d) Most of you guys are going to say "Get a decent MTA". Some of you might
Didn't you say you were using qmail? Or am I misremembering/misinterpreting? If you are using qmail for MTA, I'm reasonably sure I recall discussion of patches to qmail to make it Do The Right Thing that are available on some web site. The discussion I seem to recall is that it does the Wrong Thing by default, but someone had a functional and (I think) simple fix.
Loren
