Nick; I look at it this way You don't have a problem until you actually have a job. Go to the interview knock their pants off and then when they offer the job bring up the plans when you call to accept it, If they are adamant you must start, skip the sow bug family is definitely more important. If they are willing go and have fun. The point is don't give them anything to push them against you if they are on the fence. Don't try to solve problems before they are problems. Get the job first, then worry about the sow bug
Mike M. -----Original Message----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Niclas Runarsson Sent: Thursday, March 02, 2006 4:28 PM To: [email protected] Subject: RE: [VFB] Sowbug-major bother... need prayers for sure. John... and the rest who have pointed out to me that family and job comes first. I should mention that I'm on the same line there, no doubt. And several also commented on the line I wrote about not mentioning it. I didn't plan to go that way either. I will be honest with them, lay it out the best way I can... and hope for them to understand. (That's where your prayers will come into the picture.) Some also mentioned that employers usually are understanding regarding this kind of thing and I can see that. But, since this town has a VERY high percent of people without jobs, employers also use it to its limits. If a guy has children, he probably will have to stay home a few days more than the guy without any... if one guy doesn't have a driver's license, he might come in late more often than the other... and if one guy won't be present for the first week, there will be a lot of others to chose from that will. The point is, if I was one of FEW in the pile and turned out to be best suited for the job, chance would be good that they would sacrifice those few days. Now, the number is so high that I will have several beside me, just as good as me, who WILL be ready to start at once... (adding: who WILL have a driver's license, who will NOT have epilepsy, and who will NOT have children). I don't know if it even WILL conflict since I don't know when it starts. If it will, I will do my interview as smooth as I can and hope for the best... but ULTIMATELY, I will do what's best for my family. /Nick -----Ursprungligt meddelande----- Från: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] För [EMAIL PROTECTED] Skickat: den 2 mars 2006 19:05 Till: [email protected] Ämne: RE: [VFB] Sowbug-major bother... need prayers for sure. I wouldnt even give it another thought. Skip Sowbug and come next year!
