I have experienced problems like you describe.
I found my solution here.
http://www.thexlab.com/faqs/trash.html

hope this helps

robin


On 20/11/2011, at 9:15 PM, Bill Parker wrote:

> Folks,
> 
> I want to empty my trash, but cannot. It says it contains 1285 files but I 
> can only count 53.  I have tried either remove all of remove unlocked. Same 
> result.   I have in the recent file clunts of 2 - 3000 items when visibly at 
> least there is no such quantity there.
> 
> Turned machine off and re-start. No avail.
> 
> Mac book pro 10.6.8
> 
> Bill
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