baheula mah (aeh can lila teuing ketah) basa si emang can jadi kapala desa, pamajikan hiji, anak dua sarakola di kota, ngabogaan cita-cita hayang jadi kades jeung proyek kahiji nu dicutat dina agendana teh nyaeta hayang ngaspal jalan desa nu cenah mah ti jaman walanda keneh jalan ieu teh can perenah ngambeu aspal. Alhamdulillah cita-cita si emang laksana pedah pinter ngabako jeung pidato dina unggal rereongan, tapi saanggeus mancen tugas jadi kades agenda kahiji nyaeta ngaspal jalan desa teh taya buktina. Malah ngadua alias nyandung ka kembang desa ngora keneh pisan nu jadi tatangga tur ngabogaan anak dua. Tos ah dipungkas dugi kadieu ti mimiti si emang dirapalan nu kadua kalina dugi ka kiwari sabab matak butak sirah ngabandunganana. Dina pamilihan kades nu kadua mah si emang euweuh nu ngalieuk, jigana mah ijideun pedah taya bukti fisik keur desa eta .Kalahkah beak banda keur ongkos kampanye, jalan desa tetep taringgul jeung kahayang si emang nyakolakeun anakna ka paguron luhur teu laksana. Beu karunya eta pun emang, tapi ah bongan saha da polah sorangan . Tetela nyandung teh panyakit nu nyangsarakeun kulawarga sakabeh. Pan dosa badag nu kieu teh, sanes ? Hapunteh garihal pisan babasaan kuring mah pedah keur rada keuheul ka nu ngahalalkeun nyandung padahal nyandung teh (sarerea oge tos uninga) nyangsarakeun masarakat, minimal kulawargana sorangan. Naha nu kieu lain dosa badag? Aeh simkuring oge dosa ketah ngomongkeun batur (baca : nu nyarandung) bari jeung can tangtu aya patula-patalina jeung kuring. Sakali deui hapunten . Ki sobat Misan == totong usman <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Simkuring mah atoh seueur nu nyonto Rosulullah nyandung teh... Da simkuring mah can bisa boro-boro nyandung, hiji ge can aya Kanu bade nyandung ulah hilap nyonto rosul nyaeta nu kedah di tikah teh Nyaeta janda nu butuh pitulung nu loba budakna Bae hideung jeung goreng patut ge da ngarana nulungan........ Heu euhhhh........... Ngaku nyonto rosul ari dibere nyandung ka nini loba budak embeung.... Tapi hayang ka awewe ngora parawan herang mencrang........ Bohong nyandung nyonto rosul teh...... Punten achhhh.....kanu nyandung -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, February 08, 2006 6:21 AM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [Urang Sunda] "Sangsara"na Nyandung .......... kalieur lieur, make nyandung.... hiji oge can tangtu beak kang.... Da Rosul mah nyandung oge,sanes jiga urang. Tapi Anjeuna mah nulung ka randa anu dikantun sahid ku carogena. Ari urang daek kitu nyandung ka randa? Ulah milih anu herang tarangna, pilih randa anu kolot anu ripuh nganafakahan kulawargana. hihihi deny --- In [email protected], "Heryadi, Eddy" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Nepangkeun....ah abdi teh nembean lebet Kusnet.... > salam baktosna kanggo pinesepuh sadayana.... > abdi kawit ti Bandung....blasteran ti ibu urang Bandung sareng > Bapa urang Singapur........kabupaten Tasikmalaya ;) > Ayeuna ngumbara di Jakarta koreh...koreh cok... > > Asa ku ahengnya....di nagara Batur.... meunai gampil nyandung teh... > Ari di urang sunda aya kitu anu leah...... dicandung ku akang... > > > ;D > > > -----Original Message----- > From: [email protected] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Behalf Of sara raka > Sent: 07 Februari 2006 18:58 > To: [email protected] > Subject: Re: [Urang Sunda] "Sangsara"na Nyandung .......... > > > > arab2 na ari maneh; asa lubak libuk ku harta..pagawean kitu peta...ah maneh > mah teu obahna weh kawas urang liberal di indonesia jeung di barat; sagala > teh ngalajur hawa nafsu; atuh ari kitu mah jalanna, nyaa lieur atuh... > > > arab mangga buka deui sastra2 arab nu ngageuingkeun masalah harta jeung > harti oge istri.... > > upama hate anjeun heras mangga weh, saheras2na..... disungkun ceuk > paribasana mah... > > > punten yeuh rada garihal basa di abdi, hapunten.... > > > soni rosa <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Pami kang Waluya anu janten pria arabna kinten2na bade > depresi? > HE..HE... > > On Fri, 03 Feb 2006 05:55:04 -0000 > "waluya56" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Tadi kuring posting "nikmat"na nyandung, tah kumaha > >lamun dina jero 6 > > bulan kudu boga pamajikan langsung opat urang? Wartos > >tina detikcom > > ieu, nyarioskeun "lalakon" lalaki urang Arab Saudi nu > >ngalaman eta: > > > > Dipaksa Kawini 4 Istri dalam 6 Bulan, Pria Saudi Depresi > > > > Rita Uli Hutapea - detikcom > > > > Gara-gara kebanyakan istri, seorang pria harus dirawat > >di rumah > > sakit. Dia depresi karena orangtuanya menyuruh dirinya > >menikahi empat > > perempuan dalam 6 bulan. Walah! > > > > Kejadian ini menimpa seorang pria Arab Saudi. Yang > >menjadi biang > > kerok adalah ayah dan ibunya yang telah bercerai. > > Semua bermula ketika sang ayah bersikeras bahwa anaknya > >itu harus > > beristrikan seorang perempuan dari pihak keluarganya. > >Pria Saudi itu > > pun menuruti kemauan ayahnya. Dan terjadilah pernikahan > >pertama. > > Namun sang ibu tidak terima. Dia pun memaksa putranya > >itu untuk > > mengawini perempuan lain yang masih ada hubungan > >keluarga dengan sang > > ibu. Jadilah pria itu mempersunting istri kedua. > > Demikian diberitakan surat kabar lokal, Al-Watan dan > >dilansir > > Ananova, Jumat (3/2/2006). > > > > Situasi pun memanas. Ayah pria yang tidak disebutkan > >namanya itu, > > tidak senang dengan keadaan yang 1-1 ini. Dia ingin > >menunjukkan bahwa > > dirinyalah yang jadi bos. Sehingga putranya itu > >disuruhnya untuk > > mengawini perempuan lain dari pihak keluarga si ayah. > >Lagi-lagi, sang > > anak menuruti kehendak ayahnya dan terjadilah pernikahan > >ketiga. > > > > Melihat ini, sang ibu tidak mau kalah. Dia memaksa > >anaknya untuk > > mempersunting perempuan lain dari pihak keluarganya. > >Jadilah pria > > Saudi itu kawin untuk keempat kalinya. > > > > Rentetan kawin paksa itu terjadi hanya dalam waktu 6 > >bulan. Pemaksaan > > orangtuanya membuat pria itu tidak tahan lagi. 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